Birth Control (Barrier) Methods

Anyone have their partner insert barrier birth control for them? I used the diaphragm and think it would be romantic/erotic to have a partner take care of inserting and removing. Same for the sponge.

Well i´d love my partner doctor sliding the condom on my penis as part of her play exam

She would tell you that a semen sample is needed for the lab and then use different techniques on you until you ejaculate into the condom. 😎

I've placed girlfriends diaphragms for them. I thought it was an intimate and caring thing to do. So did they. Slippery little things with the jelly.

I have had people insert a diaphragm for me. As liquidsky says those buggers are slippery and once folded, ready for insertion they have flown across the bed at times.

Do you find it erotic that there could be a risk that they put it in wrong and you risk the chance of getting pregnant? Just curious if that is a reason you find it so exciting.

I don't think the pregnancy factor is the erotic part for me. Just that it is something personal and clinical. It's like having someone else taking care of my intimate need. I also like being cleaned up after by my partner.

I used to insert a diaphragm for my ex. Fun and slippery.

I have never inserted a barrier device in my partner's vagina but I have retrieved the occasional condom that has slipped off during sex.

Various partners have slid condoms on me, that is sort of fun. One girl in particular during college liked to slide them on with her mouth. She would hold it with her lips and then sort of rolling it down the shaft. She was always fun to play with and very creative!

As for putting a diaphragm in; I have pretty big hands and try not to put more than a couple fingers in there at a time. Not sure I would have many takers for me installing them.

I used a cervical cap some years ago but I always placed it by myself. I went to a house of a german female organisation where they teached a group of us how to use it. It was a strange experience in this group getting taught practical but therefore there have been no males allowed and I would have been not sure if my boyfriends at that time would have been able to place it correctly. But I slid a condom over penises a couple of times as well.

I have put in both the diaphragm and sponge into my partners as well as removed them I also have removed and replaced tampons

While I haven't done so I certainly would.

I've had condoms put on me, and I've put spermicide into a partner.

Not a diaphragm as such but Ortho spermicidal applicators.The applicator itself being reasonably large & with a decent quality plunger mechanism made for the ideal rectal toy,as I was to discover. Kinky wicked suppository launcher & lube shooter

When I was 16 I was having an affair with an older man who was 31,. I went to Planned Parenthood and was fitted for a diaphragm. I always had to use the notched applicator to insert it. It was always too slippery for me to insert it without using it.

I've had partners insert spermicide foam using an applicator, also the sponge. I've never had one insert a diaphragm, always did that myself, but that has been awhile.

I had a boy friend in graduate school who liked to "play doctor". I was too naive to be on the pill, and he hated condoms (so did I), so I went out and bought Emko foam. It wasn't a physical barrier to his sperm but chemical. I inserted the foam our first time one night in my bedroom bathroom, while he was standing in my bedroom with (I learned when I walked out) his cock at attention. After that first time he took control of my contraception and "did the applicator" every time, without any hesitation.

He would sit on the bed crosslegged, and make me lay facing him, with my legs draped over his knees, so that I was in a kind of butterly/stirrups position. He would start by talkign, telling me how sexy and vulnerable I looked. He would "examine" my pubes, my clot, my labia. And eventually he would take the applicator (a tampon applicator-like plunger), fill it with foam, and place the tip of the applicator inside my never-yet pregnant pussy lips. Moving it in and out, ever deeper, all the while massage my lips and clit. He would make me play with my nipples and tell him how I felt. Sometimes he would push his middle finger slowly but firmly into my anus, making me squirm. Only after he knew I had had my first orgasm riding the applicator and his fingers would he push the plunger in, depositing the foam inside my vagina. He and I were afraid of my getting pregnant so he would always insert a second applicator dose of the foam. And then he would mount me and we would fuck, first missionary style and then I would turn over and he would take me from behind. He would talk about how good it looked seeing his cock being covered with my wetness and the foam, my lips trying to wrap his cock, and he always fingered my butt hole.

The nice thing about the foam (which was messy especially after sex because it would all, foam plus mucus plus cum) leak out onto my panties, usually at my internship job) was that I always felt him ejaculationg his sperm and especially if he was in me deep and unloading his seed onto my cervix. I still get wet thinking about him and the foam.

I never used foam but my Mom did, because I can remember crawling around in her closet and finding the stuff in a bag I don't I was old enough to know what sex was at that time but I do remember squirting some of it out and she yelled at me for playing with it and told me it was Daddy's shaving cream I must have been 3 or 4 at that time. 😃

^^^hahaha - "Daddy's shaving cream" . .good one Kid. .close shave huh !

As a youngster, my infatuation with enemas and then douching or feminine hygiene equipment, led me to discover those other birth control items that my mom usually stashed in proximity to the douche bag. The red enema bag was almost always hanging on the shower arm. Her folding douche bags were often stored in the linen closet. Some time later, the red fountain syringe sprang a leak, and it was replaced with a folding feminine syringe.

