Do you guys stimulate your penis before the doctor sees it?

I only take an 8 oz. bulb of water to make sure the Dr. doesn't withdraw a gloved finger that is messy. That would humiliate me. No medical professional should be subjected to that, so I try to do my part in seeing that never happens. I'm too nervous to get an erection from a DRE.

I think this is a particularly great and interesting topic, and I've enjoyed reading all of the posts. i find it interesting the array of outlooks from different guys. i think they should all be respected equally. It's about the individual guy & his own body & how he feels, whether self conscious, embarrassed, perverted, or anywhere in between.

What I find to be a total turn off are the folks posting with a lecturing, condescending, demeaning tone, however you call it. It's ok to weigh in on a doctor's perspective, but you don't have to be obnoxious about it. Just a gentle suggestion.

I have to ask why you have this need? The physician really doesn't care.

No, I have not.

Personally? H3LL no!

While you don't need to feel self conscious or inadequate, you have every right to feel the way you do, At the same time neither the doctor nor anyone else has any right to judge you, especially for the way you were made. I do not know you nor is it likely we will ever meet but I am sure you are fine the way you are. You have nothing to prove.

Peace.

Stimulate your penis before you see me? What for? I couldn't care less how big your penis is and you shouldn't either. It doesn't matter what size instrument you have, just how you play it. Just don't play it for me!

No and haven't had an erection either in front of a doctor. However in one of my check I did have pre cum and the doctor did examine my penis and pulled back my foreskin - not sure if she noticed my sign of excitement (I only discovered later when I went to the toilet for the urine check)

I feel like I would want to avoid an erection at the doctors'...

Never have stimulated my penis prior to an exam, and cannot see any reason why I should.

I have to ask why you have this need? The physician really doesn't care.

It's psychological on the part of the patient & being seen. Same exact principle as women self conscious of being seen, who feel they need to apply make-up, when many men would consider them attractive enough without make up.

Some guys feel they have to do certain things to look healthy or whatever, just as women feel they need to dress or wear make-up to make themselves look attractive.

It goes back to our judgmental society. Even though the doc doesn't care at all about the size of a patient's penis, the patient has to feel like he looks as healthy or endowed as he can. Just as even though many men are not into women who wear make up at all & would rather go on a woman's raw beauty, women still feel like they have to apply a foundation.

Can't say I've ever done that, but it's not usually at its smallest at the doctors office anyway.

There's a big difference between sexually stimulating and fluffing. Even in a medfet crowd I think very few guys would do the former. But I also think very few guys would claim they've never fluffed over the years...though maybe not in an exam situation. Like Wrestlingpoet said it is (or was) almost instinctive, in my own experience and observation. When I switched to boxers from a life of briefs it was less necessary lol.

Absolutely, it's usually not that warm and gotta jostle around a bit

I never stimulate it before an medical exam

Absolutely I do

My husband has never stimulated his own penis, however since we have joint exams, his penis gets quite aroused watching me undergo mine. He is typically semi erect by the time he has to undergoes his genital exam.

Never touch it before , usually aroused at some point during the exam

No. I never did anything like this.

No, short of giving my self a rigid erection there isn't going to be much improvement in size and I don't consider the situation to be a penis size contest anyway. I'm usually cold and everything is shrunk tight. The doctor often has to cup my scrotum in one had to warm it a bit so she can do her exam properly.

I remember when I was younger getting a boner during a physical was the scariest idea on earth. I've never gotten one. And I certainly wouldn't try to. I almost feel like that would be some form of sexual harassment. Accidents happen. Doing it on purpose just feels wrong.

Never stimulated myself before a genital exam. Usually stay soft for the exams, however last exam I was excited for the genital part, so I wasn't hard, but wasn't flaccid either.

Stimulate? No. Shake it out so it's not squished from the underwear? Yes.

I almost feel like that would be some form of sexual harassment. Accidents happen. Doing it on purpose just feels wrong.

As much as i'd like to impress a female doc, I worry that an erection would make THEM feel uncomfortable. Which may very well in turn cause them to insist that i be more covered up. The idea is for them to be comfortable with me not being in a gown, and ideally just a jockstrap. I want THEM to be comfortable with me that way. i feel an erection is kind of like of passive form of aggressiveness. So despite a possible desire to impress, I'm more comfortable just being flaccid.

Unless life were like a movie, and it would cause an attractive lady doc to come onto me.....

I do that as well, but it really doesn't matter, because by the time she gets to the genital exam I'm usually semi erect anyway!

I'm following this discussion thread, waiting for that wwwwww...one person..... to say he's been caught "red handed" stimulating it when the doc walks in.

I dont have to stimulate myself before the genital exam. I get hard the moment the doctor touch me

I see a female NP, so I definitely don't want to have an erection, but she is attractive to me so I always try to make sure when it's time to lift my gown so she can get to my testicles that it's looking it's best, and that it's not leaking any clear fluid from the tip, because that happens after sitting there anticipating being exposed to her.

Nope, I prefer the natural state

Certainly don't simulate it, hanging loose is best, Don't want an erection at that point, perhaps after the exam though.

I have no problem with my stimulating my penis before the exam, my doctor does it for me when he palpate. It happens everytime and it is kind of embarrassing