Speculum exam at home

I would love to have one at home but my boyfriend just isn't into it. He did go with me once to the gyno which turned me on.

A lot of mention has been made of play drs. Are these your spouse/boyfriends or someone else into roleplaying? How would you find someone local to do this?

I examine my wife every month, al least.

Performance is: breast exam, vaginal checkup and internal view using speculum

Sometimes the final is a rectal exam.

@ imist Yes a play doctor can be spouse/boyfriends or someone who who like roleplay the role of a doctor either virtually or in person ( performing physical exams gyno exams etc) . People oh here ( zity ) do advertise , so you can look at the advertisements.

However that said meeting someone of the internet you need to be very careful , you need to chat with them and develop an interaction before you even think about actually meeting .Take a look at this thread:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=330042;mark=meeting%2Cpeople.

Just be safe and most importantly don't do anything you don't want too.

The wife and I have done a couple of them, so average is about two a year.

Full formal long exam......various scenarios...and outfits ........about twice a month.

Quick speculum check every week....at least.

RN1993. you provide excellent information about being cautious.

The speculum exams I perform are only on my wife about twice a week. I never tire of looking into that beautiful lady part.

I'm not married, and also it is not a significant other in the traditional sense that does it, but I do get a speculum exam at home a few times a month on average.

Just out of curiosity, where does most everyone find a speculum? Do you order it on Amazon or from a medical supply provider? I've seen a few on Amazon and that seems to be the way to go.

Also, does anyone order several different sizes?

Amazon or Ebay for me

Ebay has a huge speculum selection, I've gotten some amazing deals there. I've found Amazon to be a bit hit or miss.

I certainly enjoy my at home speculum exams. My husband and I have been doing this for about 35 years. Out of our collection my favorite is the "Patton" four blade speculum. It's a beige color and it's very comfortable. During some of my exams my cervix enjoyed posing for some macro photography. He purchased our instruments at a medical supply store.

I would suggest for any couple to try a speculum session with your lady lover. It's a very intimate act of love and It's a way of really getting to know her. In my way of thinking it's an act of being adored in a very special way. It actually opens the door to trust, intimacy and a great relationship. It makes everything better. Why? A speculum opens the door to a very secret and sacred place. When two loving people can share this sacred place by visual contact it changes things. It steps up the power of love. It's like opening the doors to a beautiful cathedral that beckons the viewer to keep coming back. Going to the altar of the inside of ones body.becomes a special type of religion. That's how I feel anyway.

I have worn out several plastic speculums over the years. I performed another exam this AM and enjoyed it as always.

Any advice on how to start this routine with your partner ?

Ahh, I see. We have played around a little bit with medical play, but I would like to work up to a speculum and full physical fun

Well Dr fireman the best approach would be to discuss this , you have to try and have a meaningful conversation . She may or may not be thrilled at the idea about having a speculum exam but as fniafk said :

Dr fireman

For us it started by getting my wife to discuss her fantasies and what things aroused her. This took some time and eventually we discovered that although she did not like having to see her OB GYN, she got very aroused by the speculum exam. We started med fet role play after that and eventually got to the point of doing a speculum exam over a period if time.

So its only with open and clear discussion can you find out. Some advice do some research about using a speculum , you don't want to cause any "pinching ", so never close a speculum fully while removing it .

@Amythyst I have been doing speculum exams on my wife for many years. I never tire of viewing the beautiful lady part and still get excited by examining her two to three times a week. It is wonderful.

@Amythyst I have been doing speculum exams on my wife for many years. I never tire of viewing the beautiful lady part and still get excited by examining her two to three times a week. It is wonderful.

We have been doing it a bit more often just lately, about 2 or 3 times a month. My husband does not have time to do it 2 or 3 times a week. But some times I just feel like I want him to do it. Yesterday he gave he a speculum exam with the Graves and today he will do it with the collins. They feel a bit different to me because the Graves opens me up top to bottom and the Collins opens me up side to side. They feel different but they both still feel nice.

I bought my speculum on Amazon. I am still waiting to use it on a willing partner.

I was showing hubby a couple of things I want to add to our collection, when he saw the word "MedFet". He asked what that is, and I told him. His eyes got huge, and he said "I'd LOVE to play doctor with you!" WINNING!!

I get a courtsey exam from my hubby once ot twice a month...my husband always gets a prostate exam and massage in return.

I still enjoy the 2 to 4 times a week I perform a speculum exam on my lovely wife. Just can't seem to get enough.

There should be more of it in my humble opinion. I like reading about the frequencies of home speculum exams.

For a home exam, 2-3 times a week sounds great in my books.

Makes me wonder what a professional gyno would think. Seen enough at work?? Does anyone have any insights here? Thanks

Every week or twice

We often use a collins speculum during play and this can be 3 to 4 times a week. My partner loves to have me open her up and this what we use and it works very well. It is often part of foreplay leading to the main event.

Happy to see additional people commenting on this topic.

I'm not a Dr., just very happy to perform this examination quite often.

I like the text reminder. I will send one to my wife!

My wife and I examine each other often, I'd say about once a week on average. We take turns (not during the same "appointment"), and it is usually a full physical. When she examines me it includes a testicular exam, palpation and visual exam of my penis, hernia check, and rectal/prostate exam. When I examine her it includes a thorough breast exam, an external vaginal exam, speculum exam, internal bimanual exam, and rectovaginal/rectal exams. We both perform an abdominal exam as well.

We role play different scenarios, like a pre-employment physical, new patient physical, insurance physical, sports physical, etc. I also have her wear various outfits to her exams, depending on what I'm in the mood to see her wear that day. She sometimes has me wear something specific as well.

We started off using a plastic medium Pedersen speculum, but have since graduated to a stainless steel one.

It's truly interesting reading about others exam procedures. It appears all are having a great deal of fun and excitement. Keep up the great writing. I love reading about these examinations.

My husband is aware that I like medical sex scenarios and I've had him watch a few gyno porn clips that I enjoy. I told him that I was going to order some things that we could play with online and hinted that it had to do with my medical fantasies. I got all kinds of goodies from Amazon - gown, doctor's coat, speculums, etc. He knew it all came because I would take the packages and hide them and told him I didn't want him to see everything until it had all shipped. I casually told him later that everything had arrived and we could play whenever he was ready. Needless to say, that was about a year ago 😢

Any advice?

Lala12345, so your toy shave arrived and your SO has not wanted to play and it has been over a year? If you got a stethoscope you might try it on him to make sure he is still alive. Ok, just kidding. What works well for us to set up an appointment a day or two in advance. It might help to not sex your SO in the time leading up to your exam. I think he will warm up to it pretty fast...