Asking For Help With An Enema

Who here has found it embarrassing to ask for help with an enema, and yet somehow incredibly erotic at the same time ??? Back in my college days, I think was a time where my enema fetish truly heightened......I had two female roommates at the time , and though enemas were never openly discussed between us, I at times left my enema bag hanging to dry after a good session, and in doing so, forgot to put it away and one of those times it finally came to pass that Terry, asked me if I had been feeling okay, and I said sure, why do you ask ??? Well she said she saw my enema bag left hanging on the towel rack in the bathroom and just was wondering.....I was not too sure if she was asking of mere curiosity or genuine concern but I was going to find out......I admitted to her that I used enemas quite frequently and told her that often times for me it was the only thing that really worked to get things " moving" again.......With that she then asked if the enema I had earlier that morning had really done the trick--- I knew then I had an opportunity to possibly find a new giver and was going to just come out and ask ......With that I could not believe what was leaving my lips, but I said it regardless, I replied to her , well kind of, but I knew you would be home after a bit and really wanted to finish up before you got back home.....After that I said to her, " would you mind it terribly if I were to get things ready and have your help with a couple more enemas, to make sure that the enemas are really doing their thing ??? " She looked kind of shocked at first, but then to my surprise readily agreed that she would in fact give me the enemas I needed to help me out---no matter how many it took to do so.....With that statement, I figured she was a closet enema lover, and was going to be eager to give me enemas whenever I thought I might be in need .....It was embarrassing for me to mutter those words, but we shared many enemas through my college years and we still keep in touch to this day......Anyone else here ever find it embarrassing or difficult to ask for help with your enemas ??? Just kind of curious about this and I guess I always have been......

I've been fortunate enough to meet several females who enjoy erotic enemas. They frequently call and ask for an "assist"

When my neighbor saw the bag hanging in the shower , she said if I ever needed help just ask

If I ever need help, I have a husband whom, I have no doubt would help me. We don't need to be embarrassed by anything when it's just the two of us.

I didnt have a choice growing up ,my uncle insisted on helping me with every enema from age 13 to 19

Your gutsiness about enemas, often taboo in society, certainly paid off!

It would be a dream--an embarrassing one--to have someone ASK if they could help. I'm not sure I'd ever be comfortable asking myself, unless I knew they shared my interest.

Did your enemas with your college friend ever turn sexual? Anna

E-L-M-W,

Now that's the kind of college roommate (or current lover) I wished I'd had! Nice work!

Eric

Back in the 60's I was flying around the NW in a Beech Debonair selling airplane parts in WA, OR, ID, MT and Alaska....a great job. On a Montana I got pretty bound up and caught in a snowstorm between Bilings and Bozeman and had to land at this small strip. There was a motel nearby. After registering I asked the motel Mgr if there was a drugstore within walking distance, and she said, "No". --then as an after-thought asked the problem... when i told her she acted pretty fast, picking up the phone and calling her husband and told him to bring some things from their home. They lived right next door. I wrote about this some time ago, check out "A MONTANA ENEMA".

Another time I had a nice Mgr loan me her Combo Bag with the two black nozzles....but no asking if I needed any help. --oh well, not ALL bad!

the boxcar

I just couldn't do this. I've only been assisted by 2 people in my entire life, my mother and my wife. And they both offered. I never had to ask.

I've been married to the same lady for a VERY long time, over 40 years, and it is still embarrassing to ask her to give me an enema. She always does, and doesn't seem to mind helping me, but she would rather die than take one herself. I know she will help me whenever I ask, but it is always embarrassing to ask and always tension filled because I know she doesn't like doing it. For days afterward, I must endure guesses about what I ate that stopped me up "so badly that I needed an enema". Then a long series of dinners designed to make things move better. I've told her on more than one occasion that I didn't like trying to use laxatives or small chemical enemas. She has never accused me of liking enemas, but I'm sure she knows that I do. Neither of us has ever acknowledged my liking them. I do have to be very careful not to ask too often because if I do, the tension around the house goes up several notches and I feel her "coolness" to the point where I have to ware a sweater, even if its summer!

I've had a few enema playmates over the years, with me usually on the giving end. I wish I knew someone local who would be interested in helping me out on a regular basis (or vice versa). My wife knows I take them, and thinks it's a little weird, but has no interest in them at all.

It would be exciting if a friend offered to help, with only the tension of the humiliation at play and no expectation of any specifically kinky play. In fact, I think that scenario of someone just helping administer it would in some ways be more erotic than if it was expressly a "play" session.

So far it has not happened.

I am sure my husband, if available would give me any help I need. So would my father, so I don't think about it beyond that.

