Age Difference Between Doctor And Patient

Ladies,

Does an appreciable age difference between doctor and patient aggrandize the eroticism you experience? The young lady willingly presents her naked body for a thorough inspection by an older gentleman. This would almost always be considered contrary to societal norms, save the physical exam. The physical exam exhibits all of the hallmarks of a sexual encounter, yet its intent is not to gratify one's libidinous desires. Does a situation with nudity and touching tantamount to sex, yet completely lacking concupiscence, excite you? Does permitting allowance to a middle aged man to view and touch your denuded body arouse you?

Age gaps make everything better, always ♡

This is a great topic ! I would be interested to hear from the younger patient / older doctor, as well as the older patient / younger doctor scenarios.

I've fantasized about being a doc for older women patients, and wonder how they would feel about the scenario.

I was about 30 when I started practice and in my 60s when I retired. Always had a mix of patients younger and older than I. Don't think I thought about age differences either as a doctor or a patient.

I'm going to be totally honest here but don't want to offend anyone . So please don't take it the wrong way .

I see a lot of Drs all at various levels in their chosen field . I much prefer it if the dr is older than me .

There are a few reasons ;

I find an older male dr has a better bedside manner . They are willing to take time to explain things properly and are usually very knowledgeable in their chosen field.

I feel more relaxed talking to an older dr.

During the exam I'm able to totally switch off any erotic thoughts or feelings that I may have . But then happily have some very happy erotic memories for fun times .

I find a dr that is older than me by a good 10 years or so extremely hot !!!

I never say anything if the dr is younger than me even a junior. I just let them do their job . I regularly am a patient for the trainees on ward rounds and also when they take their end of year exams .

Nikki

Interesting thread! If I went to a doctor 10 years older than I then the poor medico would have at least one foot in the grave!

Lol John , very funny comment :

Interesting thread! If I went to a doctor 10 years older than I then the poor medico would have at least one foot in the grave!

When I was a young adult, I have always preferred to be examined by an older doctor who could have the age of my parents, either a man or a woman and I was very impressed by the white coat like when I was a teenager, it was important for me that a doctor ( like a nurse) was not wearing civilian clothes, I was also preferring a rather tough and strict doctor, I liked the idea that I was over the control of the doctor. like at school exams or draft physical examinations

I did not like that the doctor was too much friendly if I had to undress.

More I was undressed at a job physical or a complete check up in a medical clinic, more I preferred that the doctor was older than me and strict.

Now that I am older, of course it is different, I cannot have doctors older than me, they have the same age or are younger.

If they are younger, I prefer a younger woman doctor.

Although specifically aimed at the female members I do think this topic can be equally applicable to the male members of out little community. The disparity between a doctor's and patient age is more applicable to us as children or young adults . Regardless of the sex of the doctor , its always somewhat anxiety provoking when nudity is involved in an examination

During our formative and teen years its always difficult when we have to undress for a doctor's exam as we all experience feeling of anxiety, embarrassment as our body's change and develop especially if its involves examination of our genitals , whether your are male or female. This is further compounded if you have to see a doctor of the opposite sex as is often the case.

As Nikki as mention for the majority of us , erotic or sexual thoughts at the time of the exams are the furthest thing from our thoughts., in hindsight/reflection some sexual elements may come into our thoughts , fantasies etc and may contribute to us developing medfet tendencies.

During the exam I'm able to totally switch off any erotic thoughts or feelings that I may have . But then happily have some very happy erotic memories for fun times .

As we get older then the disparity in age is revered as we are older than the doctor and we are less anxious about nudity . However we do at times now question the skills , knowledge and expertise of the younger doctor. We also become more conducive to letting the younger doctors and medical students exam us and learn about our conditions , treatment etc . As quite frankly at times we are more knowledgeable about our condition and treatment than they are .

As highlighted by Nikki:

I never say anything if the dr is younger than me even a junior. I just let them do their job . I regularly am a patient for the trainees on ward rounds and also when they take their end of year exams .

My doctor is a few years younger than me. She isn't stuck up and is down to earth. Plus she is pretty. The first doctor was the one who delivered my sister and I. She was way older. But either way the age gap doesn't bother me.

Very interesting question. Up until a couple of months ago all of my medical providers had been older than me. But now that I'm getting older the doctors are getting younger and younger. The nurse practitioner that I have seen for the past 10 years retired earlier this year. A couple of weeks ago I a little accident while cleaning out the garage (shelving unit came crashing down on me). I seemed fine, finished cleaning out the garage, installed a new shelving unit (haha) and went about my day. A couple of days later some very awkward bruising appeared on my back and left side below rib cage. I called the doctor's office and of course they reminded me that my provider had retired and thus I could choose someone, if I had ever seen one of the other doctors or NPs, otherwise I would just be assigned to the next available doctor.

Since I didn't know any of the other staff and I should probably see someone sooner than later I chose the next available appointment. That afternoon, I met the youngest doctor I have ever known. Now you would think that I would have been ecstatic to be tended to by a young attractive female doctor, but it was actually very nerve racking and somewhat embarrassing. So much so, that I'm not sure if I will ask for a different doctor.

As noted, we spend the first 60 to 40 years of our life seeing docs who are older. Then there is a phase where many docs are roughly our contemporaries. Then we reach the phase where most docs are younger. Time marches on. I'm 63 now, and if I were to see a new doc, I'd hope she/he was younger than me. Medical science continues to progress, so I don't really want a doc who hasn't seen med school in 40 years.