Interesting Conversation Today

Today I was riding in a car with my girlfriend and our mutual friend coming back from a beer tasting, and as my girlfriend and I had had a few drinks, conversations were taking an interesting turn (good guy mutual friend was dd). Somehow the topic of motion sickness came up, and my girlfriend says that I'd "better not throw up on her". So our friend chimes in with "Hey, some people are into that." which seemed to genuinely surprise my girlfriend. She's fairly vanilla when it comes to these things, and doesn't know about my abdl side as of yet. So without warning my friend also adds "Yeah and some people are into wearing old diapers, like they'll get them out of the trash and wear them!" which of course prompted a surprised and disgusted reaction from my girlfriend. I played it off with agreeing words and the conversation more or less ended, but the upshot is that now if I'm going to bring up abdl things with this girl the initial thought in her head is going to go back to this conversation. I do like wearing, but I'm not in the business of snooping around in people's trash looking for used diapers to put on. Not to mention sanitary concerns, that's just a bit much. So, that's my vaguely diaper related event of the day. Just felt like sharing.

(Also, excuse my friend. I think he has somewhat of an ignorant view on this fetish.)

Up front disclosure: my tinfoil hat is on for this one. Watch out for the friend, he may know something about your particular interest, and may be about to train-wreck things with your girlfriend. Bringing up the diaper thing right after the Roman shower discussion- which if you think about it is actually pretty long removed from ABDL, conversationally - and he may actually be dropping a hint to the girlfriend about you, not just engaging in scintillating discussion. Coincidence? Maybe, maybe not...stay frosty and hide your gear extra well before the GF's next visit.

There are people out there into things I can't wrap my mind around. You can try to shed some light on this for him. Show him not all of us do nasty things like that.

SudsBuds, I completely get what you're saying. Honestly if he were someone closer to me I'd be worried, because a few of my close circle do know of my abdl side. But this guy is a little further removed, more of like a beer and car buddy if that makes sense. And plus the girl in question has been living with me for two years, so 1. I have no gear around the house to hide, and 2. If he really were trying to train wreck things, he'd have to try pretty hard. Still though, I can't say it didn't make me a little paranoid. But then again every time anyone says the word "diaper" a red alert goes off in the back of my mind.

Yeah I have an alarm that goes off whenever anyone mentions my particular kink, which happens to be dressing up as a woman from time to time. I'm very careful about hiding it, got a whole system worked out, so I have a reasonable level of confidence no one knows or will find out, especially not the GF. Clearly you've worked out your own system too, but you have to wonder what made him come up with that to say when he did...

There was one night YEARS ago. We're talking 1980 or thereabouts. I was into the 9-10th month of dating a new girl that I was absolutely in love with. I was very much into my diapers, as always, but had not yet brought up the topic with her. (Later I did, and for a while she went along with it, then, well, that's another story for another day).

We were sitting there watching The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson and his guest was Bob Newhart and during the conversation Bob said to Johnny "Did you know that there are actually people out there who enjoy WEARING DIAPERS?" Johnny said "Where did you hear this?" Bob said he read something about it in the Chicago paper and Johnny said "Chicago. Well I guess that's a good diaper town!"

I ABOUT DIED. Part of me wanted to tell her the whole story right then. The other part of me was praying that she wouldn't laugh or say "God what a bunch of perverts" or whatever.

Then there was another time just a few years ago when I was in a grocery store with an old friend, a sort of cowboy / "country" kind of guy. We were in there buying beer and to get to the beer section had to walk down the "baby" aisle and when going by the diapers he blurted out "You know, I heard somewhere that some people are into WEARING DIAPERS!"

I just looked at him and said "Maybe we should try it. It might be FUN!" He didn't say a thing. LOL.

SPDL, You have two things you like a lot, diapers and your girlfriend. They may or may not mix well.

You need to think about your priorities and where you want to be two to five years from now. Which is more important to you? Which do you see in your life, if not both, a few years down the road?

Does your girlfriend seem like the motherly type? If so, she may take to having a big boy to baby. Regardless of that, if you two have a baby, she's probably not going to be into having you both in diapers. Think this chess game through a few moves then move accordingly.

Thanks for the advice Quincy; obviously conflicting interests are never easy to solve. Hopefully it all works out for the better.

One more story for you guys, because it involves the same girl. So her and I, along with some friends, had spent the weekend in my family's getaway cabin in the woods. We spent the time drinking and goofing off like proper college kids. Eventually, my girlfriend starts snooping around the cabin and finds a box of baby diapers, left behind from some family event years prior. She exclaims, "Hey (other girl)! I bet these would fit you!". Other girl in this scenario being extremely petite, they definitely would have fit her. Of course internally I'm freaking out at this point, with said "alarm" blaring in my head since diapers have suddenly become the main topic. I glance to my good friend in the room, who does indeed know of my abdl side. He grins at me and I can just tell he's going to try to take this as far as it goes. He started to say something, but I cut him off, declaring that we all needed another round. Danger avoided lol. Then again now looking back I wonder what might have happened. Oh well.

New Year's Eve in Times Square NYC, many VANILLA people wear diapers to the event because there literally is no place to go to the bathroom. Once you arrive, you're in. If you leave for any reason, you probably won't get back in and you certainly won't find the people you came with.

New Year's Eve in Times Square NYC, many VANILLA people wear diapers to the event because there literally is no place to go to the bathroom. Once you arrive, you're in. If you leave for any reason, you probably won't get back in and you certainly won't find the people you came with.

The posted rules are that if you leave your section, you're out.

I've been in Times Square on NYE's when the temperature approached 0F. A wet diaper does not sound like a comfortable way to spend that kind of evening.

I could not find another post that was relevant so hopefully this is posted in the correct area. I have worked with my group for a number of years, while we have fun we usually don't speak of much of anything sexual related, just innuendo on occasion. One day I came around the corner and two ladies were in conversation. The conversation evidently had started earlier and I came in mid-stream, the one lady that I will call Grandma was talking and I heard that her Son Inlaw had sent her a picture with "her' in a pink T-shirt, a pink diaper and pink roller skates and how cute she was in that outfit. I knew she was talking about her 2 year old grand daughter but thought I would have a little fun with her, I asked her why her Son Inlaw would send her a picture of her daughter dressed like that and does he always share that much. She and the other lady started laughing and she said no it wasn't her daughter, it was her granddaughter. I did not realize that a couple of other ladies had also been listening and they were cracking up. I told her that I was wondering how much he shared with her, she indicated that she did not want to know anything like that about their private life while she was giggling. Another lady said Wow, sounds like baby number 3 may be coming! This really started everyone laughing. Grandma said she did not want to think about her daughter that way ( while continuing to giggle while going back to her desk). Everyone settled down and it was not brought up again until a couple of months later that Grandma announced they were expecting grandchild number 3, the one lady mentioned that outfit her daughter put on must have worked! Grandma said she did not want the details of how it happened she was just happy to have another grandchild.

I found two things interesting from this conversation, the first being that no one said anything like ewww, a diaper, they all seemed to accept that it could be a sexy/kinky picture. Second was that the daughter would have looked great in that outfit, I wondered if Grandma had told them the funny story and maybe they recreated the outfit. Probably not but it would make a great story!