Psychological or emotional aspects of intimate exams?

For me, the emotional/ psychological aspect is at least 90 - 95% of my medfet. The physical sensations and touching is only a small part. Of course, it is extremely vital and does contribute to the overall accumulative feelings of experiencing an exam. My thoughts and emotions before and after, as well as my memories during an exam are fantastic!

I agree that the psychological aspects are the main reason for my obsession with physical exams. I do and have always find it extremely embarrassing to have a clothed examiner inspect my entire body, but especially my genitalia. I find it degrading to be told to expose my genitals for examination and dread the experience every time it occurs. I feel that I am being compared to other men for adequacy with regard to the size and appearance of the penis. My penis shrivels up and my scrotum retracts to a tiny size. I also find it embarrassing to have to expose my anus and have it penetrated. The memories afterward are great though.

Undoubtedly what I remember most about the exams that I went through was the shame, embarrassment and humiliation of it.

There was shame, embarrassment and humilation attached to the nature of my problem, to the process of having to be completely naked during examination and treatment, and to other people knowing the details.

Any mild physical discomfort attached to it was nothing in comparison

While I am always the "doctor" in my fantasies, I have to say that my biggest draw to all of this is the emotional effect that this has on someone. The trigger emotions like nervousness, anticipation, fear, vulnerability, throat gulping, heart racing, embarrassment, exposure, body tingling etc are what fascinate me to see. It's when these kinds of emotions are flooding someone who is also highly aroused by these feelings are happening, that I'm able to see the most sexual part of that person. It's not only the embarrassment and exposure they experience during a doctor's exam, it's the fact that someone knows that their examinations have become the core of their fantasies and masturbation.

The psychological is so very important since it is at the heart of being examined. Well before any physical reaction there is the psychological aspect of anticipation and likely anxiety - even a mild amount - that focuses one's attention on being submissive. While there is a degree of control, one does have to submit, to strip naked, to sit on the exam table, and to be examined. So yes, for me the psychological is primary!

I think embarrassment to start off. To being looked at touched, examined externally, but sometimes internally . Having a nurse, N.P. or Physicians assistant in the room. Males and or females or both. Humiliation, being asked personnel questions in front of the others in the room. Submission, by following orders to strip, put on the gown with the opening toward the back, to get on the table, roll on your side. yes the whole thing

In the moment I'm always hoping that whatever I'm at the doctors for isn't serious. I just want to walk out with a clean bill of health. But I'm very aware of what is being done to me, and I retain the memory of the intimate exam which I replay in my mind later and that's when it becomes sexually thrilling. Sharing memories of intimate exams with someone is also very very erotic, role playing them even more so.

I believe both the emotional/ psychological aspects are primary reason for my obsession with physicals. Beginning in my early teens, I found it embarrassing & exciting to have my doctor inspect my whole body, but especially my genitals. I summited & he took total control of my body from removing my underwear to exposing my genitals for examination and I dreaded the experience as he seemed to take his time and my sister watching as he felt my penis and testicles.

Then during college, I was required to have a complete physical for summer employment. Every year it was a different doctor which only heightened my feelings of being nude, touched and judged. Usually, at the same time in other exam rooms were other college guys also having physicals. This added to the idea of being compared to the other guys both penis size and appearance of the genitals. In previous physicals, my penis can be anywhere from small (shrinkage), flaccid to an erection. Then my scrotum could be tight with my balls pulled up or looses.

In the waiting room, there would several other guys also for their summer physicals. Sometimes, I wondered if they to were having the same thoughts as they waited or when being examined.

Let me start by clarifying that I don’t get any sexual thrill during an actual exam. I’m always too focused on what the potential result of the exam may be to find any kind of enjoyment in it. The closest I’ve come was getting slightly aroused during a professional massage (the non-happy ending kind). I do get aroused thinking back on some of my exams and I most certainly get excited by fantasy examinations or play exams, so I’ll answer this question from that perspective – an exam fantasy (whether it’s acted out or not).

The number one appeal for me is the loss of control/loss of autonomy and loss of a sense of self. From your earliest developmental memory you’re taught about your privates, to keep them private, that no one is supposed to see your privates and here is a doctor, a stranger, who not only gets to see your privates but you’re expected to show them to him, and he sometimes does things to them, and often they’re things that you would rather not have done to them. Think about it for a second, as a normal (mostly) woman having my vulva touched intimately feels good. Fingers are OK, Tongues are OK, Penises are OK, Sex Toys are OK, but the average person isn’t going to want a cold, metal spreader shoved into her and opened up. She’s not going to want something that looks like ice tongs used to grab her cervix (tenaculum), isn’t going to want needles stuck into her etc but you HAVE to let the doctor do that and you hold still and actively cooperate with it. Your desires are irrelevant and you’re a literal piece of meat.

I’ve got strong objectification needs. I LIKE to be a set of holes but I also do NOT give that away easily. Yes my husband can do just about anything he wants to me but he’s earned that level of trust. You go to a doctor and BOOM. You’re expected to literally have all holes ready for inspection and manipulation – to a point. Trust given within a closely defined set of circumstances. My best fantasy sessions involve that point being abused, trust being abused and my reverting to a set of holes without even that shred of social contract to keep things professional. I realize that the ‘breaking’ of that resistance, the removal of the sense of self is a big part of what turns me on. I’ve already voluntarily given that sense of self up to my husband so as satisfying as it is to be his fuck-toy its even better when we role-play that he’s some kind of evil doctor MAKING me his fuck-toy.

I have never been embarrassed or shy about my body. I used to flaunt it even before I was well developed. I used to flash people regularly when I was in high school and college.

A real doctor can do whatever needs to be done. I just like to know what that entails before they start.

A play doctor can do whatever they want because the exam is supposed to be fun.

At S&M parties, if my husband is the one doing the exam, I expect a thorough, hard fucking after the exam is done.

I have never been embarrassed or shy about my body. I used to flaunt it even before I was well developed. I used to flash people regularly when I was in high school and college.

I knew you were that girl in my kindergarten class. Very naughty

I'm a nurse and gay. i get screened for STD's routinely and the infectious disease Doctor is someone i know and work with regularly at the hospital. He's straight, friendly, older than me, nice guy and professional. We try to be matter of fact about it, but He does the swabs and i wonder some times if He is doing that as a professional curtesy rather than having His nurse do it? Always a throat swab, void in a cup, then an anal swab that is always sort of awkward pulling my pants down around my thighs so He can insert a dry swab. i always wonder what He really thinks and feels, it's always kind of embarrassing. He's pretty masculine and i feel pretty vulnerable.

@tallslenderguy : you should feel good that he is taking care of you. You just be a good stud and do as he asks and let him test you!!!