Hate blowjob and cum swallowing

RN didn't mention one supposed big thing that's good for semen taste and general health: drink enough water!

My wife loves it when I lick and suck on her breasts and nipples, and when she was lactating I did sometimes get some milk out (not intentionally). Flavor wasn't strong, but it did seem sweeter than cow's milk.

Doesn't bother me, and I eat cum out of her also, and enjoy pleasing here

The thought of swallowing cum or pre-cum makes me nauseated (Corrected just for the Grammer Police, LOL). Even just reading about it or watching or seeing pictures make me feel sick. I couldn’t even read the posts on here, lol. I will give a blow job, but only if he is shaved. A condom on is even better. Sorry guys.....

I don't mind giving a blow job but it gets uncomfortable quickly as I have a very small mouth. I will not swallow and prefer that he does not cum on my mouth as I don't like the consistency and find the taste very nauseating.

Oh heavens, I really couldnt think of much worse,

I remember when I was learning about giving a BJ to the first person I met here,he did cum in my hair,

I really did not like it but I didnt tell him that,

I had a shower afterwards but when I got home the next day I found I still had a bit in my hair,I mean talk about want to throw up.

I love the pleasure a BJ gives to a man and if I love him I will do it,but where the cum goes is no where near me,

Sorry sirwilliam LOL

Peace,

Caz

I love giving my husband blow jobs and I like swallowing his semen too. I do not know if other men taste as good or not but I like the taste of his.

I love going down on my men 🌹 and I love everything about it, the feel of their cock in my mouth, my fingers on their skin, the warmth of their bodies, listening to their breathing as what I am doing with them begins to have its effect. I love their body's responses - each one is different, their little cues that they subconciously give off as I bring them to the edge and keep them there as long as possible. And I love how they cum - different ways for each of them, the little sounds that they make, the groans of relief once I take them over the edge and feel their warmth, their essence cumming in my mouth, and the feel of them soften as I swallow their warmth into me. 🌹

It is okay Caz,you give a great BJ.I know for certain reasons you can't have semen near you,I understand that.

We have had a long time to get to know each other now,so I promise you all is okay for us.

You should have told the person you were playing with that you didnt like it I am sure he would have understood,It is possible to have a great BJ with out you swallowing or needing my cum near your face and hair.

I love you sweetheart.

Oral sex isn't for some people - and that is just mighty fine. 😃 For some oral sex - is icing on the cake, and others not at all. But whether someone wants oral sex - or not, is just one part of the bigger picture, and should never be the 'deal breaker' for anyone. There are other things - other ways, for a couple to make it work for them. 😃

@Lora_C it is funny you said oral sex should not be a deal breaker. I was actually thinking how often I see on here how people with similar tastes wind up together. Before something is or is not a deal breaker you have to decide how important it is to you. For me, a mate just has to be at least slightly into my gynofet, and IMHO is it not a bj if there is no swallowing and coaxing the last little bits out of me. So for me, yea, that might be a deal breaker.

Given you are a female and can not be on the receiving end of a bj, imagine yourself say hooking up with a guy who would never lick your pussy except say with a dental dam in place. Might that not be a deal breaker for you if you really like receiving oral sex? I actually knew a guy like that years ago. He obsessed that you pee out the same area and it is not possible not to lick where you pee. He really liked bj's too oddly enough. I guess what was good for the gander he did not think was good for the goose.

Ok, I don't say much on zity these days but I'm going to respond to this one for better or for worse.

For me, it's about being accepted as a male. If a woman wants to make me come with her mouth, then that's exactly what I want on some deep level... I want to rapturously explode and ejaculate in her mouth or throat and have her happily swallow and accept my ejaculate as part of accepting me into her body.

I am not a dildo so here it goes again..."accepting ME into her body". Isn't that the point of this female-male exercise?

The mouth and ass are safe places - minus STDs - to receive a man's ejaculate without making babies.

To me, it's roughly analogous to a man who will fuck a woman but refuses to go down on her. It amounts to a quiet rejection of their sexual response.

I like pleasing my guy by giving him blowjobs after he licks me to orgasm. He has a tiny penis, so easy to take, and squeezes it shut upon orgasm so nothing comes out. Afterward he either lets it out slowly so I can easily swallow, or lets it out into the palm of his hand.

I know how my cum tastes because I've swallowed a fair amount of it over the years. And I have noticed that hydration and what you eat can effect the consistency and flavor. Overall I'd rate mine as nutritious and delicious. My ex preformed admirably over the years together swallowing most times till completion. She enjoyed it and yet I can say I was a more indulgent pussy eater than she. All in all we were pretty compatible that way.

I love Lora-C 's description.

I want directions to your home please for possible adoption!

I won't do either one.

I won't do either one.

Do you not like it?

