Want to get into diapers, have a problem

Hi there!

I just signed up here so I guess...hello you all! :-)

I just recently got me some diapers after I felt like this could be a new fetish for me.

So far just wearing them really makes me horny, so I guess I was right about that lol.

But after finding this forum and browsing through it I found out that many really like the sensation of peeing themselves.

Short things short, I really tried, but no matter how much I drink and what I do, I just can't getmyself to peeing while wearing diapers.

What can I do about that, that really sucks lol.

Oh also, that seems to be normal but unfortuantely, after mastrubating with them, I really question myself "what am I even doing" and stuff. I guess that's normal and you can't really do anything about that, right? That sucks so I guess no more fapping in them...

Thank you for your help!

Kevin (from Germany)

It's a mind thing. You just have to get past a lifetime of feeling it is wrong to pee anywhere but the toilet.

So...any tips on "how to get started"?

Also as a side question: Are there any specific things I should have for this kind of fetish other than diapers?

Do and wear what you want and what feels good to you! The beauty of this is you can do whatever! Some are traditionalists and wear cloth diapers and rubber or plastic pants. Some prefer diaposable diapers. Some just pee in them, and some poop and pee in them!

Put a diaper on after you know you have to pee soon. Then hold a hand under some running water, preferably warm, and that my help you relax to pee in your diaper! Does for me!!

Thank you!

So you also agree, like most people here, that it feels good to wear wet diapers?^^

I personally like being in wet diapers and will wear and wet them as long as i possibly can! To me, being in a wet diaper is what being a baby is all about!

Best way to start is really, just start. You should wear whatever makes you comfy, and progress from there. Wear diapers when you want and are able, and you'll see, the fun will grow. As for peeing in a diaper, give it some time. Your potty training needs to be overcome, so wear a diaper, drink lots of water, and wait.

In the meantime, play with your diapers. Try wearing outdoors, even if you have pants on. Have fun!

I am just a bit afraid if I "untrain" that, so that I can pee in diapers, that I might eventually pee even without one...or is that not likely (I hope)?

I mean, unlike some people, I don't want to go 24/7 in them :-O

You should only do what you're most comfortable doing - if using your diaper makes you uneasy, then don't - just wear it for a while, and see if you really like the feel of diapers. You can decide later if you like to wet or dirty your diapers; whether you prefer disposables or cloth and plastic pants, etc... The options are endless - just relax and enjoy!

Yes I know, but the point is I WANT to wet them and stuff, but like I said, I am just worried that "untraining" will also affect times when I am NOT wearing them.

So as a person who has experience in all this (I assume), do you think that is a risk or not really if you don't wear them that much?

I mean...just wearing them without anything else sounds like it would get boring quickly :-O

All I can say from personal experience is that years of part time diaper wearing have not yet resulted in being un-pottty trained. I can pee all I want in a diaper, sitting, standing, lying down, but I can also hold it if I want. Everyone's different, but that has been my experience.

Like I said, try to have fun With your diapers - that's what they are there for. Do what you are comfy doing. Enjoy!

Thank you very much!

I will just try to wear them as much as possible from now on and see what happens^^

Still gotta find the right ones. The ones I originally bought were the biggest size I could find in a super market I went to and just got, but they are still aimed for babies so yeah they just even BARELY close.

Could that be part of the problem I can't pee there yet, I mean they are REALLY small so it is a bit uncomfy for my penis :-O

All I can say from personal experience is that years of part time diaper wearing have not yet resulted in being un-pottty trained. I can pee all I want in a diaper, sitting, standing, lying down, but I can also hold it if I want. Everyone's different, but that has been my experience.

Like I said, try to have fun With your diapers - that's what they are there for. Do what you are comfy doing. Enjoy!

That's pretty much the case with me. I do find that if I wear them continuously for a few days, when I finally stop, it does take a bit of effort at first to go back to "holding it in" but I can, then soon I'm back to normal. I think this is more of a "mental" thing than physical.

And for some, it does take some practice to be able to wet or poop yourself. I don't ever remember having any problems with this. But my wife--who will occasionally wet her panties for me--had a very difficult time at first. She'd go sit on the toilet in her panties and relax until she was able to do it. Now she actually likes it.

But once you're able to do this, it has advantages. I notice that when I go in the men's room I'm one of the few who can just walk in there, whip it out and PEE. Most of the other guys stand there forever and dribble because--I guess--they have trouble relaxing when others are around. Not me. After you've learned how to relax, let loose, and pee in your diapers (especially in public) you can pee anywhere!

So could a affecting factor be right now that the ones I got so far are just way to small, feel crammed and just even barely close?

I will look for adult ones in that case then.

So could a affecting factor be right now that the ones I got so far are just way to small, feel crammed and just even barely close?

I will look for adult ones in that case then.

Yes, definitely. Your diaper experience won't a good one if the diapers don't fit properly. If you want to relax and pee, you need to feel confident about leaks, for example. You also want to enjoy the whole experience of wearing diapers, so they have to be taped or pinned on to give you the feeling that you are actually wearing diapers.

Good luck!

Are there even diapers that aren't taped closed?

If you are asking about diapers being "pinned" instead of taped closed, I was referring to cloth diapers. I use these and diaper pins to fasten them. I don't know these words in German - sorry about that.

If you really want to pee in your diaper, some things to help are, of course drink lots of water. You can also try drinking something with caffeine in it, coffee is very good for having to make one pee, or tea. Caffeinated sodas will do as well. Alcoholic beverage will make you want to pee too, beer is always good.

I think a good thing to try is, when you feel you are ready, and you need to pee, close your eyes and imagine you are in the bathroom, or go stand at the bowl and imagine you are peeing normal. For me, being a guy, I would stand, close my eyes, and pretend I was peeing in a urinal. It helped me start the flow going.

After awhile you will get better with just letting go. And, have no fear, you won't unpottytrain yourself doing this. Or, you won't have ascendents because you wet some diapers!

One other thing, if you still find it hard to let go in your diaper. You can do a substitute diaper wetting. Just use some warm tap water, and pour it right into your diaper. You can do this while you are wearing them. Pull the diaper away in front, and pure till full! You can add some to the back as well. For that nice all around wet feeling. And doing this is cleaner too. No smelly pee, or chance for diaper rash. Hope this helps ya out? Have fun and enjoy!!!