someone entering therapy *finally* gets to open up to someone who'll not judge them about their intimate thoughts
[color=#000000][b]I have a really hard time resonating with the belief of not being judged for what I think...I might be wrong, I don't know...but I think it's in human nature to question other people's thoughts or actions...Ultimately those mental health professionals are humans too and have their own life experiences. A professional of course shouldn't ever give you any hint about that, but I'm pretty sure outside of their practice some of them might be quite judgemental. My best friend is a psychologist and I remember she told me once she needs to do some sort of therapy sessions herself...[/b][/color]
I would never be able to fully disclose to anyone the deepest, most intimate thoughts. Who knows what will happen if those thoughts are out? I know there is patient doctor confidentiality but in the end you never know...
Pshychotherapy hasn't worked for me and maybe the reason why is the lack of trust. First time I ever saw a professional I couldn't say a sentence...To see some staring eyes looking back at me and waiting for some answers I just did not have...no way I would talk about anything. What helped were some anti anxiety medications but I never wanted to go back to that person again...
Last time I've tried it was better, somewhat helpful. I'm sure that if you find the right professional it can help a lot. But it's hard...and human mind may never be fully understood.
Your assumptions are absolutely correct. You are judged behind your back, discussed behind your back (probably without giving your name) and many shrinks went into the field to figure themselves out because, as you said, they need work themselves.
THERE IS NO CONFIDENTIALITY.
DOCTOR / PATIENT CONFIDENTIALITY IS AS OBSOLETE AS THE 20TH CENTURY. EVERYTHING IS ON THE RECORD AND AVAILABLE TO SEE.
Your insurance company will know what you discussed because the shrinks have to make periodic reports of your progress and they are mandated to report you to the authorities if they even THINK you might do harm to yourself or others.--THOUGHT CRIMES.
Tell a shrink you might commit suicide and there is a great likelihood you'll end up committed to a mental hospital instead of your doing whatever you decide to do with your life. Tell them that in anger you sometimes feel like killing your wife and you'll get arrested even if you never lifted a finger to her, the list of examples goes on and on. Even telling a fantasy can be dangerous to your freedom and existence.