Why are you here.

Finding Zity has been brilliant for me. I had a long-standing MedFet fetish since childhood. I 'buried'it / tried to repress it for over 40 years...seeing myself as a sort of 'depraved pervert'.

So...discovering that there were SO many like-minded people out there has been a truly liberating revelation. The ability to freely explore, at great depth, all the intricacies of my own obsession and to discuss / report / reflect upon my own experiences - totally openly - has been cathartic.

Not only that, it is fascinating to read about the experiences of so many other people. Simply brilliant to hear about such highly personal events in people' s lives. I have communicated with some wonderful people on this site. It is just brilliant. Medical examinations is my main interest. But I genuinely do love reading about people's accounts of rectal thermometers, enemas and much, much more!! I prefer reading about real - life as opposed to fantasy...but that's just me.

I also have interests / kinks re: CP / BDSM..butI tend to concentrate most about MedFet on Zity.Love it, just love it!!

I found this site through Google when the site I was using got very quiet or was taken down, I forget which. Until last fall, I hadn't taken part a lot and went years without coming here. Then I started participating more and interacting with people. A few months ago, I started going into the chatrooms. It was just before they changed the Chat Gram/whisper features. At first, I shied away from whisper and did not chat gram at all. When I started talking with people one on one, I met some very nice people. I also enjoy reading the forums.

Pretty similar story here. Doing google searches on plugs and other anal erotica and stumbled on to Zity. I enjoyed reading some of the stories and discussion, so decided to join. I would mostly just read others posts, then once in a while post in the discussion. It wasn't until about a week or so ago that I ventured out into the chat room. It's nice to chat with people who think like you! 😃

I'm here just exploring my fetish for female patients in masks. Before finding Zity, I don't think I realized how extensive the medfet community was. In fact, I learned the term "medfet" on here.

I think I'm learning how I can expand on just a masked female patient. I had never thought of an exam fetish before, but I can see how getting to take vitals on a pretty, slim redhead in her hospital gown, red slipper socks and, say a Disney earloop mask might be quite a thing.

I realized that I love being exposed to a doctor. They have this power over you that's really hot. I'm not submissive but forcibly having to expose myself to a stranger and better yet a woman is unique and hot

I am here as I stumbled across the site. I spent so many years thinking I was weird for liking this fetish, to be surprised there is a lot of people.

It's great to read the stories and comments

I came a decade ago for the enema stories. After that I found the chat and met a few ladies that I played with before meeting my late partner Petalsoft. After she died I came back and have really enjoyed all the interaction and even getting bitch slapped a few times by Susie. It has been fun and look forward to interacting and contributing to the site. Have fun, stay safe people.

Although I enjoy reading other people's posts on here I am also keen to meet any lads who would like to submit to a medical examination from myself or potentially give me one and That's my main motivation for been here

Although I enjoy reading other people's posts on here I am also keen to meet any lads who would like to submit to a medical examination from myself or potentially give me one and That's my main motivation for been here

In that case you should post a personal ad in the appropriate section under Doctor/Nurse Play (Medfet)

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=ads;ox=interestmembers;ii=37

@Moppys_jalopy said,

have really enjoyed all the interaction and even getting bitch slapped a few times by Susie

I don’t think you are considered an official member til you have had the pleasure of getting bitch slapped by Susie ! ???

That is true Bridgette butt I also can dish it as well.

@Moppys_jalopy aaah threats, threats, threats ?

Promises, Promises, Promises

I confess to being one of those "lurkers" for too long of a time. Even now, when my very vanilla husband is around, the best I can do is to sneak a peek. I meet fascinating individuals and individuals I don't quite understand yet. I meet wonderfully respectful individuals I enjoy chatting with. I meet those online I wish I could meet in person. I meet some online I would never even consider actually meeting in person. But always there is this kink in me that I need to explore and I thank the community of Zity for giving me that chance. I may not fully match your kinks, but I do enjoy getting to know you and I am grateful for the community you are.

