Embarrassing Pediatrician Visits As A Teenager Or Young Adult

I grew up in the 80s and it seems like doctors had less concern for kids' modesty than they do today. Now, everybody's very careful to only check down below when they absolutely need to, and they always ask first.

Back then, I got a hand down the underwear without so much as a warning let alone asking permission!

Juliebaby,

Your pediatrician opened up your pussy...?

I presume opened / separated labia??

I grew up in the 80s and it seems like doctors had less concern for kids' modesty than they do today. Back then, I got a hand down the underwear without so much as a warning let alone asking permission!

I grew up in the late 70s and 80s too. I was not aware that there is more attention to modesty nowadays but my experience was that I was stripped down to tighty whities for any physical which was finished up with the genital exam. My pediatrician would have me lower my briefs for a full visual inspection followed by examination of the meatus, palpation of each testicle, and hernia examination. I always dreaded that part and found it embarrassing which is what led to my fetish.

Jug's story below is surprising if it happened in the last 20 years. If it was earlier than the 90s then it still might be unusual to have a teen walking around in his briefs outside of the exam room, even though that might have happened a lot with younger kids. This sounds like a bigger medical practice in a city instead of a small, one doctor clinic in a small town. In a small town doctor's clinic, I can see where modesty outside the exam room might not be considered something for the doctor's staff to worry about. Especially where a doctor's office might only have one or two exam rooms and the scale and bathroom were down the hall. In those situations, the nurse might not be too concerned about exposing an undressed, not yet adult, patient to other patients or staff. My Mom wasn't a nurse, but if she had been, I don't think that she would have been preoccupied with the modesty of boys since she had three and we had little or no modesty issues until we were in our late teens.

During college, I work every summer for the same company. A yearly physical and drug test was required to be performed at the company's doctors office. This one year either the company's paperwork was wrong or the nurse never read the instructions.

The nurse calls me back we stop at the scale then to this one room with hearing and eye testing machines. After I was done she lead me down the hall to the exam room. I thought it was weird she didn't have stop at the bathroom for me to pee. The nurse took my vitals and history told me to strip down to my underwear. The doc. came in asked me more general questions and started the exam. He then asked me to hop of the table and put my feet on marks on the floor. I guess the marks was to make sure your legs spread making it easy to check your scrotum. While sitting on the stool he is putting the exam gloves rolls over to me and tells me "drop your underwear to the floor."

The remaining portion of the physical was totally different than any other exam. The Doc. asked me questions as he checked my penis and testicles. During the hernia portion the nurse stepped in never closed the door over. The doctor never heard the door open or the nurse come in so he just continued with the hernia exam. When did see her in the room it was too late he already pushed his finger into the canal. So, I turn and do the cough, cough thing then he asked her what she needed. The nurse and anyone in the hallway saw me naked and get a hernia exam. I do know this teenage girl saw me the "cough,cough" drew her attention. If that was not embarrassing then the nurse's important message was she forgot to have my pee for the drug test. The Doc. told to pull up my underwear and go with the nurse to the bathroom. I finally was about pee but it took me about 20 minutes to produce a sample.

If weighed in the hallway, it always meant being dressed and not paraded around others partially clothed. My pediatricians did protect patient modesty where you could be seen by others. In the exam room, I had to undress and depending on my age it meant down to panties, panties and bra, and eventually nude with a gown by the time I was 14. Then there was no avoiding that all of me was to be seen. On rare occasions when required to have a shot, I felt that the door was left ajar some allowing a peak but then closed as the nurse prepared to do her thing. That's the only time that I felt really nervous about someone seeing. Being told to undress, on the other hand, sometimes occurred as the nurse or doc took me into the exam room while I was making my way from the hall. Then I felt rather self conscious and aware of who over heard.

Until I went off to college, all my physicals involved stripping down to my tightly whities to be examines.

Thanks to being a lucky SOB and having all female doc since I was a child I haven't had any problem in my teen years with any visits. but then again I'm only talking about my family docs and pediatricians.

Yes, he separated my labia with bare fingers and opened me, slide his fingers up, the down.

As a young girl I always hated going to the doctor because I hated it when the doctor had to check my vagina. With my mom in the room the nurse would tell me to undress down to my panties. The entire exam was done with me in my panties, then the doctor would either take them off later for my genital exam, I would have to lay down on my back and he would pull my panties down to my feet and he would have me do the frog leg position to check my vagina, and have me go on my belly to spread me and look at my anus.

