What does your partner think of your passion for enemas/suppositories?

I guess that for each of us there was a moment when we wanted to introduce the topic of suppositories/enemas with our partner. Sometimes it might have been easy, sometimes harder, but it has been a moment that I think most of us still remembers, as it was the beginning of sharing our intimate passion with our partner.

I wonder, at the current stage of your relationship with your partner, what does he/she think of your passion for enemas/suppositories? I suppose that this can be really diverse… from being a reason for even starting the relationship, to being seen as a weird perverted, with a lot of different possibilities in between.

As for my story, I have a male partner (gay couple) that I love very much. I told him about my passion for enemas even before we started our relationship and he didn't react in either way. Now we occasionally play enemas, but definitely not often, no more than a couple of times a year. I suppose that he does that more to make me happy (I only give to him) than for his own pleasure.

I am just curious to hear about your story.

I have been married for 40 years. When i realized that "she was the one" I told her about my interest in enemas. She told me she hated them. She was a good sport and tried one, and, you guessed it, hated it. She did give to me while we were engaged and the first year of marriage. Then nothing. Then 20 years into the marriage, no sex.

Where we stand today...

Still married. I take self given enemas whenever I feel like it. If it is coffee enemas she knows what it is for as we don't drink coffee. She still thinks I am crazy for liking enemas.

She is unaware of the playmates that I have exchanged/given enemas to over the last 20 years.

I am very fortunate to have a lover who will someday become my 2nd wife. she shares my love of everything anal and oral. ty my sahara for taking a chance and traveling half way around the world to meet me. i love you dearly and someday we'll be together forever. this just proves that somewhere out there is that special person for each and everyone of us. don't sit around waiting for them to come to you, get out there and look, look, look.

It took my husband some years to come around to realizing the pleasures of a good enema. While he will participate in some mutual cleaning out that ultimate result in some great sex, he still does not share the interest that I do. Part of this I attribute to him being male and not having the same monthly needs. Let's just say he tolerates my interest and the primary reason is that we'll have sex, but that is assuming we ever needed an excuse.

I guess that pretty often we have this situation of a partner who "tolerates" our passion for enemas/suppositories. This is not necessarily what we are looking for, though. Sharing the intimacy of a suppository or of an enema should go way beyond the simple tolerance and become much more than that. Otherwise we miss most of the point, I find.

When my wife was brought home from the hospital she told me that i needed someone in my life and suggested my current wife. This lady was a veterinary nurse for over 40 years and that's how we knew her. On one of our early dates I asked her how she felt about enemas. She said that she hadn't dealt with them with humans but had a lot of experience with dogs and cats....and that it wasn't exactly rocket science. So that date turned into a session that I needed, and it was "go" from then on.

We are happily married now and I have my very own enema nurse. --so, neener, neener, neener.

the boxcar

My wife asks me to give her 2 X 16 oz. bulb injections every morning before work. She has BAD IBS and early on I convinced her that this would help her avoid running to the bathroom during her work day. BUT, SHE IS NOT A KLYSMO! She sees no eroticism in bags or bulbs, at all. Enemas for her are strictly for health maintenance. She knows that I have always liked taking them and in our early years she would give me some, followed by intense sex. That ended long ago. Now that I HAVE to take a bag every 2-3 days, because of my semi-colon and no internal sphincters, she is fine with it and even suggests that I may need to go upstairs and "take a bag". (She rarely will say the word Enema, she hates it so much).

Boxcar, you crack me up! "neener, neener, neener".

Many years ago I got enough courage to have "the discussion" and it was met with more confusion and not understanding how this could be pleasurable. My wife associates enemas with diarrhea and BMs not anything erotic. So after a not so positive reaction I eased back and did not push it much after that. She did see my enema bags in the early part of the marriage and as time went on I slowly kept things hidden. I still want to re-introduce the subject to at least let her know I still like to do them. She knows I am very anal erotic and we do play with toys on me but a reminder of my enema habits is something I want to bring back up. I really don't like having to hide my enema habits.

I would love to be in a situation like others that share the same erotic pleasures with their significant others but that isn't likely to happen.

She doesn't know and I don't think I'll ever tell her. Not just to avoid the embarrassment but I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be into it or willing to try. The woman doesn't even masturbate.

Like Emom described with her husband, mine is slowly coming around but the transition is not complete yet. At first it took a bit of sweet-talk as well as some alcohol to convince him to give me an enema, but as Emom said, they recognize the reward at the end. It took quite a bit more convincing before he let me give him one. But remember that marriage is a compromise. So when the, "you want me to do what?" situation comes up, there may be a trade for something he is interested in.

He is at the point now that he knows a good enema can get us really cranked up for following activities, but he still does not understand how I can give myself an enema solo, just because I want one. He would never do that.

I also have been working on getting my wife into enemas, she did once let me give her one but she did not like it at all but being a good wife and sex partner and knowing i like them very much she said she would give me one whenever I wanted, but it's not quite the same knowing she doesn't really like it. She said she didn't know what attraction was. Not complaining it could be worse.

My wife and I have been married many years and she did not enjoy enemas at first. After taking it slowly, she finally accepted them as a prelude to super anal sex. I eventually gave her some to relieve menstral cramps - a welcome adventure for both of us. We enjoyed enemas for many years but now she has (finally) finished menopause, it's mostly solo. No explanation, just her enthusiasm has dropped off the chart... Oh well. She knows I still enjoy them so she packs "the bag" when we travel so it's a treat - can't wait for the next adventure.

I think she thinks it is OK. We have no secrets either regarding health or sexuality, so it is an open topic. She was curious to know if I used them all the time to relieve myself or just occasionally for detox and/or pleasure. I think she wanted to make sure that I did not have any medical issue that prevented me from voiding my bowels regularly, which I don't. She is curious but I think she would consider this a private matter, not one for a couple to explore.

My wife has no interest, never has. After menopause, her interest dropped from zero to zero.

My SO has no opinion as long as I don't bother him with it. He has administered a few in the past, but is not interested. Doesn't bother me. I take them whenever the mood hits. Sometimes I miss a day, sometimes I take more than one per day.

My SO has no opinion as long as I don't bother him with it. He has administered a few in the past, but is not interested. Doesn't bother me. I take them whenever the mood hits. Sometimes I miss a day, sometimes I take more than one per day.