Regrets about Sex Tapes

One the things I regret about never doing in my younger years was making a sex tape.

Nowadays, amateur scenes and webcam shows are a pretty big segment on porn sites so if so many are put on-line, one has to wonder how many stay in private hands? In my time filming was done with (super)8mm tape, and you had to send it in for development (just a reminder for the younger members 😃 ). And when the first video cameras went on sale they were really rather expensive and I never bought one, not really seeing the need anyway.

But now every digital camera, let alone a cellphone has recording capabilities and it looks like lots of couples make use of that recording a sex scene. And going live on a webcam site also seems not all that unusual.

That I've never done so is really a regret. I've naturally taken many nude photos, but that is a different category. It really is a shame we never recorded a sex sesssion.

So I'm wondering if anyone else has? Or their ideas and thoughts?

NO!

I don't need any recordings for posterity of any debauched, naughty, biblically condoned or illegal sexual acts I have performed.

In general, I'd really like to have more photos and films/videos of just about everything that I did when I was younger. Maybe it's just me getting old, but I often think about the good old days and it would be great to actually watch a film of me doing...just about anything. How about a film of me getting a physical when I was a young boy? Or a teenager? Or my mom giving me an enema when I was just a child? Of me changing for the first time in high school P.E. class? Oh, the scared shit-less look on my face would be priceless.

Sorry, I got off track there -- I don't mean to hijack your thread. Alas, no sex tapes for me either although it sure would be interesting to see.

I think I am with Susie. Somehow if you see yourself having sex in younger days or even now, you might look at it and say "do I really look like that when I am having an orgasm!!!!."

Maybe some things are best left as a memory.

I am younger amd I have no regrets that I never made any sex tape which ended on pornhub!

I don't even take nude selfies . Now a days with all android and stuff its damn easy to leak these photos and go viral.

*shuders*

~Cookie

I have never made a sex tape and never will. It could fall into the wrong hands a ndbecome a source of great embarassment. I sometimes wonder what happens to porn stars after they retire. What sorts of jobs can they get? Who will want to be associated with them?

hankb

. . . I sometimes wonder what happens to porn stars after they retire. What sorts of jobs can they get? Who will want to be associated with them?

hankb

You would be amazed! There are repeats in these lists, they overlap, but none include all.

http://www.imdb.com/list/ls070744327/

http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/slideshows/15-celebrities-who-are-amateur-porn-stars/page-3.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ortOQx06WNw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1O4N6b1lfQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8dzdphDQcw

There are more, just google it.

I would never have done this and thank god I never did. I'm sure that the fatuous look on my face when I had an orgasm would have been revolting. As for the chance of it going viral-- not bloody likely. However that possibility is enough to make me shudder. Now if I could relive some of those experiences I would. I'll just stick to videos and photos of myself surfing. Those are ridiculous enough.

No....Even with opportunities & having video camera equipment...The mind has that wonderful ability of memory...best place for it....The thoughts have been there but not acted upon....Could have been fun to produce adult film though.

Shortly after we got married, my husband I set up a video camera and went at it. Well to be perfectly honest, it looked more like a comedy than any thing else, so it was erased. We tried it a couple more times and it got funnier each and every time and as a result our days of being porn stars came to a screeching halt.

We still do photography, as a matter of fact, he wants to shoot me in about 1 to 2 more weeks when my daylilies are in full bloom. Starkers in a bed of blooming flowers should be interesting.

I made a sex tapes with a couple GF's. They were fun to look back on at the time and fun to curl up in front of the old big screen high tech projection TV and screw to again. NO regrets here.

A very funny thing happened with one of them though. The GF did not trust me with it, and wound up loosing it. She actually accused me of taking it, which I really did not do. We got together again sometime later and started screwing again. One night I took her out to dinner and about half way through dinner one of the waitresses came over to us and told us she was so glad to see us. We had not been there in quite a while. The GF had left her purse there and forgot about it and the waitress ran it over to us.

