Catheters are fun

I enjoy being catheterized, weird-o I know!

I enjoy being catheterized, weird-o I know!

Not weird at all. I enjoy it as well, and really love the idea of having that control taken away from me. Seeing my urine leave my body with me having no control over it is such a turn on. The humiliation of being a man yet not getting to control your own penis is so hot.

We all love having a Foley inserted it feels so good...

Love to wear it!

anonon wrote

I enjoy being catheterized, weird-o I know!

I don't think you are a bit weird-o at all. I learned to be catherized years ago, I have enjoyed a catheter in me nearly constantly for a couple of years. I tried some drugs to control my over active bladder, those were a failure, there were three other alternatives, and I have chosen one of those. I got botox injections and that made a world of difference.

Now one Dr. prescribed more diuretics and I was peeing all the time, so I am using a catheter to keep from peeing my pants. I have enjoyed the feeling of a catheter in me all the time. While I was told by my urologests nurse not to masturbate with a catheter in me, I have done so, some get a huge thrill out of doing that, I don't get any thrill other than the release.

Right now I am dealing with some kidney issues, at least they are improving.I still have to pee a lot due to the increase in the diuretics, but I can live with that. A catheter keeps me from peeing my pants, lets me sleep all night without having to get up to pee and just feels good overall. After a day, I don't really know I have a catheter in me which is a very good feeling.

I find that there is nothing wrong at all with enjoying a catheter in yourself. There are many thousands of people who have to wear a catheter, or catheterize themselves many times a day and they don't get much pleasure out of that. We are the lucky ones, we get to enjoy our catherizations and go about life with a smile and the joy that many don't get.

I don't have any kids at home, I enjoy walking around naked from the waste down with a catheter hanging out of my penis. It is a turn on for me. My wife doesn't care, so having a catheter coming out of me is neat as far as I am concerned. My wife decided years ago that she no longer wanted to have sex with me, so wearing a catheter is fine with me, I don't plan to screw her anyway. So a catheter hanging out is no big deal.

I say enjoy your catheter, make sure you don't get any UTI's and if that happens, just get to the Dr. and get some drugs to clear the problem up. Play safe, enjoy and glad you posted what you did. I enjoy my catheter use. If someone bad mouths your use of a catheter, move on, or educate them on how great they feel.

I envy you folks who not only can tolerate being catheterized, but actually enjoy it! For some reason the thought of it causes me to cringe. Now it's funny, I once really hated having the douche nozzle go up my bum for enemas - I disliked it so much that I then started doing it just to feel that awful feeling and would masturbate while doing it. But no such twist of pain/dislike to pleasure with catheters...

Yes they are! I'm not into prolonged wearing, but the insertion and extraction and whatever comes between the two, sign me up!

Love the cath ... gift or curse, but i have to use a cath to pee

I've enjoyed being catheterized for a long time. I've never done it myself but my husband has done it for me many times. We use a Coloplast 16" FR/CH 14. We do this on the kitchen table, the bed or my exam table. There is something intimate about this! Opening my legs in front of him to expose myself is an act of love from me to him. For him to gently insert the Catheter into my urethra and drain my bladder is an act of love from him to me. Do we get excited? Certainly! We see this as an act of love.

Catheters have always intrigued me. I would like to try it, but the risk of a UTI somewhat scares me. About 10 years ago, I was intrigued by the "sounding" thing. I tried it, but I was probably careless, because I gave myself a nasty UTI and felt like I was peeing needles for awhile. One and done... I think that taking the right precautions and a soft flexible cath, instead of a cold hard sounding rod, might be worth a try, if not just for the experience.

As a professional naughty nurse,I believe that most problems are as a result of people "bending the rules" as they get aroused.Absolute cleanliness is so important to maintain and adds to my role as an erotic care giver. Anal anything is a difficult mix with urethral play yet patients want to enjoy the prostate stimulation from both sides. What is clean enough is never clean enough ! Also,as erotic as it may feel,I do not encourage my patients to masturbate and irritate their urethra which I see as the source of some infections and more importantly,for some,the pain they experience from their first pee after the cath is removed,can be a real deterrent to future cath play. This pain is heightened by an irritated urethra for sure..leave yourself alone ! Keep it all clean and have fun !

I admit being cathed is a real experience. My ex cathed me a few times and enjoyed taking control of me that way. One weekend she cathed me and gave me a couple of enemas while it was in! Extremely intense couple of days there!!

@PAMedfetluvr

While getting an enema while catheterized is an experience, there is similar play that is even more submissive and erotic. Essentially, you yield complete control of both your bowel and bladder to another person. This can happen in either of two ways, either in a professional setting or at home.

