Speculum exams at home with spouse. How many women enjoy this exam by their spouse?

I have always enjoyed examining my wife 2 of 3 times a week. How about others?

Inquisitive, please do a search for speculum.

This is a well discussed topic.

Ok ,i will.

I'd like to try but haven't yet.

I have attended her exam and it was an amazing experience.

I've never done it before, but wopuld love to. But I know she does not like it, so no Chance :-(

I have done it with partners and vise versa. It can be erotic

I've examined several previous long term girlfriends and / or my wife on a regular basis. It definitely adds a new erotic sexual element for the woman knowing that her sexual pleasure isn't going to be in the bedroom that night, but instead being in the stirrups for a thorough gyno exam. :-)

I would love to, but i am not sure if she likes it. How can I find out best?

Well,

I already started that, slowly. She enjoys to have my fingers in her pussy. I told her recently, that I need to do "these examinations" while doing this. She did not have a problem with this...

Gyno

Hi,

I have to admit that i already bought a collin and a graves without telling her, i have to find the correct moment to tell her and start the action.

No so easy. I do not want her to NOT like it, you know :-)

Hi Gynecologist,

Just take your time for It and bring her first in the right mood, like preparing food for her, buy her flowers....

I hope you will succeed in it.

And i hope i will succeed soon too ?

Keep us in touch ?

Tony

I have been thinking of purchasing one for the lady friend and I to enjoy. Could add to a more realistic feel!

I never tire of viewing the interior of that most beautiful lady part. Two to three times a week is still going on and I love it.

Hi Gynecologist and all friends, It might be the time to sit down and talk about your passion. This is not just another step toward a fun time. This is the gateway to a relationship that will become very strong. It will bring you together in a way you have not yet experienced. It's intimate, beautiful, loving and will bond you both in a very special way. Looking in your lover is nothing like looking at your lover. Once you experience seeing inside your lovers body you and her and the love you have now will become powerful! It's a new mental and emotional feeling. As my husband says it's kind of like heaven on earth. We can visualize heaven in many ways. It might not be up in the clouds but it may be found the first time you view her beautiful cervix! That's a heavenly body that keeps on giving! My best to you and your lady! To me it's an act of adoration that my husband gives me.

GyneDoll has said it best. Thank you.

GyneDoll has it exactly. The love between husband and wife is strengthened and made deeper with this level of intimacy.

I dream of my husband doing them to me at home. It always instantly leads to sex and isn’t realistic like I want it to be sadly.

Zoey789: So you tried and the exam immediately went into sex?

Exposing the cervix is certainly a deeper level of intimacy. I wish my wife was as into it as I am. But its something she can give me that she knows I'm into. Much prefer metal to plastic, much more clinical.

@Zoey789, You are dreaming of having a speculum exam by your husband at home? Do you two love birds talk about this and then verbal stimulation leads to sex? If that's the case you at least have one foot in the door already. Do you have a speculum already or do you two talk about purchasing one? Let us know and we can take another step toward helping you and your husband. I'm not an Obi-Wan-Kenobi but I've helped members like you in the past. Your conundrum It's kinda like ice fishing without drilling a hole! You have to drill - break a hole in the ice first to get to where you need to be. Beating the ice with your fist is not the answer. It's using the right tool for the job that's the answer. So right now you kinda have us stumped! Open the hole of more in depth communication, if you desire, and we may be able to help you. You have heard that saying, "Break The Ice?" That means please tell us more for us to understand how to help you. Where there is passion there may be promise!

@Silvfox, You also my friend! You can wish in one hand and crap in the other and see which hand fills up first! All the wishing in the world will not help your difficulty or problem. Affirmative Action May Be The Answer?! I'm assuming you are at the speculum in the vagina stage and you are looking at the most beautiful part of her body. Is this the case? There is a big difference between having to and wanting to. You feel as if she is doing this just to satisfy you? I'm going to suggest this! Plan a heart to heart session with your wife concerning the speculum and seeing her cervix. You should try to make her feel and believe she is the goddess you believe she is. If that means kneeling in front of her in adoration you do that. To her, at this point it's just another half ass sex act. You must exude and display the passion you have for her and that intimate and beautiful part of her body. Let her know this is as sacred as receiving communion at church! There is a reason why I've said what I just said about church.

This is an example of passion for another person. At age 17 I fell deeply in love with the man I am with today. At that young age I fell in love with his tongue in my vagina! I loved oral sex! One night at the Drive In Movies I wanted him to please me orally. He freaked out when he noticed I was wearing a menstrual pad. I was having my period! The denomination he was raised in said a menstruating woman was dirty! I said, in that case take me home and we were finished as young lovers. I said this, you love all of me or none of me! He laid me down in the back seat, removed my panties, stumbled to remove my pad and gave me oral sex like never before. It was as if he were kneeling at church receiving communion. He was crying after we talked later. He talked about a church hymn. It was "I Am The Bread Of Life" He talked about this verse! "Unless you eat, of the bread of the son of man and drink of his blood, and drink of his blood you shall not have life within you, and I will raise you up on the last day." He said, Gwen, tonight I have drank your blood and I now have your life within me, you have raised me up! In other words we were now one person. We were unified! We became one as united lovers. He did not have to do that! He did that because he wanted to.

This is they type of passion Silvfox I'm talking about. The action of sitting down and talking may be what you should do. Words will help define or describe exactly the action you desire!

From The Book Of Gwen!

My husband does this on occasion with me, sometimes holding me open for a LONG time.

GyneDoll, Your advise is sound and appreciated. Her problem with it stems from the fact that if the average person was to know what you were doing they would consider us deviant or perverted. Fortunately, oral sex with the presence of menstrual blood has not been an issue. Don't recall having made a religious connection but I can see it.

My husband puts one of my speculums in me about twice a month, it is one of the things that gets done in the play exams he gives me and I love it. @Silvfox I do not get why your wife is worried about other people knowing something about it, you are not going to tell them but maybe she does not really want to do it anyway.

@Silvfox, Sorry I mixed you up with the religion ordeal What I meant was the spiritual or mental part of humanity. What really makes us tick! My husband was brow beaten with church. That night at the Drive In changed him. He learned not to let people, places, things or religions influence his life. He broke away and learned how to live and love. He learned not to listen to the opinions of other people whose opinions were not worth listening to.

@Amethyst. The issue with discovery involves the children or grandchildren finding things when we died such as videos of us having sex or the authentic clinic exam table complete with stirrups. So that had to go away. It's now in the been there done that file. Beats having an unfulfilled fantacsy.