It depends on hospital policy ,I know people all over the US & world ,some hospitals have banned diaper use ,others encourage diapers (the risk of severe patient injury trying to use the bathroom is a huge potential liability that can not be passed onto patient or insurance ,so just like a hospital aquirred infection.from an indwelling catheter aka Foley the hospital has to pat for all medication and care they created the need for
Personal experience I have never been denied a diaper .
In my local hospital calling a diaper a diaper is a firing offense ,all staff are trained in euphemisms and plenty of BS like “Can we get you dry” "are your attends dry enough" etc etc…
As an incontinent adult that makes me crazy ,I consider it my duty to use my verbal judo skills to force everyone to call a diaper a diaper ( sure I am not the diaper user who has a shit fit on administration.for calling it a diaper ,I am more the guy who smiles in satisfaction.when it happens ,and says was that so hard ?and we laugh and nobody knows that they used the D word)
I have a reputation as a reasonable ,calm ,easy going guy who not coincidentally has a secondary reputation as the “ easiest talk” when I lost continence and wet not just the bed but the whole room ,sleeping soundly in a puddle/ slash river of urine in the middle of the night ,they would have to keep me up all night sanitizing the room ,so they changed me to another bed and room. Then a nurse came in with a bariaric diaper and asked if I would mind laying on it bunched up between my legs kinda pointing into it ," I said yes I would mind,why not get me one that fits me and I will wear it ,after what I did to that room ,the least I need is a diaper “ no one ” normally" has that reaction.its usually a process of introducing exposure , time & convincing ,I skipped all that and went straight to thats reasonable and practical if you have one that I can wear .
In 28 + years I have never been denied a diaper ,I have had nurses not understand what Incontinrnt diaper dependent in my chart means ,I was being admitted to the gi floor to have endoscopy and colonoscopy ,therefore the dreaded prrep.started and nurse brought a commode “ that won't help Mam unless you put me on it and leave me there with a few seat belts,she didn't get a clue from the diapers i wore.the medical records,., the fact that I was a high function quadriplegic, and they used a hoyer lift to get me in and out of bed ,of course leave it to me to have the damn doctors when they finally go sight seeing call my esophagus and colons” tortured" ,damn sightseer's .
That prep didn't go well, in order to get a view of a majority of colon it took drinking prep 4 days and nights continously ( poop volcano ) cheap hospital diapers meant everything got destroyed by watery shit covering and I was changed roughly 15 times an hour ,by the time they got me cleaned up.,diaper changed new blankets and bedding ,you guessed it ,time to change because It just got filled again.
On planned needed hospital stays manybtimes I will be admitted with a case of diapers from home .for my comfort protection and making the staffs life easier.
So your fantasy is my reality ,I have been changed 1000's of times by nurses ,aides,friends and family .
Honestly its an overated fantasy.because the reality is disappointing whereas the fantasy can always remain stimulating.and pleasurable ,until its been done and it will never be the same.
In many hospitals that haven't banned diapers ,you can ask for diapers during admission or when you get to the floor.then they never have to worry about your ability to ambulate safely or in time to not do your own “urban renewal, redecorating the floor ” .
If you really want that fantasy of your list just ask .