Yes, I'm trying to enter the SM community in France, and my desire (my best fantasy, actually) to play a poor guy forced to endure so many bad treatments seems to create no interest. These self-proclaimed "Masters" all want very submissive subs, who obey and do what they're told.
I'd rather fall into a trap, be forcibly bound, jeans pulled down, spanked, injected with some drug (sterile water, actually ^^) to paralyze me / another one to make me obedient, then I could gladly fit in the "sub" category, with this excuse in mind (and in buttocks ^^). Then I could be forced to have sexual intercourse, in my mouth and in my ass.
All that as a game, of course, a real rapist must be a terrible person 😢. And I *am* submissive, otherwise I wouldn't be interested into such plays - it's just that I want to struggle a little, and yell "Nooooo, not in my butt, noooooo" whereas some evil genius performs his evil activities on me 😃.
Play safe, zitizens 😃.