Diaper kink and real doctors

Hey Folks, I was wondering. I recently fessed up to the doctor about some "problems" staying dry. It was pretty tough to tell a stranger "hey, guess what, I pee my pants!" Any ways a long discussion ensued with the doc wanting me to see a urologist. I told him that was further than I wanted to take the whole issue right now. As long as my life isn't threatened I'd try the meds available. He seemed to be fine and prescribed the meds. Long story short, they bombed for me. So when I head back soon I suppose we'll be continuing the discussion.

Since I'm posting "here" needless to say, the diaper "issue" isn't a problem much. I don't feel a compelling need to go through the hugely embarrassing and uncomfortable process a urologist would put me thru. The death sentence of you'll be in diapers the rest of your life if you don't, is like uh, geeze that's too bad....not... Like I said above if a problem arises that is dangerous, I'll go see the urologist. I get the feeling there are two groups that feel a need to see a urologist. The first is someone with a dangerous life threatening situation (me included). The second are the folks that are totally freaked out and can't go on living because they wet their pants. (definitely NOT me haa haa!!)

There seems to be diapers for sale everywhere I turn. No matter where you go now there's a place to pick up some Depends or pads or something. Pretty soon you'll be able to pick them up at Mcdonalds with your fries the way it's going. LOL... Interestingly if you read the web about incontinence, the only talk you'll see is how the urologist can cure everybody. (Dig deeper though and you'll see that "cure' is a very loose term). So who the heck is buying all these diapers if everybody is cured. Surely there aren't that many DLs out there. I can't believe the doctors aren't seeing TONS of people in diapers.

Getting back to my point, have you here seen the doctor and confessed to having a bladder issue? Have you walked away with the agreement/acceptance of the doctor taking a "not that big of a deal" or you can manage it with "protection"? I'm wondering mainly because I'm getting old. And a little lazy. I just don't want to bother with the hassle and expense of going thru a huge battery of endless tests. Diapers aren't that big of a deal. How about you?

Urlogest will first recomend different meds. (usually never compleatly work only 10% to 30%) and THEY consider that a sucuess then they hate the idea of you wearing diapers or pads even if that works best for you

Basically I recently as 3 years ago, I started telling my home visit nurse I needed diapers at night for protection because my diabetes med were getting me up 6 time a night, She reports this to my primary doctor. Seems they did not catch it until I told another nurse in his office the same thing. Doctor then wanted me to see a urologist. He found I have bph and put me on meds that are supposed to slow it down for me. It seems I urinate more now than before with daytime wetting accidents on occasion. I'm to see urologist for a follow up soon but I already told him I will take the meds and test as long as it is not invasive or surgery. I wear diapers and they are no problem for me at all. So we will see what he says now, I will end this cause I know how I feel about meds and diapers. Diapers are my preference to manage it.

Hi boys, please don't be offended about what I am going to say here as that is not my intention. First of all, most people do not want to wear diapers and the thought terrifies them to death. So their urologist will try everything he can to make sure you don't have to. Medications in this sort of class are getting better and better all the time. Your doctor is working toward the goal of getting you out of diapers, because that's what all of his patients want, except the few like you boys. So, if you don't mind wearing diapers and plan on wearing them then you need to man up and just tell your doctors that so you can quit wasting their time and energy, your's too.

Also, metoo, you said you get the feeling there are 2 groups of people who go to see the Urologist, well I can honestly tell you that you are way off on that. Urologists treat a million different things or conditions, and for that many more reasons. I am not in a life threatening situation, and I am not peeing my panties so I am not afraid of having to wear diapers, but I do have at least two huge kidney stones that will not come out and are stuck in the meat of my kidney, and I see a Urologist.

One last thing for you boys to think about here. Insurance companies require your doctor to try to do everything he can to keep you independent and continent and out of diapers. So they are just doing what they have to do or they don't get paid, and down the road when you really do need diapers, your insurance company will not be paying for them.

