For me, the difference between a good and a great enema does not depend on the solutions, positions or toys used. Since great sex starts in one's mind, a great enema is dependent upon the mental state of the individuals involved. The more I am aroused the better the enema will be. Through my youth and adult roleplay, I discovered some methods that increase my arousal before receiving an enema. As you will see, each one builds upon the other and the more of them that are used will result in greater pleasure for me.
1. Being told in advance that I will be receiving an enema. Sometimes the time span could be a couple of hours or a couple of days. The longer the span, the more my mind has time to think about the consequences. Most of the time, I would simply be told while on occasion the only notification I would receive is when I saw my name and the word enema on a calendar.
2. Reminders about my upcoming enema. Something as simple as "Don't forget that you will be getting an enema after school" would result in me obsessing over my impending enema.
3. The night before or the morning of the appointed day, all the items that were going to be used would be sitting on the bathroom counter. As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words. Seeing the bag, gloves, and tube of lubricant made me realize that it was soon going to happen, and I had no choice but to submit.
4. Being told to take a shower before my enema and to report back to the giver when I was done. Sometimes, I was to report back naked while other times I was allowed to wear a robe. When the giver wanted to humiliate me or was going to give me an enema shortly thereafter, I would be told to remain nude. If the time span between the shower and the enema was an hour or two, I would be told to wear a robe. When I was a child, my mother would tell me to relax and watch some television since she wasn't ready for me. In my adult life, my giver and I might share a bottle of wine before the start of the session.
5. Finally, being told that it was time and to follow the giver into the bathroom or bedroom. Before the giver prepared my enema, she would tell me how much solution I was going to be given and how long I was going to hold it. I would be told to put a towel on the bed or on the bathroom floor. As the giver watched, I was asked if I had any questions.
By this time, my mind was in super-charged mode. After all this, even if I was given a small disposable enema instead of a bulging bag, my state of arousal was through the roof and the enema session became a memorable event.