Do you choose your diapers based on comfort, practicality, absorbancy or looks?

My disposable diapers have to be:

Comfortable

Snug fitting

Absorbant

Plastic outer cover

My first criteria is capacity and then comfort.

Practicality first, comfort second. Looks don't figure.

I think that absorbency is probably first on my list. Not too concerned with looks altho I do like the prints and the pink ones. My current go to diaper is the Abena M4. I find them to be a good value for the money. Fairly thick which I like and hold a considerable amount. After reading so many good things about the Rearz brand I decided to spurge and buy a pack. I got the plain white ones, Inspire +. Boy are they amazing. Fit is excellent and they do hold an amazing amount and still fit well after numerous wettings. I love them I just wish they weren't so expensive.

I have urge urinary incontinence and need to wear 24/7. My top priorities are how much urine the diaper will hold and comfort. My current favourite is BetterDry.

I base on two things 1.is absorbency 2. Is the front end.

When your in a wheelchair the front of the diaper is going to get abused , As in super soaked before the rest of the diaper is even damp, so it has to have a front end that doesnt collapse or crumble into a wad between your legs , so I rate diapers based on how they get used , IC people in wheelchairs are cruel anf unusual punishment of the diaper , thats why i have to wear one every change for an entire day before deciding my opionion on any particular disposable diaper .

So that's how I pick them .trial and lots ofverror.

Always absorbancy as I hate leaks, so it is usually a very bulky disposable nappy I wear such as a Tena maxi slip or

ID expert super and much prefer the plastic backed slips as they feel very comfortable.

So in order of priority they are

1 absorbancy

2 comfort

3 looks

3 looks are pretty irrelevant as only i get to see them and i always put three stretch pants over them to reduce bulk and a PUL

Plastic pant over the whole lot for extra leak protection.

I always choose them on absorbency as you need them to be able to hold a lot but comfort comes in a close second.

I usually end up waiting as long as possible to cage into a new diaper so how comfortable it is dry or wet is definitely a priority for me. All my diaper fun is done at home so the absorbency of the diaper isn't a big issue for me.

For me, I like my diapers to be first and foremost comfortable. I like a snug fit and how they look is also important. I can always add bulk in the way of boosters for absorbency. But I also enjoy a thick, absorbent diaper as well!

What is with the diapers thing? you wear them as a baby and when you are very old. I mean really..what is going on here?

Marisa the diaper thing is about regression to a time that was safe and comfortable. A lot of diaper lovers say they feel less stress when they are wearing diapers. It is a remarkable feeling to wear a nice thick diaper and just relax and pee in diaper. I know some find this weird but each person has there own kinks. My wife enjoys this very much she nurses me from her breast changes my diaper and all around cares for me. She is a dominant and loves to play other diaper games as well.

To the question I like thick highly absorbent plastic backed diapers. Added benefit if they have teddy bears or other figures on diapers.

What is with the diapers thing? you wear them as a baby and when you are very old. I mean really..what is going on here?

You are right! This is the problem of all the people refusing to become grown up.

You are right! This is the problem of all the people refusing to become grown up.

Somebody wasn't taught to play pretend...

It's a fetish in most cases. This is a fetish site. Not my thing but each to his/her own. If it's not your thing don't read the posts...simple.

You are right! This is the problem of all the people refusing to become grown up.[/quote

You don't have the right to judge others for there fetishes. If you don't like this topic then don't read it.

What is with the diapers thing? you wear them as a baby and when you are very old. I mean really..what is going on here?

Then don't read the diaper topics on here then.

What is with the diapers thing? you wear them as a baby and when you are very old. I mean really..what is going on here?

You are right! This is the problem of all the people refusing to become grown up.

I feel like I'm being kink shamed here. I don't kink shame your interests so don't shame mine.

I feel like I'm being kink shamed here. I don't kink shame your interests so don't shame mine.

Exactly. I'm very sad that you were made to feel that way, especially so on a site like this. If someone honestly doesn't understand or cannot be aroused by someone else's kink or fetish, they should just say so or ask respectful questions of them to try to understand it better. I've never been kink-shamed here in >3 years, even though at least one of my kinks seems to be so unusual that at most one other Zity member has said they like it also. But I've tried to offer explanations at times for why things turn me on, with greater or lesser success, since most of them I don't really understand well myself even after many years. I just try to enjoy them without causing harm or offense to anyone else here since we're all looking at least for an outlet to share our unusual interests. If we're lucky we might get some feedback, useful information or even validation. I hope you can reveal or share things you cherish here and find some other folks you enjoy reading or talking to.