Mashie

Mashie -- I would have thought urologist would be likely to recommend considering pulsed laser tech in vaporising them...Any remnants are usually passed with urination.

I was refered to a urologist by my Doctor and after various tests it was decided that my incontinence and enuresis is caused by nerve damage due to my diabetes and cannot be cured. I was then refered to the continence service for practical help in managing my problem. I get pads for daytime use and slips(nappies) to wear at night. I have found the urology team not to have any interest in how you manage the problem. They leave that to the continence service.

My continence nurse tried hard to keep me from wearing pads during the day but eventually agreed it was me who had to deal with the problem and as long as I accepted what control I had left would soon be lost she would be fine with it.

All the medical profession know I am dependant on incontinence products now and it is stated in my notes.

My Doctor never mentions how I deal with it. My diabetic nurse sometimes does and I see the continence nurse every six months for a review.I see the urologist periodically and nothing is ever mentioned about how I deal with the problem.

Doctors are there to help and if perceive a problem they want to change it. My doctor is the same way. He would push me to see someone for this problem my incontinent and my mental health. I would decline it each time. Over the years I have gone to him he has come to understand me and except that I am just fine and happy. Don’t get me wrong this is not for everyone when I was first wearing diaper, cloth was the best option disposable for adult where a joke. The only thing worse is the hospital ones or the one insurance will pay for. Don’t get me started on that.

That Australian, Actually about 6, well let me start out with about 20 years ago they put me in the whole bathtub thing and tried pulsating them to break them up. It was brand new technology back then. They blasted me the max amount of times which I believe was 3000 times. It caused a little bit of gravel or sandy type stuff but didn't do much. That urologist told me my stones were about the hardest he had ever seen or had dealt with and that there was no reason they all shouldn't have been broken up with the amount of blasts I had.

So once I got rid of the gravel stuff I didn't have any more symptoms for a long time. Then about 6 years ago I started having issues again. That's when they took me into surgery again. I had 4 stones at that time. I had 2 in the lower region and 2 in the upper meat of the kidney. What should have been a 30-45 minute adventure with the laser ended up taking 3 hours. They finally had to stop because again, longer than that can be dangerous and runs the risk of doing damage to my kidney. They couldn't get at the two in the upper portion. These are the two that I believe are giving me all the pain now but we are not sure. I am in the process of getting all of my hospital records including the CT scans from 7 years ago and the one from 3 months ago. We are going to compare them to each other. Doc and I have a urologist waiting for these records and we are going to see what the next steps will be. I am in pain, a lot of pain everyday. I keep dipping my urine to make sure I do not have an infection. My urine is yellow but the blood box on the urine strip is black which basically means that my urine is full of red blood cells. Also the SG is clear to the right. SG is specific gravity and when it's clear on the right it means that I am very dehydrated, which is pretty normal for me actually. I used to be able to stop the kidney pain with hyper-hydration, that stopped working. Then I could make it go away with Tylenol and Meloxicam, which I take for the bursitis in my right shoulder. Now that has stopped working. Now I am taking the Meloxicam along with Toradol, which works, but the combination of the Meloxicam with the Toradol isn't safe for my kidney. So, we are getting the information we need to move forward with what we need to do next.

If Doc and Mikey, our urologist decided that it is in fact the two remaining stones that are the cause of all my pain the surgery I will have to have is apparently, or has the potential to be a bit risky. They will have to slice open my back and into my kidney and pull them out through the skin. Opening a kidney that way is never what you want to do any any stretch. Part of me hopes this is the case because getting rid of them will be quick and when the surgery is over the stones will be gone and I won't have to deal with the stents and all that pain associated with them. The other part of me doesn't really like the idea of someone cutting into my kidney. Lucky for me though, it's only my right kidney that is producing the stones which in itself seems to have the doctors a bit perplexed. So, I should know what the plan will be in the next week or so.