The purse just had noting of value in it, except for, you guessed it the tape. I swear the waitresses and bus boys were all giving us the eye after we got the purse back. It was a sports bar and they had screens everywhere and no doubt back in the day had a VHS player someplace.... For some reason she got pissed at me all over again, and would never go back there again.

I never look at old emails or texts or photos of a woman I've been with, so I assume that if there was a video I would never watch it again either. So I guess it makes no difference that I have no tapes of myself having sex. I do sort of enjoy my memories from time to time, however.

If a sex tape of me ever ended up on the internet, I really would not care. I would just hope it was not of a time when I had an off night! Seriously though, pretty much everyone has sex, and there are millions of videos online of people having sex, so I do not think it would make a difference if I was in one of them.

But if I had such a video and the other person in it trusted me to never let it get out there, I would guard it with my life. In fact I would just delete it because like I said, I'm not going to bother watching it again.

Shortly after we got married, my husband I set up a video camera and went at it. Well to be perfectly honest, it looked more like a comedy than any thing else, so it was erased. We tried it a couple more times and it got funnier each and every time and as a result our days of being porn stars came to a screeching halt.

Yes, sex can be a comedy lots of the time ...

Lots of the amateur vids you find on-line, mainly I think captures of webcams, do often look like the partners are sometimes quite proud of themselves, especially the ladies. You can see them looking at where their laptops are, apparently trying to gauge how they look on-screen, what poses look best, trying for a good angle ... and all rather unselfconscious too ... it's really too bad I didn't have that attitude back when I was young.

Upon viewing youtube links listed above I couldn't help but notice the media's absolute misleading drivel portraying 30 supposedly famous celebrities as beginning their careers in porn....With only 3 truly recognizable "celeb" identities-- Chan,Diaz & Le Blanc,of which only one of those had been nothing more than very soft titillation....another might get there,only time will tell....The rest never amounting to anything other than wank jobs on film....porn industry "stars" from the get go--their chosen profession...Do these typically brain dead gossip column journo's really think the general public are stupid or something !!

. . . . .With only 3 truly recognizable "celeb" identities-- Chan,Diaz & Le Blanc,of which only one of those had been nothing more than very soft titillation....another might get there,only time will tell....The rest never amounting to anything other than wank jobs on film.... . . .

YOU may have only recognized three people on the list. I saw the Schwarzenegger flick many years ago, and he became governor of California.

Many people in porn went on to do lots of things.

Yes that's true too...But to clarify comment, it was based on the very bottom clip...Point being the word Celebrity & how it is interpreted,as if somehow this also equated to an A list star status....which it is not....Ron Jeremy also carved out a long career...literally !!...then expanding into penis enlargement promotion...that's a laugh,Mr Fat Dick himself...therein lay the irony.

Many people in porn went on to do lots of things.

What is also worthy of note is that a number of successful actresses are often erroneously rumored to have begun in porn before becoming well-known in the mainstream ... I'm thinking of people like Gillian Anderson, Lucy Lawless ... even Marilyn Monroe if I am not mistaken and a few other from way back when.

I once had a horribly long discussion with my wife about Gillian Anderson aka Dana Scully. According to her, GA was just a bumped-up porn bimbo. Even our son weighed in on the discussion informing my wife of the error of her views. And of course she refused to look it up on-line and even now gives me the disapproving eye when GA plays in a series ... ha ha.

Agracier-- Also factual...though many were disadvantaged initially...Take Monroe for example...Hefner purchased that famous /infamous photo set for a paltry $500 in 1952 that became the very first edition centrefold & 1953 calendar....Which ultimately yielded a $750,000 return,to which Marilyn received a dismal $50...She was to be taken advantage of many times over her career... Speaking of Anderson I'd read also that Duchovny (co-star) had also been involved with porn & only recently been admitted to re-hab (again) for none other than sex addiction...I mean what BS is that...sex addiction !!

