How important, or pleasurable, is erotolalia "dirty talk" to you?

Are you stimulated by things your partner says? Do you wish your partner would verbalize more?

This question is asked because verbal stimulation is powerful stuff for me, but I have never found a partner who valued it as highly as I do. I believe a woman who pushed my buttons verbally could get me off with very little physical stimulation. I have told me current partner, who gives me great hand jobs, if she would stimulate my brain more, she would not have to work so hard. She seems to prefer the manual method.

I have to say that it excites me for my partner to verbalise how hard he is going to penetrate my bum or how much he wants to fill my mouth with cum. Dirty talk is fun. Liberal use of fuck and cock spice things up.

I get very aroused and turned on by women who moan and scream and cry out. I have heard a couple female friends and the neighbors and even my mom before. It drives me wild when I can hear them. One night I lay in bed and I could hear on the other side of the wall in my parents room bed springs squeaking and my mom say awwww awwww your gonna make me cum. And one time I heard dad tell her to turn over on her side. And I could hear her say ummm ummm aww. It was so arousing hearing my mom. I was so horny I laid in bed and jacked off like crazy. I like hearing women having sex and the more noise they make the Horner I get.

The sound of your lovers voice, deep, throaty, in your ear, saying the right things, the right way is powerful. Nothing gets me there quicker. There have been past bf that have done that like no other. I can still hear his voice, the sound of his velvety voice is all I needed, taking dirty brought it to another level.

You don't even really need a partner for this, though it does help when unexpected things are said.

However people can also talk to themselves during (private) masturbation. I suppose a prerequisite would be for guaranteed privacy, so that no one can overhear. Consider it as a sort of solo sex chat with yourself, but without the delays and typing ... as a combination of visualizing in your head, talking out loud and physical stimulation, it all makes for a powerful session ...

You don't even really need a partner for this, though it does help when unexpected things are said. However people can also talk to themselves during (private) masturbation. I suppose a prerequisite would be for guaranteed privacy, so that no one can overhear. Consider it as a sort of solo sex chat with yourself, but without the delays and typing ... as a combination of visualizing in your head, talking out loud and physical stimulation, it all makes for a powerful session ...

Good point! That, I guess, is what my fantasizing accompanying masturbation is. OTOH, I think someone else doing it is very different in character, sort of like trying to tickle yourself.