Mashie

Thanks Mashie...I'd erroneously overlooked the fact that not everyone is a prime candidate for Pulsed Laser & you are correct insofar as extended time while undergoing treatment due to a number of variables ...The most obvious being the heat generated because of the time sequence

Some time back I had been doing some extensive research on the subject on behalf of another member...though in that instance it was for gallstones ,mainly as an alternative to surgical removal....From a technological perspective said articles showed major advancements...I'll endeavour to locate the link & re-post it

Actually, Mashie's two accessible stones we treated with pulsed laser. They were big, over 2cm and very hard. We burned three laser fibers out on that surgery. Total laser time was 2:20. That's two hours twenty minutes turning big stones into little ones. After that stents were placed. Was supposed to be a short recovery time. It wasn't. Those tales are for another time.

Doc

Several decades ago I developed severe, chronic ulcerative and hemorrhagic cystitis. The urologist put me on a couple different meds, including Detrol, but the side effects were so severe I couldn't continue with them. I had to wear diapers anyway, and they were much more comfortable than the meds. So the doc wrote me a script for disposable diapers that I could fill at the hospital med supply office. He took me completely off all bladder meds.

Eventually I developed bladder cancer and had my bladder removed, replaced by an Indiana Pouch (Google it), made from bowel segments. It's not fully continent, so I'm diapered 24/7 forever.

I find that doctors of any specialty are very willing to simply leave me diapered. particularly since I'm well satisfied with them as status quo. Nurses are always fascinated with the premium diapers I wear (Molicare super plus, bambino, ABU Space, etc) as they've never seen adult diapers that actually work as well as baby diapers. And yes, several have thought printed diapers are "Cute" as well as effective. I say I don't care what they look like as long as they work well and fit me. Yes, that's a little white lie, but mostly true. 😉

Binkey

In my case, My doctors are totally ok with me wearing diapers and being diaper dependent again. The way I have told them is that Diapers are a stress relief and they help keep me calm in stressful situations. Diapers are like a security blanket for stressful times. Which is why my doctors are accepting of me being diapered and staying diapered. Even when I go see them at the office, I am always diapered wearing thick diapers. I also have a dermatology nurse I visit on a weekly basis. She's very supportive and comfortable with me staying diapered and often has allowed me to stay diapered on my appointments with her. She knows I wear diapers and is very comfortable with me being diapered and she knows the diapers help keep me calm when life get's very stressful.

That's why in my case, I have a supportive doctor and a Nurse who understands why I wear diapers and why I went back into diapers. They know that Diapers are helping me stay calm and know that Diapers help me relax as a person. On top of that they know I am very relaxed and comfortable with myself when I am diapered and they see that I am not stressed out. That's why they know that Diapers have a calming affect on me and know that diapers are better than all the harmful psych drugs.

The nice part, is whenever I go see them, they let me go see them in just a Diaper and a T-shirt on. They know it makes me feel comfortable and helps me relax when I am with them. At the same time, they check on the condition of the diaper and often times have it changed right their by the Nurses. That's why I often times have my diapers changed by them, when I go see them. They always comment on how nice and cute the thick premium (Abena, ABU Space) Diapers are and they often tell me, I look great in a thick diaper and a T-shirt on.

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In my case, My doctors are totally ok with me wearing diapers and being diaper dependent again. The way I have told them is that Diapers are a stress relief and they help keep me calm in stressful situations. Diapers are like a security blanket for stressful times. Which is why my doctors are accepting of me being diapered and staying diapered. Even when I go see them at the office, I am always diapered wearing thick diapers. I also have a dermatology nurse I visit on a weekly basis. She's very supportive and comfortable with me staying diapered and often has allowed me to stay diapered on my appointments with her. She knows I wear diapers and is very comfortable with me being diapered and she knows the diapers help keep me calm when life get's very stressful.

