Receiving exam this weekend

I am going to be receiving a physical this weekend and am very nervous. I am in my early 20's and have not been to the doctor for anything like this since I was a kid. This is not a real doctor but one that is very realistic and has an exam room with all the appropriate instruments and accessories and sanitary caution. I have allowed my girlfriend to coordinate it and she has told me the doctor will need to examine my bottom and also see me ejaculate. Those are the parts I am most nervous about. If anyone has any advice or anything for me as a patient I would love to hear. I would also like opinion if you think you know how I will be checked "back there" and if I will have to be in front of him completely naked?

He assured me I could ask all the questions I want before we begin, but having talked it out a little before will probably calm me some lol.

P.S. We have been in communication with this doctor for over a month and my girlfriend will still be alert and waiting for me with a specified time limit and I have read the posts by you guys regarding safety 😉 so I will be appreciative of all comments/messages but am more concerned about the actual exam aspects than ironing out the safety details. Safety is always a primary concern though!

This is not a real doctor but one that is very realistic and has an exam room with all the appropriate instruments and accessories and sanitary caution.

I may not really understand what you are saying, but it sounds like you will be getting a going over from someone who may not really know what he is up to and I would not feel comfortable believing what he says or betting my life on his diagnosis. Go to a real, licensed M.D. or O.D and get some real advice. It could save your life

hankb

He is getting a PLAY exam.

He said it's not a real doctor and was arranged by his GF.

I did not see anything in his note that said that this was a for fun thing, I do not see how he could get so concerned over a play examination, no matter how realistic it might seem, for he would know that it was supposed to be for enjoyment, not medical purposes. It seemed to me that he was doing it in lieu of the real thing, which I said was a mistaken, possibly dangerous thing. I wonder what susie and possibly other saw that I missed.

hankb

In his third sentence he writes, "This is not a real doctor but one that is really realistic....."

Not trying to be snarky, but I don't think it can get any more clear than that no?

Mashie

Ah this is a great thread/topic. The subject here is a young, straight male being coerced to participate in a play exam with a male doctor, by his girlfriend.

What we think we know: The subject will not likely be turned on by this experience; it is a mere gesture of how far he's willing to go for his girlfriend

What we think we know: This girlfriend has the potential to be really wild, given a request like this. Or maybe after this, the liveliness may fizzle out Who knows?

What no one knows except the girlfriend? What kind of male is this doctor? Old ? Young ? Gay? Straight ? Bi ? If she knows him, HOW does she know him?

Ok, sky123, this could be a harbinger of her kink being to watch man to man activities. Are you ready to give her more man to man experiences after this one if that's what gets her off ? See, this is what you will be asking yourself.

What we'd like to find out; How the experience goes. How you felt about it, how SHE felt about it, & where would this put you NOW ?

What we'd like to find out; What IS/WAS in it for her

What we'd like to find out: the relationship between the girlfriend & the doctor

If that's not setting the table for next week, i don't know what is. Who needs TV ?

Healthy, fantastic post. Yes, inquiring minds want to know.............

Mashie

I think Healthy44 nailed it. He isn't the one that wants the play exam, but is willing to go along with it because it was arranged by his GF.

Sorry to be so late back to the conversation. It is a play exam and she will get pleasure out of hearing about it afterwards. I am straight, but am aroused by exams whether done by a man or woman so even though I'm really nervous and don't know entirely what to expect the speculation kind of makes it a little more arousing also aside from just putting me at ease. Finally, hankb thank you for your concern, rest assured if I have a real medical issue or need to go for a real physical I will be certain it is a real doctor.

You mean she doesn't plan on watching you get examined? Why don't you invite her along? Or arranged to have it filmed for her?

I again agree with you healthy44. If I took the time to set up an "appointment" for Doc to receive an exam by a play doctor, male or female, I would want to be in the room during the exam, or at the very least have it recorded so I could watch later. Okay, I will be 100 percent honest with you here, who are we kidding, I wouldn't give them a choice whether or not I was in the room, or course I would be in the room, lol. After all, watching him get touched by someone else, him having to be submissive to someone else is one of MY biggest fantasies.

Mashie

That's a really thoughtful scenario with her scheduling a play exam for you. I'll bet nearly everyone who has read this wishes his or her significant other would do something similar. I know I do.

I hope everything works out and you get a great exam and she's as turned on by it as you are!

If you look at sky123's profile, it says he joined us four days ago. We should welcome him as a new member.