I regularly saw my pediatrician until 9 or 10, later I may have seen him other 2 or 3 times, since I didn't get sick very often. He asked me to disrobe to my panties and bra just once, since he had to check if I was going through puberty. It was a bit embarrassing, because I didnt feel at ease with my body (I was obese). By the way, he never performed a complete genital exam, but he just lifted my panties' band to see if I had pubic hair and, during the abdominal exam, he rapidly palpated my ovaries without asking me to pull my panties down. When I turned 14, I chose my GP, a woman, but I was still embarrassed during the visits,so much as my heartbeat was fastened and my BP was high 😄

He then asked me to hop of the table and put my feet on marks on the floor. I guess the marks was to make sure your legs spread making it easy to check your scrotum. While sitting on the stool he is putting the exam gloves rolls over to me and tells me "drop your underwear to the floor."

During physicals, as I stood on the floor for the genital and hernia exams, I have always thought about and wondered about the other boys or men who have stood in the same location for the same examination with their genitalia exposed. I would like to have seen what their genitals looked like, how shriveled or full their penises hung, how their scrotums hung, and how nervous or embarrassed they were. I have always fantasized about marks on te floor upon which the examiner would instruct me to stand, but have never had this experience. I have always been able to assume that my footprints overlapped with theirs, but the idea of having marks on the floor so you know you are standing exactly where they stood is very exciting.

What kind of marks were these?

The only exam I remember being embarrassed about happened when I was 16. I was at the local GP after being off school with stomach ache (I didn't really have stomach ache I was lying to my parents because I didn't want to tell them I was being bullied). The doctor was an attractive 30 something woman and she did the exam with my mum in the room. I was really ashamed of my body and didn't want anyone to see it, plus she would have been the first person to see my genitals since puberty so I was terrified of getting an erection. It was humiliating and scary at the time, but when I got home I recreated the exam by myself and masturbated to the memory of it.

As I have posted in other threads...I used to have a full school medical every single year. By age 12 I had had 6 ( + a further 10 with a consultant paediatrician) exams añd I always wound up naked - with a thorough genital / anal exam at school. Ùp to that point....I had only ever been examined by male doctors.

When I was 13 ( you can read a full account on Zity aĺready )....I discovered (about 45 mins beforehand ) that the doctor would be female. I was just so scared and embarrassed -knowing that I would have to be completely naked and that she would be examining my penis, scrotum, testes and anus....and touching / feeling those intimate / sensitive areas. Moreover, with teen hormones raging - I was terrified of having an erection. ( This is all connected to boys who were caught masturbating being caned and our horrible RE masters inculcating us with the idea that 'dirty' and 'impure' thoughts would ĺead to eternal damñation!!! Heavy/ repressive indeed).

Not surprisingly, I did begin to get erect. I was in tears by the end of the examination. I was convinced that I would be reported, caned and expelled ( Hell could wait awhile!!). To be fair, the doctor was very sympathetic. Basically, she told me not to worry and that I was a perfectly normal and healthy adolescent boy. She was the first adult to tell me that it was perfectly natural to get an erection if someone was touching / holding / feeling your balls and coçk ( she used medical terms of course). But I was still nervous in school for the next few days...

“What kind of marks were these?

*** (NOTE) :: Just to clarify the comment concerning the marks”x’s” on the floor. I believe the marks on the floor were there as a visual reference or reminder. While guys stances are different from one guy to the next it was an attempt get guy to widen their stance for the genital & hernia exam. In my high school experience, before seeing the doctor we were told to keep our legs apart while standing in front of the doctor. But you would still hear the doctor they guys to spread their legs wider.

“He then asked me to hop of the table and put my feet on marks on the floor. I guess the marks was to make sure your legs spread making it easy to check your scrotum. While sitting on the stool he is putting the exam gloves rolls over to me and tells me "drop your underwear to the floor”—“

For me, it accurately happened two or three times. Once during a school physical, there were 2 “x’s” made out of masking tape on the tiled floor. The doctor called you behind the privacy screen and immediately told you to put your feet on the marks and drop your pants. Now, my college/employment exam I don’t remember exactly if they were “2 dots”or “2 “x’s” but it was blue in color. The location was I front of the exam table. Your feet almost landed automatically in the exact position. He said, he found it easier having a guy’s legs apart some to give a complete exam: front and backside of scrotum,testicles and hernia.