That's why in my case, I have a supportive doctor and a Nurse who understands why I wear diapers and why I went back into diapers. They know that Diapers are helping me stay calm and know that Diapers help me relax as a person. On top of that they know I am very relaxed and comfortable with myself when I am diapered and they see that I am not stressed out. That's why they know that Diapers have a calming affect on me and know that diapers are better than all the harmful psych drugs.

The nice part, is whenever I go see them, they let me go see them in just a Diaper and a T-shirt on. They know it makes me feel comfortable and helps me relax when I am with them. At the same time, they check on the condition of the diaper and often times have it changed right their by the Nurses. That's why I often times have my diapers changed by them, when I go see them. They always comment on how nice and cute the thick premium (Abena, ABU Space) Diapers are and they often tell me, I look great in a thick diaper and a T-shirt on.

So much of that that doesn't ring true especially since in other posts you have said you sleep nude, go around your house nude when you don't have guests, etc. You couldn't do that if you were genuinely incontinent. Your entire house would be your toilet. You also have conflicting posts about leakage in public. I have never heard of a doctor saying people in diapers, especially soiled ones, are cute. They view it as unfortunate. I have taken care of patients who have colostomies--the ultimate condition of incontinence, and when they have doctor's appointments, unless they are having a specific problem like an infection or bleeding around the stoma, even they change their bags and sometimes the wafers before their appointments so they maintain cleanliness. They don't wait or expect the nurses to do it for them. I have never seen a patient at a doctor's office wearing just a T-shirt and a diaper. It just doesn't happen.

.So much of that that doesn't ring true especially since in other posts you have said you sleep nude, go around your house nude when you don't have guests, etc. You couldn't do that if you were genuinely incontinent. Your entire house would be your toilet. You also have conflicting posts about leakage in public. I have never heard of a doctor saying people in diapers, especially soiled ones, are cute. They view it as unfortunate. I have taken care of patients who have colostomies--the ultimate condition of incontinence, and when they have doctor's appointments, unless they are having a specific problem like an infection or bleeding around the stoma, even they change their bags and sometimes the wafers before their appointments so they maintain cleanliness. They don't wait or expect the nurses to do it for them. I have never seen a patient at a doctor's office wearing just a T-shirt and a diaper. It just doesn't happen.

Why are you being an Idiot and Harassing people, when they post comments. So much what you say, sometimes borders on harassment.

Just so you know, I am the one that closed the report. Harassing people online? Seriously, please.

First of all I was getting ready to reply to this as well but I probably wouldn't have been as nice.

I have no problem if the adult babies want to wear diapers. If it makes you happy I don't really give a rats ass what you do in the privacy of your own home. The reason so many people jump all over the adult babies so much of the time is because you bring it to public attention and shove it in our faces half of the time. I don't expect others to love injections because I do. We like different things and that's okay. But I don't go around carrying syringes and needles and bring them out everyplace I go. I don't write posts about how many people give themselves injections in the movie theaters.

My biggest complaint, and I think a lot of others too is when people lie. We hate it and when someone lies if you get called out on it, well sorry about your luck. Stop lying. It doesn't matter who you are or what your kink is we are adults and no one likes to be lied to, period. The nice thing about a site like this is there is basically a written history. Everyone has their own, and they have written it. If you say in one post as one poster did a few years ago about how she was an enema virgin and was writing post after post about how she wanted to do them and was over the top attention seeking. However a few years prior to that she was bragging about how she was the enema queen of this forum and has given and received thousands. When the members of this site called her on her bullshit she cried, reported abuse and what not. Well, sorry honey, you lied and you got what you deserved. Period!

God knows I have well for lack of better terms supported this adult baby community I and I am guessing Sue, because we are real nurses draw the line when the adult babies cross over into our real medical world. You are not talking to nurses who are right out of school and green. We have been nurses for many years, I for one am dating a doctor and we both have tons of friends who are doctors. We more than anyone know exactly what goes on in real doctors offices, remember, that is where we work, day after day after day, depending on which job we are currently or have been employed at.