Speaking of Anderson I'd read also that Duchovny (co-star) had also been involved with porn & only recently been admitted to re-hab (again) for none other than sex addiction...I mean what BS is that...sex addiction !!

Oh, maybe that is in reference to the 'Red Shoe Diaries' series in which DD used to narrate the stories, which were, supposedly at any rate, said to be soft porn. I watched one many years ago and in all honesty there was nothing very erotic about them. But, of course for TV it's easy to be accused of making porn.

DD also played in Californication, in which his character is supposedly a sex addict, or at any rate a very promiscuous person.

Maybe some columnist got all this a bit mixed up or maybe it's just good copy that can help his career along. You know, in the 'no publicity is ever bad publicity' sort of way.

NO WAY. These days, you just never know where a copy may pop up. Way too risky.

I've never been in a sex tape, and doubt that I ever will.

When married, I made the mistake of letting my ex take nude photos of me, only to find out later from a friend that he was showing them to his friends. I've never been as embarrassed. I trusted him, and he betrayed my trust... never again, believe me.

C.

This has been topical lately. Aussie feminist Clementine Ford has written about it.

I was with someone who took naked photos of me without consent. He wouldn't delete them when I asked. If he ever publishes them I will prosecute him.

Women should be able to make sex tapes without fear of their trust being breached, or that their lovers will share photos without permission, or that they'll end up online without consent, or that they'll be used as blackmail, etc etc.

Many people in porn went on to do lots of things.

Maybe so, but somehow I don't ever see anybody ever saying that about me, or anybody I know for that matter.

There are pictures that were taken of me during a play session, which I allowed to be taken both because of the excitement of doing things "for real", and to make someone I love happy. Unfortunately those pictures are now also in the hands of someone who has already used them once to cause me great harm, and could again if she chose to.

Unless you are a porn star, any photos or videos of you nude or engaged in sex acts is a BAD idea.

Right unless you yourself are paid a lot of money upfront.

Unless you are a porn star, any photos or videos of you nude or engaged in sex acts is a BAD idea.

And still I can't help wondering about the gazillions of nude and sex photos that anyone and everyone can find on-line. And I'm not only talking about professional paid-for-porn, but real amateur material. Obvious amateur stuff like nudist photos, Polaroids and material from some decades before and prior to WWII and even before. There seems to be no end to it all.

I suppose all those many millions of people must not have had any qualms about having themselves photographed nude. And so many look so happy too, as if they are having oodles of fun and pleasure and enjoying themselves. 😃

I think we are going through a bad period in history, when mistrust and suspicion seem to be the primary emotions when people meet or interact or just muse or think about things. The general expectation of something bad happening seems to be so all persuasive.

Sex tapes, photos, and all can bite you and bad. My ex fiance took a lot of ours and sold them. It's pretty bad when you get called into the school board and informed of them. I had no clue at all. It cost me a lot of money to pay lawyers etc to get them removed and to sue him. Not only that my family found out. Kids saw me as well. I work at a school grades k-5th. An older brother or a father or someone spotted them and turned them over to the school board. I was lucky I wasn't fired. You can still find some of the photos once in a while. After that happened I was raped because someone thought I was easy. They found out I wasn't. It isn't worth it.

An older brother or a father or someone spotted them and turned them over to the school board. I was lucky I wasn't fired.

My condolences for this. I have to think that selling amateur photos must be pretty low-down. Unless it was some sort of get-back for personal reasons. Which is even more low down.

And I also have to think that school boards (in the US I presume, where else?) do like to act like nosy Societies for the Suppression of Vice or a morals board. Not surprising I suppose with all the religious nuts infiltrating these boards.

I have never made a sex tape. It might be fun to try but to me it isn't worth the risk of having it viewed by anyone but me and my partner. Especially if it ended up on the internet that would be a disaster and it would be out there for anyone to see..No sex tapes for me..

Modern technology has introduced hazards which we could only have imagined fifty years ago.