For the professional version, you need a colon hydrotherapist that uses a closed system, like the older Dotolo or a newer machine of similar design, where an approximately 1" diameter rectal speculum is used and the client both gets filled and poos through it. The therapist controls the fill and release. If such a session is done while the client has a Foley catheter in, complete control of their bowels and bladder are yielded to another. Of course, inserting a catheter requires skill, knowledge, and a lot of care, so the person must either self-insert prior to the visit or, if the therapist is a trusted nurse, allow her to insert. The danger of a UTI is very real.

The home version is similar, except a Coloclean disposable colon irrigation setup is used instead of the colonic machine. While this can be done solo, it is a lot easier with a willing helper to refill the water supply bag and empty the poo bag, as required. If you have an intimate relationship with your helper, this can be quite an experience. Again, the person undergoing the treatment loses control of both their bowel and bladder... completely.

I am one of the few who loves being cathed. I have only ever had one UTI. My Mistress would cath me and then clip it closed so I could not void. The pressure of the balloon inside pressing on my prostate and the weight of my bladder filling would give me a feeling that was unbelievably odd. It would literally drop me to my knees. It was an internal orgasm. She delighted in watching me suffer, but I enjoyed the suffering.

2 questions: foley with balloon inflated or straight in and out? When you wander around cathed how do contain the urine

@superego

The answer to your first question depends on what you are trying to do. If you just want to empty someone's bladder one time every few hours, an in-and-out will do that with little fuss. The catheter goes in, the pee flows, and when the flow stops, you withdraw the catheter. Done. But repeated insertions every few hours can irritate your urethra and there is a real risk of infection with each insertion. My preference is red rubber over PVC, since they are softer.

If you want, or need, to be cathed for an extended time, a Foley is designed for that purpose.Unlike a straight catheter, the Foley has a balloon, which prevents it from slipping or being peed out. Mos people are good with the standard 5ml balloon, which is typically filled with 10cc of sterile water. Both silicone and latex ones are available. I find the latex, surface coated with a silicone lube, are most comfortable.

With a Foley in, there are several options for pee control:

If you plan on staying in bed or on a chair, there are big pee bags available which typically hold 2000ml... a day or night's worth. These allow you to sleep through the night without getting up to pee, but they are completely impossible to hide.Everyone can see you are peeing.

If you want to be mobile, you can use a bag that straps to your leg. They hold less than a bed bag, but typically enough for 6 to 8 hours. Several sizes are available.

A really nice option is the Belly Bag. These are placed over your pubic area and have a belt, hold 1000m,l and are all but invisible under loose clothing. Also, the warm bag of pee feels quite sensual. The down side is they cost about $20 each. It is also possible to sleep with a belly bag. I like them a lot.

Finally, you can use a catheter plug, clamp, or valve. With this option the pee stays in your bladder until manually released. Fitted with one of these, guys probably have to pee like a woman... sitting on a toilet.

Catheter play can be fun, but complete sterility is an absolute MUST. Also, use only new, sealed, sterile equipment. Never cut corners. While you supposedly can cleanse and reuse pee bags, I would not. Catheter prep kits are cheap. Use them.

@superego

I nearly always use an in and out during a play exam, they come sterile packed, are easy to use and do the job efficiently. They are particularly good if you also intend to use sounds as you can use the catheter to measure the depth between the woman's entrance and her bladder. Foley's are ok if you have more time and are confident in using one, and intend the catheter to stay in place with a bag for an extended length of time, but during most play exam appointments that is not the case.

Sean said

With a Foley in, there are several options for pee control:

If you plan on staying in bed or on a chair, there are big pee bags available which typically hold 2000ml... a day or night's worth. These allow you to sleep through the night without getting up to pee, but they are completely impossible to hide.Everyone can see you are peeing.

If you want to be mobile, you can use a bag that straps to your leg. They hold less than a bed bag, but typically enough for 6 to 8 hours. Several sizes are available.

A really nice option is the Belly Bag. These are placed over your pubic area and have a belt, hold 1000m,l and are all but invisible under loose clothing. Also, the warm bag of pee feels quite sensual. The down side is they cost about $20 each. It is also possible to sleep with a belly bag. I like them a lot.

Finally, you can use a catheter plug, clamp, or valve. With this option the pee stays in your bladder until manually released. Fitted with one of these, guys probably have to pee like a woman... sitting on a toilet.

Catheter play can be fun, but complete sterility is an absolute MUST. Also, use only new, sealed, sterile equipment. Never cut corners. While you supposedly can cleanse and reuse pee bags, I would not. Catheter prep kits are cheap. Use them.