I was getting ready to respond and say that I also call bullshit. First of all, in the state of Ohio if you as a nurse ever told a patient they looked cute in diapers or made any sort of comment along those lines you had better have a fantastic lawyer on speed dial that is real good at representation in front of the OBN aka the Ohio Board of Nursing because after the doctor fired you on the spot he would make a call to the OBN and report you for abuse. Comments like that are absolutely not acceptable professionally speaking, they are degrading to the patient, and incredibly inappropriate in a professional setting. Period!

Also, true medical professionals do not EVER enable our patients, at least not good ones. To suggest that a doctor would ever make a nurse change a patients diaper in an office setting when the patient is self supporting, not handicapped either mentally or physically is again laughable and incredibly wrong. When people say things like this it really pisses us off because you are directly insulting my professional skills, my education, my abilities, and my dignity. I personally will not sit here and allow things like this to be said without addressing it.

There are a lot of great people who are adult babies and wear diapers. They fight every single day to maintain their own personal dignity and to be accepted in a place like this. When there are certain members who belong to their sub set and make claims that are so over the top false it makes them look bad too, and that isn't fair to them either.

So bottom line here, no pun intended, if you don't want to hear the truth because it hurts, then don't lie. Think about others when you post things that are so over the top that you make your entire group look bad. When you bring things on yourself you have no right to come crying to moderation, or anyone else for that matter because when you lie, no one cares. You get what you get because you deserve what you get. Period!

Mashie

Mashie, your reply was exceptionally well stated and really resonated with me as to one of the big problems of the AB community. One of the larger reasons as to why I don't identify as an AB is this notion that is pushed by some members of the community that the world must know about your fetish and respect your babyhood. The world does not work that way, and having a bunch of ABs that impose their fetish on ordinary folks does not help the case of the majority of AB's trying to gain respect and validity from society.

Mashie, that was an excellent, well written post!

Good one Mashie! One of your very best. Articulate and to the point.

Thank you to those who posted after me and gave me the compliments.

It is a very sore topic for me. You know 30-40 years ago the "gay" community was trying to fight their way up out of all the stereotypes associated with them. Then 30 years before them it was the Afro-Americans. Both of these groups of people fought and fought hard to be accepted in the societies in which they lived. Now here we are, this community, no matter what our kinks are, we are basically all in that exact same boat both of the before mentioned groups were also in.

While none of us are probably fooling ourselves into thinking that we will ever be "main stream" or commonly accepted in the general worlds in which we live, none of us want to have to continue digging and clawing our way through life like we have to do now. I realize that 50 shades of Gray really wasn't meant for us or directed towards us it definitely made a path in the world that allowed the general public to have a little glimpse into part of our world. Because of it the world as we know it now is aware that we exist. Each and every time something like 50 Shades gets mentioned the less we have to dig and fight because the world is becoming a little bit more accepting of us, of all of us. Personally speaking I hope the day comes when our group and other groups like ours are able to be "out" and be free and we can be who we are.

When people in our kinky little club house go out of their way to tell lies about who we are and what we do it makes all of us look bad, especially the specific group in which they identify with. It makes all of our hard work basically count for nothing. If you are proud of who you are, what you do and the people like you that you care about, stop throwing them in front of the bus. When most of us are digging and clawing our way up the muddy hill of acceptance and you are standing on the top of it throwing more water down the muddy hill make it even harder for those of us who are fighting, don't expect us to be all warm and fuzzy towards you. If you are not helping then you are part of the problem, not part of the solution. So when those of us who are fighting pull you off the ledge and throw you to the bottom of the mud pit you have absolutely no right to cry and bitch. Stop being part of the problem and start being part of the solution.