“He then asked me to hop of the table and put my feet on marks on the floor. Now, my college/employment exam I don’t remember exactly if they were “2 dots”or “2 “x’s” but it was blue in color. The location was I front of the exam table.

Thanks for providing the details. I was hoping you were going to say that the marks were "footprint" shaped. This is what I have envisioned in my fantasy exam. My idea about footprints being the ideal is that anyone walking into the examination room would have an idea what the significance of them would be so that the guys waiting to start the exam might have a sense of what was coming during the exam. Oh well, the marks are still pretty exciting.

I have never seen Xs on an exam room floor to show a patient where to put his feet. Doesn't seem necessary as patients come in different heights and a set of Xs wouldn't change that. If the patient is standing with his feet too close together, that wouldn't happen often. If it happened, the doctor would tell the patient to move his feet apart more. I'm not saying that your story isn't true. Even in school sports physicals in the gym where hundreds of boys were being examined, I don't recall any tape on the gym floor for that purpose.

I have never seen Xs on an exam room floor to show a patient where to put his feet. Doesn't seem necessary as patients come in different heights and a set of Xs wouldn't change that. If the patient is standing with his feet too close together, that wouldn't happen often. If it happened, the doctor would tell the patient to move his feet apart more. I'm not saying that your story isn't true. Even in school sports physicals in the gym where hundreds of boys were being examined, I don't recall any tape on the gym floor for that purpose.

My big school physicals had an area for posture assessments and also where they did things like arm span measurement and they had taped marks on the floor to line you up with the markers on the wall behind you. and the station where they had us do the walk back and forth thing, there was usually a taped mark and they would tell you to walk to there and turn around. Not sure if that counts, though.

As others have related, the '60's and '70's were different times in the doctor's office. The embarrassment I felt at my physicals is at the root of my medical fetish, and specific things that happened then still turn me on today. One of the biggest ones was that when I was in for a physical each year the nurse would ask me to give a urine sample in a metal pan in the exam room. This was largely because it was a small office with a small and busy bathroom. The language the nurses ( I had a different one each year as I recall) used to ask me to do this ranged from "can you go potty in the little pan for me?" when I was younger (a phrase that, childish as it sounds now, STILL excites me) to a very direct "I need a urine specimen in the pan, just open the door (exam room) when you're finished" when I was older. I would always get an erection when she said that and that, of course, would make it harder (literally) to urinate. I was always told to "strip to the waist" after the urine was collected and when the doctor came in, he would undo my belt and unfasten and unzip my pants to do the abdominal exam, and then have me stand up and drop my pants to do the hernia check. From age 12 to age 15 he pulled my underpants down himself, and I was always at least partially erect when he did so. There was a gap for me between ages 15 and 18, and my last physical with the pediatrician was at 18, and that time he had me pull my underpants down myself, though he. still unfastened my belt and pants himself. That was also the first time he examined my anus, just having me turn around after the hernia check, and spreading my bottom open slightly. These experiences and others later with both male and female physicians are the very reasons I have a medical fetish, and why I continue to "play doctor" to this day.

I had a physical done when I was probably 13 or so, and the doctor wanted me to strip down my undies, but my mom was in the room. I asked if she could turn her head, and she did, and I thought that was going to be that, until the doctor plunged his hands into my undies as I laid down on the exam table and started feeling my testicles. I mean bad enough that I'm practically naked, a dude I hardly know is feeling me up, but my mom was there too, adding a huge level of embarrassment to me at the time.

Funny thing was after, the more I thought about that scenario, the more I enjoyed it. 😉

I would echo what Mrs Ladybird said. I had regular examinations aged 15 during which I was completely naked and my mother was always present.

My exams were due to the late onset of puberty ( or lack of it ) , perhaps more mature 15 year olds would have been afforded more privacy.

Certainly I felt that I didn't want to appear to disobey or draw attention to myself by making a fuss about asking if I could go in without my mum

I think like most I never welcomed the yearly visit, often by the time school was about to start, and feeling nervous about what was to take place. I went to a small group practice with a male and female doctor, which I guess helped out if you wanted a same sex doctor, or could be rather distressing if you didn't have a choice.