In his profile he says that he is a PA, in early 20s? Possible, I guess if he's a real qhiz. But he also notes that his girlfriend wants his to have this play exam before they become sexually active. That part seems like a stretch. But still possible.

So is your girlfriend going to take part as well? Perhaps assisting as a nurse or just being present to "support" you?

Sounds like this weekend will be very fun. You should definitely take some pictures.

Well it has officially been postponed a week as the play doctor is out traveling longer than expected apparently. I'm the average age of someone who went straight from undergrad to PA school don't worry. Although I did think how amazing it would be if I were smart enough to finish college in my teen years like some of those genius kids and then I could be making money from like age 21 on lol. The main thing is she wants to hear a report about it from the doctor afterwards and also from me. I do not go with her to her gyn appointments and I don't get anything really comparable so its kind of a way for her to get the same thing I get from hearing about her appointments. Also yes we have fooled around some, which I should have been a little more out there about, but its part of the arousal for us, like the doctor is examining me to give me the O.K. I will function properly when I need to get erect for my girlfriend and ejaculate in her. There are a lot of details of the whole fantasy aspect, but am happy to clarify or answer any questions anyone has!

I do not go with her to her gyn appointments and I don't get anything really comparable so its kind of a way for her to get the same thing I get from hearing about her appointments. ...

like the doctor is examining me to give me the O.K. I will function properly when I need to get erect for my girlfriend and ejaculate in her.

Ok, sky. I have some questions. But first i'll take Quincy's suggestion & welcome you to Zity, & suggest that perhaps maybe your gf may like the site as well, especially since she books play exams.

It's a shame you do not go with her to her gyn appointments. Would you like to go with her ?

Do you happen to know if this doctor is straight, bi, curious, gay ?

You say the doctor is examining you to give you the ok that you will function properly when you need to get erect - so in order to get erect for your gf, you need to demonstrate the ability to get erect for a male (play) doctor ? If i had to go through THAT prerequisite to "qualify" with a chick, i'd probably never be able to get laid.

OK sky, if you have "fooled around" she knows if you get erect or not.

Enjoy the exam, and I hope she does too. And use that erection on her sooner rather than later.

Like any other meeting with unknown persons certain ground rules need to be established before any play gets started. This sounds like it could be a very exciting time. That said it would be a good ideanif your gfbwas close by as she set this all up.

I am not sure of his sexual orientation, but as it will be professionally done with him remaining dressed and clinical for the most part I don't really want to know because I am afraid it might affect my experience. Also, yes she is aware I can become erect, but its part of the fantasy that I have to be examined that way lol. I would like to go with her to her gyn exams! Also thank you for the welcome!

@SKIPD that sounds like it would be fun for me, from a female nurse, minus that last temp taking

I can become erect, but its part of the fantasy that I have to be examined that way lol. I would like to go with her to her gyn exams!

And what if you don't get erect ? Are you gonna lie and say you did? Is she going to think you're attracted to men if you do get erect ?

If she does not want you to accompany her to her gyn exams after you express to her that you want to, it's time to dump her & find a new chick

It doesn't sound like much fun for a play exam. Would it not be better with a female playing the doctor? Just my 2 pennies.

If you know any female play doctors I am all ears lol. I sort of equate that to finding a needle in a haystack, which if you really think about it are slim odds seeing as I have no clue why a needle would get inside a haystack to begin with 😉

If your relationship with this girl is based on this play exam that doesn't seem to be happening, your relationship is going nowhere before it even starts.

I would look for someone else.

She knows what your interests are and she is just yanking your chain.

Med-Fet can be a big part of a couple's sexual repertoire, but a relationship BASED on it will only be lousy.

The second weekend has come and gone. We should expect the exam report soon.

He posted here today. He could have told his story about the exam, but I seriously doubt there is one to tell except for another postponement!

All this conjecture. I'm finding it boring. Let's hear about it or drop it.

So did you get the exam yet? Or is it being put off yet another week?

Let me put my guess forth:

STILL NOTHING...

Is this going to happen or have you just said hell with it?

Well, I just logged on today to check when I made the first post about having an exam and it was exactly 2 months ago from today lol. I am reporting that I finally did have an exam work out today. I saw a male doctor and he was very understanding of my nervousness and embarrassment. He upheld all my requests to ensure a clean exam and not once did I feel unsafe or uneasy about the situation. Will not be pressing my luck by seeking out other exams with other people, but wanted to let you all know it FINALLY happened lol.