Because there is a chance that I find someone to meet, and I have.

I am on several sites and have several kinks, bdsm and medfet, but for RT meeting and longer term relationship. You have to cast a wide net. It works, I have met a dozen women in the last years for RT. It is easy if you put your mind to it.

I hardly role play online because I have managed to engage RT often enough to taste for real, and there is no substitute except from some unique very fantasy RP.

Other than meeting someone, I do enjoy chatting about anything really. Its fun to chat with people in these kink sites because there are no pretenses, no hiding. People are open about their kinky desires and their needs.

Confess to being one of those "lurkers" for too long of a time.

Yep! Me too @anng. We're both in the right club now.

I stumbled across the site and have enjoyed friending people with similar likes, I also enjoy the discussions part of the site it’s actually interesting to read the topics and the discussion people put into them.... different strokes for different folks I guess but they all are pretty interesting and some very nice people to say the least.

Its quite interesting to learn more about the varied sexual stimuli than people are influenced by. Seems quite probable that medical settings would elicit a deep level of response due to granting control of the most intimate areas of one's body to strangers. Role play allows one to indulge their fantasies more completely.

It's a good a safe place to come and share some of my kinks with those who may (or may not) feel the same way. There are no odd looks, no 'get out of here, perv' comments, etc...it is kind of like when i visit my Mistress. i can tell her anything kinky and she won't bat an eye.

I am not sure how i too 'stumbled' onto this site, but glad i did. Apparently there is a 'god' and god is kinky?

i have googled "zity" and have been unable to find a definition, even the urban dictionary defines is as a growth (i.e., a "zit"). Several posts on this thread refer to the site as a "medFet" site. In my mind, that is certainly a segment on this site, but i don't view this as a MedFet site, more of a kink site since the topics seem to run the gamut.

i'm here because i like meeting and interacting with people who fall outside the 'norm.' i have found that people who are 'different' are often more open minded and accepting in general. To me, homogenization is the stuff of wars, repression and narrowness. i don't think it is a reflection of reality.

Sure, kinky people can be just as narrow as non, but i have found that people who have been forced to confront and accept differences in their self are often more practiced and likely to extend that practice with others.

I don’t think you are considered an official member til you have had the pleasure of getting bitch slapped by Susie ! ???

I've had the pleasure of being bitch slapped by Susie a time or two, so I guess I am an official member!

I stumbled across this site several years ago, while searching the interwebs for gyno exam pictures and stories. I was one of those "lurkers" for a few weeks, until I got up the courage and signed up, so I could eventually gain access to everything as a bonus member. I was hesitant at first because I was afraid of computer viruses and such by being on this site, but this is actually one of the safer places to enjoy my fetishes versus a regular porn site. (There is no such thing as "safe surfing" online, only "somewhat safer surfing".)

I've been into medfet for as long as I can remember and spent many an idle evening on the MSN and Yahoo chatrooms interacting with other like minded people

I can't remember how I discovered Zity - I think that one of my existing patients may have recommended it to me. Whichever one it was - I am very glad that they did

I joined to fulfill my interests but I am finding it difficult to connect with others because of the rules that state I must accrue points first. I would like the moderator to let me know how to gain the required amount of points.

Points are gained by making posts. The more you post the more points will be accrued.

I joined to fulfill my interests but I am finding it difficult to connect with others because of the rules that state I must accrue points first. I would like the moderator to let me know how to gain the required amount of points.

We were all noobs at first with little to no points. But keep posting, and before you know it you will be a bonus member with access to everything.

The best way to do it is to find topics on this site that interest you, and make comments and observations, and interact with others. There is no shortage of topics of all varieties on here, enough to pretty much fulfill any fetish. There are even topics on here about the normal, everyday things of life, not just medfet.

Read, comment, and enjoy.

I joined to fulfill my interests but I am finding it difficult to connect with others because of the rules that state I must accrue points first. I would like the moderator to let me know how to gain the required amount of points.

Yep. Just keep posting and your points will add up. Welcome aboard!