Mashie

Great responses Mashie. Sadly there seem to be a lot of people here that just want to jump on a mods ass for being mean. But being harsh and truthful is a long way from harassment. I don't get the AB/DL community but it's not my kink, and that's fine . But there's no need to cry harassment when things don't go your way. If you're a fully functioning adult in society some people will click with your thoughts and ideas and others will rub you the wrong way. We aren't always going to like all the same members and we aren't always going to agree with all of the moderation team. What I appreciate about you and Susie is that you call people out on their lies and they can't deny what they've written themselves. I wish some members would just agree to disagree with moderators instead of whining and making it that much more harder for the rest of us. I hope you're feeling better and am glad you address these topics with class and fire it's the only way it works. Thank you!

Well thank you very much. It isn't my favorite part of my job for sure but it is a very necessary part of my job. The moderation team work very hard at trying to keep us all safe. We work hard at getting rid of the posers and the people who claim to be one sex when they are really the other. Honesty is the only way sites like this stay together. When sites start getting over run with people lying then no one trusts anyone and people leave. If the people that we call out on their bullshit leave, all the better. I personally don't want them here anyway and if I would have to take a guess, I would assume others don't either. They usually don't have anything of value to contribute and a lot of regulars see right through them as well. Upsetting posers, liars, and other such people isn't something that really bothers me, ever, at all, not in the least. You know what they say, we are only as strong as our weakest member. I personally don't want our weakest members being the posers and liars, that's not acceptable. If our weakest members are the ones that are new to their discovery of our kink, or are afraid because they are unsure, that's great, we can work with that. We can take them in and educate them, protect them, and show them. Being a liar and a poser isn't something we can work with, that is who they are unfortunately. We can't fix a lack of integrity, lack of moral values, or lack of character. So the way I personally deal with these types of folks is to expose them for who they really are. To use a term from my Amish upbringing, shun them. Hopefully they get the message and change, if not, well then buh-bye! Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya!

Mashie

We all owe a big Thank You to all the moderators. They keep this place rocking.

I especially appreciate Mashie and Susie's contributions from a medical professional standpoint.

That's cause Switchablesusie is always being mean and insensitive when people post on here. Sometimes it borders on harassment and sometimes comes off as harassment.

Well I think your bullshit and I think your lying as well. In fact I don't think your an AB or DL at all. For the record, my doctors and Nurses are comfortable with me wearing diapers and allowing me to wear diapers whenever I see them.

I think you meant you're not your. And Mashie clearly stated she isn't AB/DL but respects your kink. You've clearly been called out and have your diaper in a twist.

Well I think your bullshit and I think your lying as well. In fact I don't think your an AB or DL at all. For the record, my doctors and Nurses are comfortable with me wearing diapers and allowing me to wear diapers whenever I see them.

Well first of all sweetheart ummm, I can speak for Sue here when I tell you this, and I can do so for a fact, meaning I know what I am going to say is 100 percent true here. Sue is NOT an adult baby or a diaper lover. I have known her for about 8 years now and she could not be FURTHER from being a diaper lover than I am. She at no time ever said she was. We are both continent adults and wearing diapers or acting like a baby is neither of our kinks. So from that I can then tell you that she never lied. Neither of us said that your doctors or nurses were not comfortable with you wearing a diaper when you come to see them either. If you have a continents problem then it's what you need to do, and that's okay. What I and I think Sue said is that them changing your diaper while you are in the doctors office by a nurse, or them allowing you to come into their office just wearing a t-shirt and your diaper is where we draw the line and call bullshit. If I can't be out in public and breast feed my children then no way are you going to be walking out in public wearing a diaper and a t-shirt, especially into a public doctors office. Seriously? Please remember with whom you are speaking.

That's cause Switchablesusie is always being mean and insensitive when people post on here. Sometimes it borders on harassment and sometimes comes off as harassment.

