I have now been wearing diapers for about three years. At first it was only when going out in public but not to work or at home. Then that progressed to me wearing diapers to work and out shopping. As time went on I learned a lot about different types of diapers, layering, and places to get diapers at low cost (Goodwill). Yes it does take time to learn. Now I am just about wearing them 24/7. I do take the wet ones that I have worn to work and peed in all day off when I get home and then go about 3 or so hours without a diaper on to give my butt and pubic area time to not be in them (I found that reduced diaper rash). I also found that keeping your pubic hair short or shaven really helps in reducing or even stopping any pee smell when sitting in the office.
The first thing that I was able to do was to be just standing talking to someone or shopping and then stop and stand and let the pee flow. I so remember the first time I managed to pee standing in line to get coffee. Wow what an amazing feeling. It made me feel so naughty so decadent. I was so sure that the people behind me would notice or say something. No one even noticed. Then as time went on I started being able to pee while sitting at my desk or in the car by raising my butt up and just trying to pee.
Then I discovered that just relaxing allowed for better results. That relaxing the bladder and just letting it flow is hard to learn (or unlearn control). After that it was learning how to pee laying down. At first it was necessary for me to push on my bladder and feel the urine sloshing around inside me and finally the urge getting strong enough to have it happen.
Well time keeps passing. Now one of my pleasures is just relaxing while sitting or even laying down and feeling a fairly constant dripping as the pee leaks out of my urethra. That feeling is well hard to describe but the pleasure in getting to that point is so so well worth the effort. I feel like a drip is flowing down and getting to the opening and then just slowly making the diaper wet and starting to swell.
I also so love the feeling as the leaking keeps going all day and yet when I stand up or go outside I am able to just relax more and feel the pee just flowing out. By the end of the day just about all the layers that I am wearing are soaked and the diapers (combination of really cheap ones in first layer and more absorbent ones on the outer layers) totally swollen.
I do wear plastic pants and either plastic or rubber bloomers during the day at work. That combination totally frees my mind up from worrying about leaking and my pants getting wet. The other trick is to always wear black pants.
So if your just starting down the diaper pleasure road or still learning keep just learning to totally relax. Yes it will happen. My next goal is to put diapers on and then go to bed and not just wake up (like I do now) with them wet some but wake up to totally soaked diapers.
Have fun. Do not worry about people noticing (most can't see past the end of their nose anyway). Yes you too can develop the sensual pleasure from learning to pee in your diaper and the fun in trying new things.
One of my other goals is to keep working on finding really noisy diapers and really noisy plastic pants and bloomers. Yes I do like the sound and do find it exciting when walking in a really quiet area to hear the sound of the pants and diapers as I walk and know that anyone near me for sure can hear me. I know lots would say that is so bad but yet it hurts no one and is one of my life's pleasures.