While Sean said he doesn't reuse pee bags, I have found, living on a limited income I have to wash and clean my pee bags. Yes they are not super cheap, especially belly bags. Many of the catheter suppliers have very good instructions on how to wash out and clean your pee bags. I have done that a number of times and I have yet to have a problem with my pee bags. I do need to order some more of them, leg bags are the ones I need the most. I find wearing a catheter very freeing. Taking diuretics, I have to pee a lot. I also have to drink a lot of water, so I am always going to the bathroom. I usually wear Depends since I leak at times. My leakage is better than it used to be. I would go through 3 to 4 Depends a day with leakage. Now I don't have that problem. I would void without warning before the botox injections. Now I have some control, but not total control, so a catheter is a very nice way to stop the frequent accidents or leakage.

I use a Foley FR-30 with a 30 cc baloon, inflated to about 40 cc. The catheter says inflate to 30 to 50 cc. The 50 cc is for fellows who have their prostrate removed and the 50 cc fits into the bladder better than just a 30 cc inflated balloon, so I have been told. I don't know for sure.

After a few hours now, I don't even know I have a catheter in me. I know it when I have to empty my bag, a leg bag and I know it a tad more when I have to empty my overnight bag. I usually use a 2000 ml bag overnight. I do have a couple 4000 ml overnight bags, but they don't have any anti reflux valves in them. I don't know why they don't make them, but so far I have not found any. I have hid my use of a bed bag, 2000 ml by hanging the bag on the inside of my sweat pants, the urine has to flow out of my bladder and up the tube into the bag, similar to a belly bag, and so far no one knows I have my bed bag on me.I have also done that with a 4000 ml bag. It is a tad uncomfortable, but sometimes you have to do something a tad unconventional. No one knows you are peeing, but you have the peace of mind that you don't have to find a place to empty your leg bag.

When I first started wearing a catheter, I noticed I had it in me for at least the first 12 hours or there about. Now I know my catheter is in me for about an hour. After that, I don't even feel it at all. Then after the 12 hour mark, I started to notice I didn't feel the catheter at all. I have noticed that when I read some of the posts on Zity, I find a lot of fluid coming down my catheter and I get a bit of a hard on while reading many posts. I then notice the catheter more when that happens.

I can wear my Foley Catheter for at least 4 weeks and then change it out for a new Foley catheter. I like one brand over others. Seems to me the catheter I use the opening is closer to the balloon than others. I like the Rusch catheters over other brands. I am not allergic to latex and so I use those.

What I really enjoy about using a catheter is that I can drink as much as I want, I drink water, some coffee and now and then a pop. All of that goes through me rather quickly, so a catheter drains my bladder and I don't have to run to the bathroom every few minutes. When I drank beer, I could drink 3 or 4 beers and not have to go to the bathroom. Then when I drank the 5 th beer, it seems the other 4 beers started to come out almost instantly. Had I been wearing a catheter, it would have made life much easier.

Now I can get a good night's sleep. I don't have to get up and go pee every hour and a half, I sleep all night, the overnight bagt hangs on my bed, I have to arraingn the tube so that I don't pull on my catheter while I sleep. It is so nice not to have to get up to pee or to wake up and use a urinal so I don't have to get up and head to the bathroom.

The other thing I like about wearing a catheter is that when I have my catheter in me and I am naked, I like the looks of a catheter hanging out of my penis. I don't have kids at home and my wife doesn't give a damn about me wearing a catheter. She doesn't care if I am naked or not and if I have a catheter in me or not. She says, if you are happy, then fine with me. She doesn't F**k me any more, she claimes sex hurts and she doesn't care about sex with me at all. She has been that way for years.( 10 years or more)

I can shower with my catheter in me, I can't swim in the lake, take a bath or use a hot tub. The water would go right my catheter into my bladder and cause all kinds of problems if it went up the outside of my catheter. I would put a plug in my catheter if I could do that.

I don't plug my catheter for a very long time. I worry about urine backing up to my kidneys and causing problems, so a plug or valve to me is worry some. For a short time I plug my catheter, but for a long time, over 20 minutes, I don't do it. Some people do do it, that is fine for them, but not for me.

Are there some disadavantages to pee bags, yes, the straps that go around your leg are a pain in the butt. By now I would have figured that someone would find a better way to hold the leg bags than what has happened. I like the latex straps the best and then the ones that have some elastic in there with velcro attachments. The stretch ones with buttons are the worst in my opinion.

If you are going to wear a catheter, I will say that I love the feel of the catheter in me. Now and then I do have some leakage, just a little, far better than what I have without wearing a catheter. From all the videos that I have watched, each nurse has said that leakage occurs and not to worry about it. All you have to do is pull on the catheter to make sure it is in place and you are good to go.