Have you not read the replies following your post? Sue was basically nice in her reply, I was not. I understand that your kink is being an adult baby, which has no reflection on whether or not you are incontinent, it doesn't matter. But this site is for ADULTS. If you want to play being a baby, more power to you, have fun and enjoy yourself. But again, this site is for adults, no matter what your kink is, and therefor you need to act accordingly. You need to carry yourself as an adult, period!

When you say things like Susie is "mean". Mean, really? Is that a normal response of an adult? I can't say that it is. Her job, mine as well for that matter is to help keep this site running smoothly, to keep us all safe and do what's best for the site as a whole, not for each individual. That means that sometimes we have to not be nice. It means that sometimes we have to be honest and call people out on their bullshit. Basically if you are nice, honest, follow the rules then you most likely will never hear a neg word from either of us.

You need to go back up and read ALL of my responses. Here, let me say it again for you loud and clear. WHEN YOU BRING YOUR KINK INTO MY PROFESSIONAL WORLD YOU ARE CROSSING THE LINE. I PERSONALLY FIND IT EXTREMELY DEGRADING TO ME AND MY PROFESSION, DISRESPECTFUL, DISTASTEFUL, AND SHOWS AN INCREDIBLE LACK OF MORALS, CHARACTER, AND INTEGRITY, on your part, not mine.

Harassment means that she is going after you, after most if not all of your posts and ripping you a new asshole. She didn't, but I did. Even though I did, I still am not even coming close to harassing you. Please consult Merrium-Webster for the true definitions of the word in question. I can understand how you might be able to say that some of what we say "comes off" as harassment though, but it only does because of the points I stated earlier in this post, earlier in the day, and again late last night.

You can't start crying because we called you out on being untruthful. Suck it up, or better yet apologize for misspeaking. I have misspoke more than a few times and when I do I do the right thing, the adult thing and I apologize for it. And I mean it when I say so. That's called responsibility, being responsible for your actions. That's what adults do. We don't pull the "she's being mean to me" card.

Again, please look at ALL the responses after ours. Not one single person came to your defense. Not one, not even folks from your own adult baby community. You need to ask yourself why? Why are every single one of them thanking me for the posts I wrote? Is it because they are afraid of me because I might be mean to them? Ummm no sweetheart they are not. They are agreeing with me because I told you the truth, blunt as it may have been, it was the plain truth. This is how adults talk to each other. Key word there, ADULTS. Now spell it frontwards and backwards ten times each, look it up in the same dictionary I referenced before. It will be on your spelling test Friday. LOL.

Mashie

Why are you being an Idiot and Harassing people, when they post comments. So much what you say, sometimes borders on harassment.

That's cause Switchablesusie is always being mean and insensitive when people post on here. Sometimes it borders on harassment and sometimes comes off as harassment.

Well I think your bullshit and I think your lying as well. In fact I don't think your an AB or DL at all. For the record, my doctors and Nurses are comfortable with me wearing diapers and allowing me to wear diapers whenever I see them.

It is your prerogative to disagree with me. Disagreement is not being mean.

What I don't appreciate are statements that are clearly lies and extremely repetitive statements that in your case amounts to your bumping threads in which you have posted, repeating over and over what you have already said where no additional clarification or explanation is necessary for readers to get your point.

No kinkster should criticize another kinksters kinks. All of us could be criticized for our kinks. I know very well I could be criticized for enjoying giving and receiving enemas, S&M and bondage. I have discussed these and other activities with several vanilla people and fully explained what I like about them if the topic came up in conversation. Asking questions to understand others kinks is perfectly acceptable, but evading answers or especially untruthful answers is not acceptable to me.

Zity is one of the few places I can be myself, why should we lie when we can simply tell the truth and people will accept us. Really does not show alot of class and Mashie never said to be an AB, unlike you claiming to be a diapered baby girl. I get it, there are plenty of times where I wish I was a beautiful woman, but I know in reality I am not, doesn't mean I have the right to try to fool other people online. Not a good way to represent our little niche in the kink community that already gets marginalized by alot of other kinky people.