Position for digital rectal exam

What was wrong with what JDS4med posted? He corrected the errors in my post in a straightforward manner. I didn't realize they could cover that much of the prostate or that it was that fast - it doesn't always seem fast when you're getting one.

I would like to thank Wrestlingpoet for checking in with me via PM and making sure I took everything in the right spirit.

Maybe that spirit would be "here comes two quarts of hot and soapy truth. Get that head down and your ass in the air?" To the point and direct, but well meaning and it does get the crap out.

Again, it's nice to be somewhere where truth is valued but people are also welcoming (and take the time to answer almost all questions).

Laying on left side with top leg bent.

Usually it's on my left side with my top leg bent up but I've had a few where I've been bent over an exam table.

Laying down positioned on my left side with my left leg bent. My underpants pulled down ready for the fingers.

On all four at proctology and on the back legs spread at urology

Left side knees drawn up

When I am examming a male, in a medfet exam I like to have him on his back. That way as I am doing the rectal and prostate exam I can see how excited he gets.

My thoughts on the DRE are that it is a totally invasive and most embarrassing way to establish the Dom/sub aura in a medfet situation. Therefore, I want to do the DRE with the woman in her most vulnerable position. Most women are acquainted if not used to being in the lithotomy position, however, fewer women are put into the ass up shoulders down position . It's obvious that entire anal-genital area is displayed and she must assume this position voluntarily of her own accord.

So many facets of this can bring arousal and/or humiliation. Just instructing a naked woman under a paper sheet to assume the "knee chest position" ...what can she do? refuse? no, she will comply and you can discern her level of enjoyment. Once positioned, she senses that you can see everything she has on display. This will appeal to the voyeur exhibitionist trait In some women. It also can trigger extreme humiliation in the woman that enjoys this aspect.. Also, as one woman here reported, the feeling as you withdraw and the left over lubricant is plainly visible and she is aware of this evidence. I have found that if I finish the DRE and then use a tissue to clean her anus, that this seems to really drive her arousal and her submissiveness. You reach for the tissue and with one hand you spread her cheeks.....she has no warning....and cannot respond much for fear of tipping her hand. It's like a subtle game being played out. She hates it....but she loves it. You enjoy the control, but she offers herself without complaint.

On my side. 25 at the time. Did not expect that and not sure why he did that.

First time, in college, bent over exam table. All other times either on my back w legs up or on my side knees bent.

Why did you get a rectal exam in college?

On all fours of course!

@Nick

Went to the ER with stomach pains and the young intern said he would have to give me a rectal exam. He seemed young and nervous. It wasn't exciting or anything actually although I've loved Playing Doctor with quite a few girlfriends since then always with a focus on the bottom.

I remember one exam when I was standing pants and under pants down around my ankles. The doctor had me bend over the table Hands on the table, he opened my cheeks, inserted his lubed fingers deep inside. Moving them around then withdrawing them.

I've only had one, and this was actually moderately recent (2 years ago?). It was done while on my side; I was bottomless with a blanket, then he inserted a lubed finger in there.... first time something went the other way around and it started something...

I have a a strong history of prostate cancer in my family. Dad, uncle and cousin.

For whatever reason, some doctors still won't do it every year. Is it something I can and should ask for even though I'm younger than when these exams take place but have this strong history?

As for positions:

- my first one I was a teenager, born and raised in South America, and my dad's urologist put me on stirrups.

- here in the US, I've had Sims mostly but also had one bending over which the doctor felt some puffiness and then spent some time noticing I had hemorrhoids. But it was hot with her having my ass spread for a few minutes.

Would a doctor freak out if I ask my PCP if she would exam me in stirrups?

Usually bent over the exam table. never been on all fours or lying on side.

So I tore my ACL and my physical is coming up in a couple of months. I'm not having my surgery until Mid-May. If you have an knee injury you know that getting on your knees or even bending it can hurt...so would it be wrong or weird if I asked her for another position for my prostate exam, say the stirrups?

NO

Just lie on the table on your side and they will get in just fine.

Usually bent over the table, but I've had a few lying on my left side.

Never in stirrups or on all fours.

I am getting old--so many prostate exams--always same bending over exam table---Its not painful just sort of a pressure feeling Do not fera it its over real soon

Usually its bend over, and elbows on the table. Ive had a DRE performed in the sims position at the gastroenterologist before.

I have had five rectal exams, two in Sims position and three bent over the table. I like Sims better because it is awkward and I find that it enhances the embarrassment of the exam. Getting into Sims requires that the patient lie on his side and bend the top knee and pull it toward his chest. The examiner then has to lift the top cheek up to expose the anus. It is also awkward if the patient his lowered his shorts for the genital and hernia exams before the rectal and then has to remount the exam table with the shorts still down. When the patient bends over the table, it is a much smoother transition from genital to rectal by just having the patient leave his shorts down and turn toward the table and bend over. Also, when the patient is bent over, the anus is exposed so that little of the cheek spreading is required. Sims is a more fulfilling experience.

Do not fera it its over real soon

That's the problem. It's over too soon. I'd prefer that it last much longer. 😃

I wonder why it's done differently.............does it tend to be one way, more so, in different parts of the country? world?

That might make for an interesting poll.

I had my rectal exam on my left side on exam table. That was the only rectal exam i had so far.