I love giving head! However, I have an absolutely insane gag reflex and not in a good way so cumming in my mouth is an absolute hard no. It causes such an intense gag that I nearly vomit. Come on my face, or on my breasts, or in my pussy, anywhere that’s not my mouth. Some days I gag trying to brush my teeth! Certain smells, certain textures, even certain visual things can make me retch and gag, not just in bed but out in the world! It’s extremely annoying! I used to be absolutely terrible at oral sex for obvious reasons, and I avoided it when I could, but it because something of a personal challenge when I got married. It’s taken me decades but now I can give head for hours. Occasionally my jaw gives up first but my enthusiasm is there. I’ve managed to learn to tolerate a little bit of precum without it setting me off too badly. Fortunately, it’s easy to wipe away if it becomes a problem. Sometimes though, even with the best intentions, I’ll choke or gag and have to take a break. Most of what I like is how much He likes it so the more he’s enjoying it, the more I am too. Thankfully, we’ve had discussions about my less than ideal gag reflex and he knows my gagging isn’t a reflection of my opinion of him as a person or me rejecting the essence of his being (I used his essence to make and grow several whole people inside my body, That’s way more intimate than swallowing!) so he’s content to finish with my hand, or switching to another position. He knows that it’s not something I enjoy, and in a way it makes me feel like I’ve failed at something I’ve been trying to master, so he likes to quit while he’s ahead, so to speak, and not push me into a place where I’m unhappy.

So yeah, blowjobs are awesome, but the semen need to stay in the boat till it’s fully docked!

So yeah, blowjobs are awesome, but the semen need to stay in the boat till it’s fully docked!

LOL @Peachfuzz - I love that. 😁

I didn't see how far in your mouth you took his cock - and maybe you've adjusted the 'depth' you take him, but that might do it for you. Also - when he gets ready to cum when you are blowing him, do you pinch the tip of his cock together until the urge to cum has passed? Then you could reroute his boat - to another port, where he can off load his cargo. 😉

That's all the naughty - nautical talk I know. 😉

maybe you've adjusted the 'depth' you take him, do you pinch the tip of his cock together until the urge to cum has passed? Then you could reroute his boat - to another port, where he can off load his cargo. 😉

With time and patience and an absolute zen like attitude on my part, I can get more of his cock in my mouth than my toothbrush! I can get whole thing, but it has to be on my terms. I’ve got to think about my breathing I have to concentrate on avoiding the really twitchy parts of the back of my throat. If he starts bucking and thrusting and throws off my breathing or jams even a tiny little bit farther down my throat all bets are off! And no pinching necessary, if he gets too close I just stop touching him completely. Tease and deny, over and over, it’s blissful torture. Fortunately, he likes that, so he’s happy to keep the sailors on deck till they can have shore leave in a warmer place farther south!

My wife hates it. Did it a few times when we first got together but I could tell she didn’t like it so I didn’t enjoy the experience. And she has never liked cum. Even in the beginning when I came she wanted to clean up immediately. Unfortunate. But there you are b

I have been on the both sides of the fence both receiving and giving. If you are really against swallowing, then just let it run down and drain out your mouth as the guy cums. But I have to say when on the receiving end, and the giver swallows it is much more pleasurable- they keep sucking right through your orgasm and that is the most intense feeling you can get. And yes I have swallowed!

I have developed a love for BJ's over the years. Not only do I love how he responds, it simply makes me dripping hot and turned on. I have had orgasm when I was giving head and I wasn't being touched! The key for my arousal is feeling emotionally connected to my partner. With that being said, I don't like the taste of cum usually but in the case of a romantic relationship I'll swallow every drop of it IF it turns him on. Diet and hydration is key IMO.

Love giving blowjobs and can't swallow enough cum.The bigger the load the better.

Surely not. If you don't love it, don't worry about it, just don't do it and move on to whatever it is that you do love. After all, it is supposed to be pleasure.

With that said, I LOVE sucking a cock and swallowing cum

My wife gave me 2 blowjobs in 20 years and I had several girlfriends that didn’t like doing it at all. Had a couple that loved it but they weren’t keepers for other reasons.

I love giving blowjobs to other guys, and feeling their penises pulsate between my lips! Then, the icing-on-the-cake is feeling their cum rush inside my mouth as their body convulses in orgasmic pleasure! Very, very erotic!

Similarly, I love giving women oral sex, and tasting their heavenly vaginal juices, and pee sometimes!

Both, men's cum/pee and women's juices/pee are like nectar to honeybee!

I've had a lot of girlfriends who didn't like swallowing. I told them before I was gonna cum.

I haven't seen it mentioned, but has anyone noticed a difference between the taste of cum from a man that's had a vasectomy versus a man that has not? I don't think the sperm is what affects the flavor as much as diet.

I have sampled my own cum many times & sometimes it's good tasting & other times it tasted totally gross.

My wife has always refused to swallow, both before & after my vasectomy.

My wife has always refused to swallow, both before & after my vasectomy.

That's too bad. Could have had a compare and contrast, before and after

My wife also doesn't like it. She can make a blowjob but not swallow.

My wife let me cum in her mouth once but it was obvious she didn’t like it. Not important to me and I told her that - didn’t want to turn her off to blow jobs! And I enjoyed several thousands after that!