Eric

I just barely started with playing with disposable diapers over my enema hose to enhance both leak protection as well as nice submission and humiliation feelings. I bought one pack of I think D-----s which work well but need to be snugger or maybe hold more liquid. So if I buy more, I'll probably try for something that fits a bit more snugly. The current ones have 4 Velcro tabs but can only tighten so much.

Eric

I feel like I'm being kink shamed here. I don't kink shame your interests so don't shame mine.

Hopefully you realize that the vast majority of the folks on this site are perfectly fine with whatever kinks you enjoy! Diapers aren't my thing, and neither are enemas. But hey, if that's what you enjoy, more power to you. Please don't let one rather obnoxious new poster to this site ruin the experience for you.

Comfort and absorbency they have to be thick and they have to be plastic

My diapers are based on comfort and absorbancy. Plus they have to have plastic outer cover.

Comfort, but mostly absorbancy. I love being in a thick disposable, but that isn't always an option. As it's not discreet enough. Though I love seeing myself with a very obvious diaperbutt and diaperbulge in the front. Also how my diaper feels between my legs, causing a slight waddle.

That however is only at home

First priority is getting the right size as this may limit some other choices, such as looks. I require a rather larger size. Plastic outer cover is required. Comfort and absorbency are next.

Looks don’t really come in to it. However, I confess I would like diapers with some colourful patterns on them. Perhaps pink diapers or white diapers with little pink animal prints etc. Not sure what my carers would think but if I were wearing a diaper as part of a Dom/Sub play then they would be ideal.

What is with the diapers thing? you wear them as a baby and when you are very old. I mean really..what is going on here?

I've just started wearing diapers at night as I had a pee accident in bed on all new bedding, linens and blankets. None was damaged; but, I'm not willing to risk it again. I'm 72 (BTW, that's not "very old" in my mind) and lost my prostate to cancer 11 years ago. I will continue wearing diapers at night. That said, I enjoy the softness of the diapers and am seriously considering wearing them every day. Because I gave my ass a great workout today with a series of enemas and over an hour of stretching and penetration with my toys, I have one on right now in case there is still anything in me that didn't get expelled. I don't think there is, but, I don't want to risk it.

I also have a 12" double header in my butt at this moment. With a diaper on, I can press on my abdomen and force it part way out and then squeeze my butt muscles to push it back in. When it comes out ever so slightly, I have no worries if there were a slight leakage.

Finally, as long ago as I can remember, I have always enjoyed giving myself golden showers in the tub. I mean back to ages 9 or 10. I still enjoy them on an almost daily basis. I will occasionally, while laying on my back in the tub, spray it such that I can drink some pee. Since I'm definitely into pee, I'm thinking I might well enjoy purposely peeing in my diapers and waiting 15 - 20 minutes before removing them. In fact, one morning a week or so ago, when I first woke up I laid in bed and peed just a small amount in my diaper. However, I got out of bed pretty quick and discarded them.

So, in my case some of the diaper wearing is a perceived necessity while some of it plays to a fetish. I do not want to role play as a baby. I want to combine safety, comfort, and kink.

My apologies. With my previous post I forgot the original question of this thread.

I have only been wearing diapers for a few months and mostly only at night. I've only worn Depends Fit Flex diapers at this point. The are quite comfortable and not at all noisy. I don't believe anyone would know they are being worn. From regular weight and volume checking, I know my first pee in the morning is always at least 16 oz. I think that may be the limit for this brand/style so I may well investigate other brands.

Absorbancy and comfort are all I'm concerned about. I don't care at all about looks.

Looks are the least important thing for me - I'd be happy if all disposables were plain white with a small stripe of colour for brand/size identification and/or wetness indication.

Absorbency is important and I always aim for the most absorbent products, but I'm not worried if they're 3500ml or 4500ml, etc. just as long as they're thick.

Comfort is a hard thing to decide on - on one hand I want my disposables to be very thick and somewhat restrictive/obvious to wear. But on the other hand I don't want them to be uncomfortable to wear over an extended period. I think that as long as I have the correct size disposable, they will be appropriately comfortable. I confess that I've never encountered an uncomfortable disposable except for some Molicares I once brought some years ago.

Practicality is probably the most important feature I look for in disposables. The tapes have to be easy to use, be re-positionable and be secure for an extended period of time. I prefer plastic backed nappies as they are more practical for me (and I want to enjoy the noise and touch sensation). The leg cuffs and elastic should ensure no leaks of course.

And the best disposable I've ever worn... the original Abri-form X-Plus.

The rude poster is long gone, I think IIts obvious that her behavior was not going to be tolerated.

Everyone here will be respected for their individual kinks regardless if they are your/ our thing or not . 😃

Thanks Bridgette, very well said and your a very respectful member to the Zity gang! Indiana