To me, anticipation is what makes anal penetration as arousing if not even more arousing than the penetration itself. When we plan an Enema Date, I'm thinking about that a great deal of the time. I even dream about it. The actual act is great but the path that takes me there is a very special.
This made me think about yesterday morning. How did I feel about spontaneous anal penetration? Yesterday morning I grunted and pushed but I could not have a bowel movement. I don't like that feeling of being full and swollen. That's uncomfortable and after three days without moving my bowels I asked my husband for help.
My husband has numerous neurological problems. Global Autonomic Neuropathy Dysfunction is one of them. About four years ago he lost the ability to have a normal bowel movement. A major nerve problem caused this. He has used enemas, water injections, garden hose, (Don't Laugh, I'm Serious) etc. All of this is due to Agent Orange exposure. Although he is at 100% disabled and the Government pays for everything, this is a hell of a way for a person to live. My family has talked to him about the Bag option but he's not ready for that yet. For a while now he has been using this for hard impacted stool. He can't push the stool out but he can pull it out!
https://www.medline.com/product/DisImpactor-Kit/Ostomy/Fecal-Management/Z05-PF157284?question=disimpactor&index=P1&indexCount=1
Anyway, we went down to our Medical Room and he set me in my Exam Table. I always wear high heels so I can be set sturdy in the stirrups. He covered me with a warm blanket and then gave me a rectal exam. Wow, I was hard and badly impacted! Normally I'd start with an enema but Bill suggested I try the Disimpactor. I said, okay! Now this procedure was very intimate but with someone you love it also became something sexual. Bill noticed that! My vagina was getting wet and warm. It took about half an hour to remove all the stool. By that time I was so hot I had to take the cover off my body. Well, William and I made wonderful love as I told him how happy I was to be empty and how hot that procedure made me.
This was spontaneous and it was out of this world. No planning involved! Just me being constipated and looking for help. This was a dandy folks! I never knew how being constipated could be so sexy!
Gwen