ORGASMS--How do you describe them?

The sensations that we all experience are arguably the most sensational of our lives. I know that I frequently enjoy just sitting and thinking about the feelings and sensations that lead up to orgasm. The intellectual stimulation is not quite as sensational as the actual event but it’s often sufficient to help get me to achieve the real thing.

A lot of clinical descriptions exist for the orgasmic occurrence in both men and women. I think it would be very interesting to share detailed, vivid, descriptions of your best orgasms. Whether you think you are a writer or not, please share your most intimate experiences with us. While it’s generally easy to write about something you know so much about, it may challenge you to be able to adequately describe what lights up your life

For me, the first sensation that I will be having an orgasm is a slight tingle in my legs below my knees, followed by my chest that can be modified by me during the process in a couple of ways. If I just relax, the sensation gradually builds from those areas and slowly works towards my pelvis with muscle contraction/tightening along the way for about 20 seconds. If I tense those muscles and tighten my pelvic and gluteal muscles, the orgasm will arrive quickly and last about 15 to 20 seconds. If I stay relaxed, not tighten any muscles and just let the muscle contractions take its own course and let the orgasm arrive on its own, I have about another 20 to 40 seconds of pre-orgasmic muscle tension before the orgasm starts and then it lasts about 20 seconds.

One other thing I have noticed, my orgasms last longer and may be slightly stronger when I am on my back either masturbating or having sex with my husband compared to when I am on top, although I do like being on top. I also like having it done to me being on the bottom!

Great Post...I also notice that tingle in my legs..for me it's probably about 8 inches down the inside of my leg from my crotch and tends to run up the leg. I think a lot of that comes from using my PC muscles to retain the enema. I'm on my back and I'm going to have to try to study whether it's also present when I am having intercourse too. I know the orgasms are! It's very very unique and hard to describe...you've done a great job of identifying key sensations. Thanks

For me it is an itching sensation which starts in my genitals and then as I ejaculate the orgasm quickly dissipates. My ex used to see colors and each time it would be different. All in all I think women get the better orgasms. Remember "She comes in colors " by the Stones?

For me it is an itching sensation which starts in my genitals and then as I ejaculste the orgasm quickly dissipates. My ex used to see colors and each time it would be different. All in all I think women get the better orgasms Remember "She comes in colors " by the Stones?

[color=#000000]WOW! The Rolling Stones song is from 1967--before my time.[/color]

[color=#000000]I didn't think the female orgasm was discovered until 1975 when the announcement was made on Saturday Night Live but the Rolling Stones song pre-dates that by eight years![/color]

It feels like a build up within my body as suddenly to be touched in certain places creates an incredible sensation. There's a rush of energy that all seems to converge, as if coming from all directions at once, & a point of no return feeling, that it's about to happen & absolutely nothing will stop it, so you better be ready.

When a masseuse is working me for a happy ending, the magic spot is me scrotum. Id she's stroking at any speed without touching my scrotum, i may go forever without ejaculating. It usually takes me a considerable while regardless. If her hand is getting tired, she needs to figure out that tickling or caressing my balls is gonna make me come much faster, depending on how long my scrotum was neglected in the process. It gets more sensitive the longer the neglect, so if she discovers the spot by going there, she's gonna know she found the right spot as i start to react crazy. It will feel like such a sensitive spot as a highway to ecstasy. A big warm feeling rushes through me.

And after i shoot my load, for some reason, my feet tend to get remarkably cold. Sometimes a masseuse will even put my socks on if she feels my feet afterwards.

I begin to feel a very pleasant sensation slowly building, not only within the shaft of my penis and the glans but also vaguely around the base and vaguely around my scrotum. The glans becomes more sensitive as the feeling within me further intensifies, when I reach the point of no return. There is no going back now as the sensation, a feeling of surging pressure, reaches a peak of intensity not only within my penis but somehow feels centred on an area behind it. I begin to feel a series of involuntary contractions of my pelvic floor, and during this time I am ejaculating. The intense feeling in and behind my penis, and also my pelvic floor, stays at this level until all the fluid is ejected, and then very slowly subsides. Sometimes, especially when I am standing, the feeling of orgasm may radiate outwards from my groin to my hips and remain for some seconds before also dissipating. Then I'm done, my wife and I enjoying a feeling of warmth and bonding (which is what really matters above everything).

As one variation, I usually find my orgasms feel slightly different when immersed in water, such as with my wife on top as I sit in the bath, also doggy style if the water is high enough. The feeling within my body can feel deeper and even more intense than at other times.

When I had my first orgasm when I was 13, I had no clue what it was. The ejaculation itself was like a very powerful pee that happens in rapid, intense spurts. Then there is the feeling of euphoria afterward of sheer bliss. I had my eyes closed the whole time while masturbating to my first orgasm. I laid on my bed for over 10 minutes afterwards, sperm all over my lower body. Finally opening my eyes, I saw that my pee was thick and white, and that I may have broken something in my body from playing with myself.