The plunger style applicator was particularly interesting at my tender age of 6. The diaphragm was also a curiosity, especially since it was rubber and the same color as her douche bag. She also stored the spare enema and douche nozzles in the flowery purse.

Needless to say, all of those items became wonderful playthings, and sources of unbelievable pleasure as I matured. I had educated myself from the various texts that had illustrations, and learned that my behavior with such items might pose some issues for my mom. I would use alcohol in an attempt to clean/sterilize after using them. Thank goodness those other diseases and viruses were relatively unheard of at the time.

While my fetish with such things was a source of guilty feelings at times, the more familiar, educated, and mature I became, the more I marveled at the development of those items. It also helped answer many questions about why I had such sensations when inserting or fondling such things.

After all, they were directly related to sexuality, and allowed for freedom and expression without fear of unwanted pregnancy etc.

While I'm sure inserting a partner's diaphragm would be highly erotic and arousing, it is important to remember it is being used for a reason. Though slippery, it must be placed correctly to do its job. It is therefore very important that the guy be trained on the proper insertion and alignment technique. Otherwise the barrier may be no barrier.

I am a long term diaphragm user. That is very rare today. I have never had an accident using the method. My mom and grandmother both used a diaphragm so I was very familiar with it using it. I keep mine in the bathroom rather than in the bedroom as many couples do. I guess keeping it in the bathroom is something I picked up from my mom. I generally get ready for bed before my husband. If I want sex that night, I put it in and leave the case open by the sink so he knows it is in. If he wants sex, he just tells me to put it in. He can do it as quickly as I can but he often gets too aroused so I put it in most of the time. We use the so called modified method; where an applicator of jelly is inserted just before he mounts me. He takes care of that.

I always douche with a vinegar and water solution when I remove my diaphragm. That is what I was taught to do. As a practical matter, if I don't douche when I remove it, I leak all day and I have to use a panty liner or lite days pad. I am a sticky mess all day if I don't douche. In the summer, I think I can smell it by the end of the day. My guess is that the vast majority of women who used a diaphragm in the old days douched when they removed it. Doctors recommended douching as part of the diaphragm and jelly method and most wives followed the instructions. When I was growing up well after the pill became available many women used a diaphragm and douche bags were a common sight in many bathrooms. Most wives never put it away between uses. If you think about it, if you have sex three times a week and it takes a day of hanging to dry after you wash it out after use; you have to take it out to use it again very soon after it was put away.

I've regularly inserted the diaphragm as part of the foreplay really. The cream or gel can make it rather slippery as you pinch it together for insertion, but I must have got it right as no pregnancy resulted....

I had a girlfriend years ago that used the diaphragm as her birth control method. After she showed me how to insert and remove it, I wound up usually being the one to insert and remove it for her. Inserting it was a part of our foreplay routine. I didn’t mind doing it, I actually liked inserting it, and my fingers, deep into her!

My wife uses the four legged form of barrier birth control. Her rescue dog. He's between us and never moves all night. After the initial cash outlay its free!

I read the post from Bi Mom about birth control foam. Early in our marriage my wife used Delfin foam which was applied exactly the same way. We liked the foam because it was non-hormonal, but as mentioned the problem was that the foam and my semen would drain out and make a mess. The solution was the my wife would douche the following morning, but when we were having sex 3-4 times most weeks her douche bag was usually left out drying after use in the bathroom. At the time we had a one bedroom apartment with only one bathroom so we had to be attentive to when we might have visitors.

I used the Today's sponge several years ago. We used it for the novelty of it. I did use the foam once but it gave me a rash.

When we were trying to get pregnant with our second baby back in the late 1960s, my wife was told by her doctor it would be best to stop her birth control pills for about six months before trying to get pregnant to let the birth control hormones get out of her system. So we used Emko foam. I think the first time we used the foam my wife inserted the applicator into her vagina, but after that I “did the applicator" every time, and without any hesitation, too. It was fun, but I didn’t make it as sexy and fun as I should have.

Once when we couldn’t get Emko Foam, we tried Delfen Foam. It had a much thinner applicator, about the diameter of a large pencil. I found that when we used it, it got hot on the head of my penis when I was inside her vagina. Finally, the longer we used it, it got to where it felt like it was beginning to burn me. Thankfully it had been enough time lapsed so we could try for that second baby. And success was achieved, too, a few months later.

I don’t know what the difference was in the two foams, but I liked the Emko Foam better and the applicator was a much larger diameter so I suspect it felt better to my wife when inserting it into her vagina.

I’d forgotten about the burning sensations from spermicidal foam. Emko foam applicator was tricky to use, the stuff would squirt out if you weren’t careful filling the applicator. It was kept on my side of the bed, so I did the honors. I ended up resorting to condoms to avoid the irritation that the foam caused. For a couple of years her pink douche bag got a lot more use than my red enema bag.