Good Morning Everyone, I have something to ask you all here and this has been on my mind for a while now....How many of you here have asked for help with enemas as adults, NOT as kids , and gotten very turned on by asking for help with this from a husband or wife or very close friend, or whomever, during the course of the conversation, and then part of this also includes getting the nerve up to ask for help with it....How many of you here have experienced this ?? I will readily admit that it has happened to me numerous times and still does from time to time when I ask my roomie to help me or my neighbor....I feel very submissive in this act and often times, will carry on the conversation just to feel this sort of stimulation or arousal ....The second leg of this is also setting up the time or arrangements to have the actual enema session take place or occur--this can also be extremely arousing in and of itself......I will usually make arrangements for the following day or morning, sometimes though it has happened later on that same afternoon or evening .....I prefer to be given enemas, though like many of you here, a good deal of them have been solo, but if you have asked for help with this, how many of you here have gotten very aroused by asking for help and gotten so turned on by it , that you had to masturbate not too long afterwards ?? Please help me with this as I am very curious about this and have been for sometime now .... Thanks everyone and I look forward to reading your responses to this question .....

Yes I agree. I think asking is arousing and of course submissive. You are not alone

Sounds like I'm fortunate to have a husband who is willing to help with an enema if I need it. He doesn't much like to get them, but he rather enjoys giving and taking care of me if I am not feeling well. Enemas are very infrequent, and if I ask, it's because I'm too sick or stressed out to do it myself.

It is often difficult to seek help or assistance with such personal needs. I think many of us felt overly guilty about our secretive enjoyment of this procedure and were unwilling to admit to employing such remedies.

There did come a time when I realized that my inclinations would go unfulfilled (pun?) if I were too shy, embarrased, or macho to seek help with such a thing. Those missed opportunities have become a source of self loathing at times.

That being said, I figured out that I would be frustrated for a long, long time if I didn't change my attitude. So yes, I have asked for help and enjoyed the TLC and/or total eroticism on occasion. While not every indulgence results in that ultimate outcome, the process and procedure are without equal.

For those who have willing partners, or providers available as needed, be thankful and enjoy "Enema Heaven". When others are unavailable, be thankful as I am, that I learned at a tender young age to indulge myself as well.

BTW...there are times when it's better to give than receive!

Like Vicky V, I consider myself very lucky that my husband gives me an enema when I ask him to. Sometimes he even volunteers, if my stomach hurts or if I have a bad headache, or......(other reasons).......❤.

My best friend has given me a few enemas over the years and would anytime I ask her though we live about 150 miles from each other.

My Mom would ask my Grandmother and her Aunt, who was a stern RN to give her enemas. I recall she would moan very loudly when my Aunt did the honors.

Unfortunately, as I notice, there are only a few who have a partner on their side who also likes enemas. I think that's a pity.

Enemas are also part of health care. They work, for example, on stomach and intestinal problems, have a soothing effect on headaches and much more. Enemas are among the oldest home remedies. In my childhood I always felt the enema bulb when I had a constipation. That was normal. But for me at the time just terrible and never thought that it would be fun once.

At some point, I was attracted to shop windows by drugstores, which were full of enema utensils. It even occurred to me that I'm somehow perverse. But once when I had a girlfriend who told me she would like it be clean during sex and we had to do a few enemas before. That was the key experience. I found it very exciting to give her enemas and also to get some from her hand.

My wife today, with whom I have been married for over 38 years, did not like these things at the beginning. Her attitude changed when she had a severe constipation. Of course, as an enema lover I always had an enema bulb at home, just in case. With that I freed her from her constipation. She was amazed at how easy it was, and even took a liking to it.

At some point later she said that she would like to do that to me. Then we did, and I noticed that she could not stop pushing one filling after another into me. She felt so excited that she said that I would have to give her some enemas afterwards as well.

Since then, our equipment is at least similar to what I initially talked about the shop windows of the drugstores. We talk openly about it and who feels in the mood for an enema, just say that.

I never thought that my wife would become such an enema lover. Unfortunately, she only loves the small enema and prefers mainly the glass syringes. But she loves to give me very big enemas. It can become really energetic. You just can not have everything, but it's as beautiful as it is.

Wow, although I am more of a receiver and submissive my nature, if asked, I would gladly assist. Unfortunately, I have never been asked.