Enjoy wearing a catheter, play safe and be smart with what you do. Be clean, if you suspect you have a UTI, get to your Dr. get some drugs to clear it up Don't be afraid to tell you Dr. how you got it. Remember, fever, chills, being hot and cold are signs that you have a problem

Today I can't type worth a damn. I have edited this post about a dozen times.

I recently had an outpatient surgical procedure to fuse two vertebra after a disc herniated and had to be removed because of pressure on a nerve. I was very nervous about this procedure as it is a fairly significant surgery. Since I was to be in the surgical facility for the better part of the day, I was thinking and secretly hoping that I would be catheterized. When I woke up in recovery and aware enough to do so, I immediately felt my penis to see if a tube was coming out of it. I was disappointed that I was not catheterized for the procedure. I was not released until I was able to urinate. The nurse asked a time or two if I was ready to urinate but I was not yet ready to. I did have some concern that there was a problem and a catheter would be necessary but in the fullness of time, I finally had to go. I called for the nurse as she requested. She helped me to the toilet and handed me a urinal. She said I needed to urinate into the urinal to determine my volume. As I started to pass urine, I realized I would overflow the urinal and asked what to do. Evidently I exceeded the output volume that was expected and told to continue voiding into the toilet, She then told me to dump the contents of the urinal into the toilet, flush and wash my hands. I was dressed and out the door shortly thereafter, sadly without being able to experience the sensation of a catheter being inserted or removed from my penis.

For day surgery I don’t think they catheterize you. I was cathed for a surgery and was held overnight, but didn’t have to prove I could pee on my own before release. For more extended periods of being cathed, and for possible nerve damage (e,g, spinal surgery) I could see why they want to know everything is working again. Bladder retention can cause urine backing up into the kidneys, which is not good.

Annie2 wrote/said

Love the cath ... gift or curse, but i have to use a cath to pee

I know it is none of my business, but I am curious why you have to use a catheter to pee?

@Czorro

"While Sean said he doesn't reuse pee bags, I have found, living on a limited income I have to wash and clean my pee bags... "

My prior post was intended for newbies, getting interested i n catheters.

If you use catheters because of long term medical need, and have been professionally instructed in proper sanitizing of pee bags, they can probably be reused safely.

Any comments I've made are not to be taken as medical advice, but are intended to help people play safely.

@Mental_Patient

The "sucking feeling" is unusual. I've never felt anything like it. Your pee bag may not have been hung correctly.I've had them a number of times in hospital and self-inserted at home, all without an anesthetic , and other that a bit of ouchies during insertion and/or removal, i can't feel them at all, except I never feel an urge to pee (unsurprising).

In fact, I honestly could not tell someone whether I had a catheter in or not by feel, if I didn't know for other reasons.

I sometimes get a feeling like I have peed a "bubble" or something, but that is all. Maybe a larger cath, like a 30fr and large bore tubing could produce a sucking feeling to a low-level cath bag as I imagine it could empty your bladder pretty fast!

I recently had a catheter insert prior to an emergency surgery. I did not think it was very fun. It was quite painful. It may have been due to the fact I wanna full of infection from ruptured appendix. Would like to try again when not so sick to see if it might be more enjoyable.

The times that I have been cathed were after prostate surgeries so I was pretty sore down there. They were always inserted under anaesthesia so I don’t know how that felt. Under the circumstances it would not likely have been pleasant.

I had a catheter inserted for a surgery last year (July 2020). It was inserted after I was anesthetized so I didn't get to feel it go in.

But I've been playing around with urethral sounds for years. So the idea of having an catheter inserted is actually exciting.

But just for a play session. Wearing a urine bag is awful.

I dont have any urinary or bladder issues, but I love the feeling of being cathed. I'll usually cath myself for 2 or 3 days at a time, but I'd like to go longer. I live a very active, outdoorsy lifestyle with work in between, so being cathed isn't always easy. I've given up my manhood, as I'm permanently locked in chastity. Giving up control of my bladder is just icing on the cake 😃

The use of catheters for sex games is certainly very pleasant, but it also has some risks. Catheterization must be done very cleanly and carefully. Otherwise a urethra or cystitis can easily develop. There is also the risk of overstretching the urinary bladder sphincter and thus causing urinary incontinence. I've also introduced catheters with CR30. But I don't do that very often. I prefer to use Hegar dilators with a diameter of 13 mm, which are only 19 cm long and do not go into the urinary bladder. It is enough if the dilator goes through the prostate. It's very comfortable and not as dangerous as catheters. I also still have clean urine to flush the urethra. So you should definitely urinate after sounding. 😄

@Sean

Yes certainly was the bad when they moved it or this or that sometimes it did it sometimes it didn't. there's been times that I had a good job and it didn't bother me at all and there's been times it sucked hard