First meeting

In October I am meeting one of my play docs for the first time. We also are hoping to be as in love in person as we are online.

We talked about not really doing any medfet stuff on the first meeting because both want to have the relationship based off us and not the play.

However both of us know that it will probably happen. I have a scope, BP cuff, basic enema bag, gloves, scrubs but not much else.

What would be stuff that you would have on hand just in case?

Ideas?

Sounds exciting - I hope it goes well for both of you.

I think you could have a lot of fun with what you already have, but some of the following might make it even better:

*Vaginal speculum

*Anal speculum and/or anoscope

*ENT exam set (otoscope, tongue depressors etc.)

*Rectal thermometer

*Castile soap for enemas

*Suppositories (either glycerin to start cleaning you out before your enemas, or prep H to soothe you at the end of your exam).

*Patient gown (unless you prefer being fully nude)

*Tape measure for taking body measurements

We are both excited and nervous and not sure how far we want to go with the play stuff, because we want to see where a relationship goes. But we both have strong desires about this topic.

Probably will get a rectal thermometer. Start slow.

Ahhhhh! I just don't know....

Be yourself. Be comfortable. Communicate what you're looking for. The rest will follow.

But a rectal thermometer is a really good idea

Don't stress yourselves. You've never met in person and expectations are flying high, so take your time getting to know each other and reduce pressure as much as you can. Meet live first without too many plans, and take it from there. Nothing wrong with taking some "equipment" along just in case, you're free to use it or not. When you're in the moment your gut feeling will probably tell you how far you want to go. Exactly as rayme says, be yourself, honest with your emotions, and the rest will come.

In any case - all the best! Being in love with someone who shares your sexual fantasies is absolutely wonderful. Keep my fingers crossed that all works out well, and that the waiting time isn't too much torture.

Kind regards

House

Don't stress yourselves. You've never met in person and expectations are flying high, so take your time getting to know each other and reduce pressure as much as you can. Meet live first without too many plans, and take it from there. Nothing wrong with taking some "equipment" along just in case, you're free to use it or not. When you're in the moment your gut feeling will probably tell you how far you want to go. Exactly as rayme says, be yourself, honest with your emotions, and the rest will come.

In any case - all the best! Being in love with someone who shares your sexual fantasies is absolutely wonderful. Keep my fingers crossed that all works out well, and that the waiting time isn't too much torture.

Kind regards

House

Thats what we were thinking. Maybe a few simple things, starting slow and going from there. Making it so there's more to come in the future!

Thats what we were thinking. Maybe a few simple things, starting slow and going from there. Making it so there's more to come in the future!

That sounds like an excellent way to approach it.

That sounds like an excellent way to approach it.

We kinds are hoping so too!