Anybody interested in caning across the hands? It doesn't have to be too severe, but it is an alternative to the more common bottom caning. A hand caning offers the possibility of eye contact, since you are standing together and can be more intimate, with the possibility of lots of role play.When I was 9, I remember a boy in my class getting 4 strokes from our form mistress, 2 across each hand.She alternated hands for each stroke, left, right, left, right. She adjusted the angle of his arm with her cane, by raising or lowering his hand. Before each stroke she would tap the cane across his hand, as though taking aim. After the stroke he was told to hold his other hand out, until he'd been given 2 across each hand. She was very calm and polite throughout.That experience had a big effect on me, and to this day I would love to experience a mature lady cane me like that.