It's good to see this topic get active again. I am a retired Family Physician, and agree with @jds4med who posted when this thread was being discussed initially. There has been a shift in diagnostics that troubles me, from older school, cheaper, quicker, exam & history based information to more expensive, technology based information like PSA labs, Ultrasounds, and biopsies.
After reviewing the literature and most-current recommendations, I decided to educate my patients, and let them decide. I reviewed all of the above with patients and recommended that we do a DRE first, believing that a significant change in size or presence of a new lump in the Prostate could indicate the presence of a (much less common) quickly growing Prostate cancer. If the DRE was abnormal or new or quickly changing symptoms had appeared, then and only then I would recommend doing a PSA. Done as the only screening, it has been shown that the false negative and especially the false positive PSA results were responsible for more morbidity and mortality than the cancers it was trying to detect. They are still working on the best way to use PSA's, but it seems that serial testing showing stable results, followed by a spike seem to be the best predictor of severe disease. There has yet to be any studies to show results that would indicate the speed at which the cancer is growing, other than a rapidly rising PSA.
Although controversial, I could at least explain my reasoning to the patients. As you can guess, I would be advising the OP to find a doctor that will continue to do DRE's and other screening tests. I do believe that the diminishing returns as we age make the screening much less useful if you're not going to live at least 5-10 years. So @Dixon, I wish you well, into your 90's!