First time I asked my kids mom when we were together I was embarrassed and I always got turned down. The girl I’m with now as long as she’s not buisy she’ll spread my cheeks and stick the nozzle or shower hose right up there and hold it in as long as I want. She let me give her one one time. Got about 5 seconds into it and she wasn’t having it. But she’ll still give me a enema or a few suppositories if I ask her to with no complaints at all

I've written about this experience before in different threads, so I won't go into detail. My older daughter woke me late one night with unusually painful cramps and admitted that she was constipated and feeling really sick -- and did I have a laxative or suppository I could give her? I remember scolding her at first for letting this go so long, but then my maternal feelings obviously kicked in. I felt she needed an enema, and if she wanted my help, I would stay up with her. She had not had an enema in several years. The next hour or so turned out to be one of the nicest mother-daughter bonding experiences of my life. Jen and I recently had some serious arguments over her future, and it was nice to get back together -- and she gave me the biggest hug ever before she went back to bed. I hesitate to say that an enema (actually two enemas) brought us back together, but I think they helped! ?

When you do it over a video call and you both like enemas it is so nice. The gentle and deep voice of that person helping me with my enema and temp is something never forgotten. Quite sensual.

My Childhood experiences with the Enema was when my Mother would give it to me when I was sick.

Then after I left home I never had them for a number of years

Just about ALL the women Ive had in my life Gave me enemas when needed or asked for. A few of them like to be given the Enema as well as give. They were pretty much ALL done in a Sexual endeavor. This all started when I had a Girlfriend that was a Nurse back in the 70's. She enjoyed taking charge and giving them...and Did so whether I need them or not at her own discretion...Usually Wearing her panties Garters and Stockings, getting me totally aroused and then Hitting me with a Big Enema. Unfortunately due to life circumstances we separated. But those experiences stuck with me because those were my first of experiences with Girlfriends. Since then, if a Girlfriend became intimate, I would "test" her by throwing out some enema joke or topic in conversation, and see her reaction...I found that if a Girl was not going to indulge in my needs there the relationship did not last...Simply because if its not open enough and have enough feelings to satisfy or help the other then its worthless. I only had 2 of those situations.....the rest of women I had in my life readily Gave me the Enemas and some even enjoyed it and wanted them themselves. In order for good relationships to survive you must have good communications and openness. Otherwise its useless to pursue. My Wife will go all out to Give me on for the asking or even if she feels I need it....I've got to say I've been a very lucky guy.

Just recently this past weekend l found myself having a enema experience from a near stranger and TOTALLY unexpected situation. I was invited for a friends sons military graduation. And due to others in town for said event, space was limited. I was offered accommodations at my friends older sisters house. I said sure. She is widowed now 3yrs and quite a bit older. But a fantastic lady. On the 2rd day after the great ceremony and food, l retired back to her house to lounge and get ready to depart next AM. I made mention that l ate WAY too much great food and desserts and am paying the price for it. She asked if l had taken anything and said l had not and would wait to get home. She left the couch and was gone for awhile then called me back to her room.

She had made a towel pallet on bathroom floor and had a red combination bag hanging with a black curved nozzle waiting for me!!!!! She stated she used to volunteer at the hospital while her husband was away and gave many enemas as well as they themselves used them often as well as for her kids. She did not want me driving all the way home miserable. She offered to allow me to myself or she would help me. She then told me pull my shorts down and she would do it and l should just try to relax.

I layed down and pulled my jogging shorts off and she lubed up the nozzle and hung it, then slightly lubed me. She told me to relax and it would be done in a minute. She then pushed the nozzle in and released the water. After a bit it began to cramp and she said she always used soap and a dash of glycerin for herself and thats what she gave me. I fought to take the whole bag, but made it. She kept the nozzle in for a bit then removed it to allow me to use the toilet telling me hold it as long as possible to work better as she left the room and closed the door. I really needed it. I returned up front and she asked if l was better and l stated that l was much better now. She said that she felt so glad to have been able to help but felt unsure seeing we really didnt know each other that well either. I told her thats what women do for each other regardless. I left next AM early and had a huge bouquet of flowers delivered to her for being my newest best friend in my moment of need.

@Vicki_V It was all the caring. 😃

I don't know if it counts as asking for help but I did just say to my girlfriend (who is now my wife) that I was not waisting the time we had the house to ourselves and went to get the enema equipment so she ended up giving me the enema.

As I have written elsewhere, my younger sister was the only one of us three kids who relished an enema. She had no qualms about standing outside the bathroom, which was right next to my bedroom, and calling out to my mom that she needed an enema and would like some help.

On the other hand, I was anything but a fan and did whatever I could to avoid getting one. There was probably a 10 year span from my teenage years to when I was married and had become seriously bound up. I didn't ask for my wife's help, but certainly got it. As our marriage continued, my wife eventually wound up asking for my help, to which I readily agreed. Over the years we have both asked for and given assistance.

I was the first time I brought up the subject with my wife. She did assist me but was nervous. I have since self-administered.