First real time

I have been pondering about real play exam for sometime now. How did you get the courage to meet up with a playdoc?

I think trust is the first thing you must have. A lot of chat and learning about each other first.

You may even want to try it online first

Cripmac is correct. Trust is vital when it comes to your safety. I also agree that lots of discussion is very important before any potential meeting if you expect to get the best from the experience. Play safe and enjoy!

After a lot of online chat, that may include an online exam, you first meet up with a playdoc in a public place, maybe a coffee shop for a coffee or a restaurant for dinner, getting to know each other in person, building trust and respect. If everything goes well and agree to proceed with an exam, then a hotel environment is better and safer place, there are always people around.

This is how it works.

The playdoc and you make reservation in advance, once you know the hotel and the room number, you communicate with a friend, having your friend call or text you shortly after you arrive at the hotel room and thereafter monitoring your exam meeting. A standard procedure, everybody follows in here

First is to chat online. get to know your friend. try texting online first. maybe go with sound next. cam if you are adventurous. take your time. anyone worth their salt will be patient. i do agree if you meet, meet in a public space - restaurant, someplace busy and open. being alone with a stranger takes a lot of trust. good luck!

The courage to meet a play doc for the first time can take a while,

As others have said, it takes a lot of time to build up trust and a friendship,

However it is so worth it,

I didn't think i would have the courage to meet anyone,but it was the best thing i ever did, and helped me build up confidence in myself too,

You have all the information you need here on Zity Biz on how to play safe,and there are lots of wonderful people here,

Take your time and have fun.

Best of luck to you.

peace, Caz

Here is what I did. I posted a Craigslist ad for men over 40 or women over 60 who were interested in providing manual or oral service without reciprocation to a fit man in his mid thirties (that was six years ago). I wrote that telephone interview was required prior to any in person meeting. I did the telephone interviews on a prepaid cell phone and had a conversation with each interested party sharing information about appearance, age, and prior experience with anonymous encounters. I explained it was a medical exam scene and that they would never be allowed to undress and would be examining my entire body and then would be getting me to ejaculate with either manual or with oral stimulation. I was totally forthcoming about the fact that would be extremely specific about their roles and was completely inflexible to any deviation from my instructions. The ones who passed the telephone interview were invited to meetings in a public place. I met each of them in a coffee shop, mall food court, or public park for a detailed face to face interview. This allowed us to safely size each other up and go over expectations. I eliminated a few people because they were actually looking for friendship or more of a mutual sexual encounter. Since I am looking for a realistic well performed exam, I eliminated anyone who seemed unwilling to study and take the examiner's technique seriously. I also use play exams to recreate real exams I have had, so I require them to work from prepared scripts (these are published in the section Pondering About Play Exams)I have written which would also require discipline and study. I interviewed six or seven candidates and ended up with two who got the job-- one male, one female, both over 60 and believable in the doctor role. I met with each of them several more times to quiz them about exam technique and their memorization of the exam scripts. Then, when I was satisfied as to their skills we got down to the real thing. We meet in a hotel, for which I reserve and pay, and do the exams. It has worked out great for several years now.