Pleasure from anal sex only ?

When I have anal sex with my wife, she fingers her clitoris with her hand. We do not think an orgasm is possible otherwise. The anal sex creates some sensations in the genital-anal area, and a lot of excitement, but the orgasm is triggered by fingering.

This contrasts with vaginal - she can have an orgasm from vaginal intercourse without fingering, or even (if well excited) without grinding her clitoris on me... simply by penetration and thrusting. (Even though most times we also use the clitoris.)

To the ladies here: does receiving anal sex provide you physical pleasure that can lead to an orgasm without need for clitoral stimulation ?

Penetrative sex, whether anal or vaginal, relies on stimulation of the internal portion of the clitoris to produce an orgasm.

The clitoris is not just the button or nub that you see on the outside. The clitoris actually occupies a great deal of the lower pelvic area, inside the body.

If a woman can orgasm from vaginal and/or anal sex without touching her clit on the outside, it is because the penis/dildo/whatever is nevertheless still stimulating the internal part of the clitoris/ g-spot. So in a way, she is often still getting a great deal of clitoral stimulation.

That is where most of the pleasurable physical sensations come from, not from the vaginal cavity itself or the anal cavity itself. Some women's anatomies facilitate stimulation of the internal clitoris through vaginal and/or anal penetration, and some apparently do not. Everyone is different.

H C, I know that but I'd prefer a reaction from the ladies, if you please. ;-)

As time pass and I become older it is more and more difficult for me to orgasm from vaginal and so much easier from anal.

Well Pecan you did say, and I quote:

To the ladies here: does receiving anal sex provide you physical pleasure that can lead to an orgasm without need for clitoral stimulation ?

If you already know what I explained, then you must know that you pose a misleading question.

You could confuse anyone reading this, and I wish to prevent that.

Your question presupposes that a woman can have orgasmic sex, whether anal or vaginal, without her clitoris being stimulated. However, when orgasms occur during sex when a woman's clitoris remains untouched on the external tip, the rest of the clitoris inside her pelvic floor is still being stimulated.

So you cannot say there is no clitoral stimulation in this situation, because there is. It's just internal rather than external.

You must still give credit for the orgasms to the clitoris, not the vaginal or anal cavities. The stimulation of the internal clitoris is the secret ingredient that determines a woman's tendency to orgasm from sex, whether anal or vaginal, when the external part of the clitoris is untouched.

But don't listen to me, take 3 minutes to listen to a woman tell you the same info if you prefer:

https://youtu.be/wHAwRSmFjjk

H C: Let me rephrase - the question is being able or not to experience vaginal or rectal exam without stimulation (finger or grinding) of the external part of the clitoris.

Thanks, Pecan. That is pretty much all I really wanted you to say! (Assuming you meant to type "orgasm").

Although as I said before, an orgasm caused solely by vaginal/anal penetration is technically not a vaginal or anal orgasm, it is still basically a clitoral orgasm since it relies on internal clitoral stimulation. That is why penetration does not necessarily result in orgasm for a woman, and there is nothing wrong with her if it does not. Very important to understand. Anyway I'm sorry to be so nit-picky/pedantic on this subject. I just hate to see any aspect of a woman's sexual response continue to be misrepresented, even if it is only due to a minor error in word selection.

I've always wondered if women really do enjoy anal sex or if they just do it to please the man they are with. For men anal sex can be very pleasurable because of the stimulation to the prostate and I just assumed without a prostate women might not enjoy anal stimulation but I never realized the clitoris has internal sensations as well. Of course what do I know because I've never been with a woman but I want to see what it's like. Although if I ever do get the chance to be with a woman I hope she understands that it's my first time and I would be looking for her to instruct me on how to pleasure her, or maybe she could discipline me, like if I wasn't doing it correctly she would punish me with a spanking or lashing. I think I need to find a dominant mistress!