I largely met with the male doctor except for one time when I went for a sick visit. Then, as was often the case, you had to strip down to briefs and wait. Mom went in with, I think I was around 13ish and then in came the fem doc. Needless to say, I wanted to disappear or become invisible. I don't recall much but for whatever reason she did a hernia exam and I nearly passed out from shock!

Following that, I made sure to only see the male doctor and without mom present. No need for additional dread. Still it never was easy and I always felt self conscious walking down the exam hallway towards a room. I still do knowing someone is having an exam behind the closed door. I don't recall ever overhearing what took place once I was in a room. I never saw much either. Then as now, its a moment of honesty in a way. Being in a state of undress and doing what's required is different from day to day life. Surely it is for me and always resonates for me at other times.

concern not to provoke a personal negative attitude on the part of the doctor and the nurse in this rather awkward situation.

I recall an incident when I was a senior in high school and had to visit the doctor for a high grade fever. I didn't remove my clothing because I assumed that I wouldn't need to be examined like a regular physical exam. When the pediatrician entered the room, she was accompanied by a young woman. The pediatrician identified her as a student from a local college who was going to become a doctor. I was especially embarrassed when I learned that it was the same college that I would be attending in the fall.

After the initial discussion, the pediatrician asked me how I expected her to examine me with my clothes on. She tugged on the hem of my shirt and ordered me to remove it. I was hoping that it was the only article of clothing that I would have to remove.

Just before concluding the exam, she asked me to hop down from the exam table. She reached into the waistband of my sweatpants and boxers pulled them down and began examining my genitals. She explained that she was just making sure that everything was okay down there. I was in full view of the student, and I'm certain that she enjoyed the show.

I wonder if this was done to punish me for not undressing before she arrived.

I never had an embarrassing experience as a child/teenager. Never remember my mom being with me. By 11 or 12 she waited in the waiting room. Never had to strip completely - just the shirt on occasion. Pants were dropped briefly for the hernia check. Docs were always professional and respectful. Don't remember specifics about the group athletic exams at school - gym shorts or underwear and maybe a privacy screen for the hernia check.

I did receive a full physical from a female Dr in my late 50's. Nothing on but a hospital gown. She seemed nervous when she did the hernia and prostate checks. Didn't bother me but I think it bothered her.

For me, doc visits were never a turn on or fantasy. In fact, as a kid I thought they were a waste of time. I was healthy and they NEVER found anything wrong.

I recall an incident when I was a senior in high school and had to visit...

I love that this was when you were senior in high school. I'm sure you were fully developed, but still going to a pediatrician. Plus, this was a surprise exam, on top of the fact a female just a couple years older than you was in the room. You are probably the oldest patient she saw all day. I bet she was just as surprised as you were when the doctor just decided to lower your sweatpants and expose probably the biggest dick she saw that day.

My pre-college physical was with a female family practitioner in my new town. After the preliminaries, I was told to undress down to my underwear, which were tighty whities at that time in my life.

After listening to my heart and lungs, I was told to lie back on the table. The doctor began palpitating my abdomen. She pushed the top of my underwear down til my pubes, but not penis we exposed and continued palpitating.

I was the asked to stand up. The doctor pulled up a rolling stool, sat down and told me to lower my underwear to my knees. She then performed the most thorough examination of my penis and testicles that i have ever had.

I was the asked to stand up. The doctor pulled up a rolling stool, sat down and told me to lower my underwear to my knees. She then performed the most thorough examination of my penis and testicles that i have ever had.

Could you be specific about what the doctor did in performing the examination of the penis and testicles?

Never got embarrassed at pediatricians office. I may have been a bit nervous but my doctor was very calm and soft spoken. He would always explain everything he was going to do before he did it. The best way I could describe him is the doctor version of Mister Rogers.

Same as @Catalina

Very embarrassing to have my genitals and bottom so closely examined during puberty. But also incredibly exciting to remember. Certainly the beginning of my medfet interest!

There were a couple times when I was a teenager and had to go to the doctor for a yeast infection. At that time, the medicine wasn’t available otc so you had to go in and have a Pap smear to get a prescription. I remember my mom going with me and being in the room while I was getting the Pap smear. I had to get in a gown and put my feet up in stirrups. It was a guy doctor each time. One of the times, the doctor gave me a teddy bear to hold and I bit off it’s nose while he had the q tip inside me.