New internal medicine doctor for physical

I'm more gay than bi but contacted a clinic for a physical with a 30s female dr, internal medicine. I really want a thorough exam including rectal and genital. I;m having issues in those areas. I have a lot of irritable bowel, anal itching and fecal incontinence I want her to check without seeming like a pervert. Im afraid to admit I'm gay because I have never disclosed it before and do not want my insurance company finding out but I need to mention my anal sex starting at age 12 that might of caused some of these problems and that I am a compulsive sex addict or masterbator which means I might have hormone problems. I have read that guys who masterbate often are at hi risk of prostate cancer because we may produce too much testosterone which is cancergenic to the prostrate. and i have that and colon cancer in my immediate family too. Is it possible to have my semen tested at an internal medicine practice? Might they reccommend that if I admit that I ejaculate often, sometimes more than 10X a day? I have been told they provide gowns for all patients but hopefully my gown will be skimpy and not stay on. I really enjoyed being examined by my pediatrician and nurses as a child and teen because we were not given gowns and they did rectals but as an adult it may be rare to not get a gown. If any one knows young female or male doctors who do not provide gowns and examine young adults in underwear only please let me know as I am a traveling salesman and can easily go to several regions of the U.S.

REALLY ? ? ? ?

Dafuq did I just read? 😮

Wow...

What TF? Are you for real?

Golly.

Come again.? is that for real lol

Peace Caz

Talk about living in a semi fantasy/psycho world!! 😢 Strange, very strange. . .

What's the problem? Give the guy a break.

Why did so many have a problem or get shocked by my post? what i am wondering about is realistic and my past exams varied in intensity. When i was 26 i was only given a sheet to put in my lap while I waited for a young female dr and in the end i had to get off the table and take the sheet off and pull my undies down for her to check my balls but she did not ask me to bend over the table and do a rectal exam. i did get those when I was younger. when a nurse practitioner examined me after I turned 30 I was given a paper gown which I just let fall off when she did the ball and cough test and then she did a rectal exam. im hoping this dr is as thorough and that the gown will come off without me blatently letting it come off and seeming like a prevert

@MarkGosset, I can't say why others may have a problem with your post. To me, your post seem hyper and unfocused. If you were 17 or 18 that might be expected, but you seem to be past 30. Your post is in a section for medical issues, not medfet. However your concern about the gowns or sheets sure sounds like some of the medfet fantasy posts.

Your profile says you are in the DC area. There is a sizable gay/lesbian population in that area, so virtuallyany internal med doc probably has several gay and lesbian patients they see regularly. Given your described conditions, the internal med doc may refer you to a urologist and/or a gastroenterologist. But relax, take several deep breaths, and take it one step at a time.,

Your post is in the medical not medfet section and comes off as fantasy written by a teenager . That is the problem. Do what Quincy said. If you write crap you will get called out if its fantasy in any way . There are sections for it . As for the sex addict part there are groups for it and I believe sex addicts anonymous is listed in all areas and most certainly D.C. People were very nice in their responses to this post .

People were very nice in their responses to this post .

REALLY???

Having said that, your and Quincy's replies are much more helpful.

Mark Gosset said

Why did so many have a problem or get shocked by my post? . . . . . im hoping this dr is as thorough and that the gown will come off without me blatently letting it come off and seeming like a prevert

The original post still sounds like a crock to me in every detail. It's a complete fabrication.

The reason is simple. You come off sounding like a pervert, which is fine on a fetish site, but keep your games out of the doctors' offices

My gut sense is of someone partly coming out, perhaps with medical issues, who may have been reading all the wrong things but without someone to say, 'You read this where?' who also has a medical exam fetish which seems to have been suppressed rather than explored. I think that time here, connections, and gay doctors might unwind things

^^^^ You are too forgiving.

Have whatever fantasies you want but don't waste doctor's time. We have real work to do. Get the medical help you need without dragging your baggage in.

He ought to get together with a certain with Dr. Snowpants and go bowling.