2 guys? maybe 3 or 4?

Please do not get involved with these scenes unless you are 100% self confident with your sexuality and happy with yourself. Do it because you want to enjoy the moment. Do not get involved to please a husband girlfriend or try to make a guy like you or a girl like you. The wrong reason could be disasturous for a relationship mentally and physically.

I agree 100 percent.

Mashie

Yes, Ginnie, I totally agree as well.

I think the only way these scenarios could work without causing damage of some kind is if all the individuals are only together in that moment without any serious emotional attachments being involved at all. Even then there might be competition between the males for the female, or between the females for the male.

Any established relationship between a male and female would need to have been 'open' from the very beginning. Both would need to be absolutely on the same page about sex with other people, if the relationship is to avoid lasting damage.

My wife and I would never risk it.

I have had many threesomes yet I have never found them pleasing. I always feel like in a threesome there is an imbalance or a phony side to it. I tend to be a person who wants to please others and this can be bad for my sex life. I feel I sometime and acting too much and am not in my own head enough to enjoy it. I really love connecting with one person. If you are really into them and can explore all of them it's so exhilarating and honest. That's not to say I have not had fun in a threesome. I am lucky to have made love with both men and women and that is always the most intense experience, when I can dive in and really see them in an intimate way.

I've never been with more than one woman at a time, and I've never wanted to share a woman with another man. I certainly wouldn't share my wife, and she wouldn't want to be shared either.

Another really big problem is (assuming 1 male, 2 or more females) which of the women receives the semen. Jealousy among the females could easily come to the surface.

Maybe the worst problem (2 or more males, 1 female) could manifest when the female's regular, usually monogamous partner is faced with the reality of other men ejaculating on or inside 'his' female.

I think the only way these scenarios could work without causing damage of some kind is if all the individuals are only together in that moment without any serious emotional attachments being involved at all. Even then there might be competition between the males for the female, or between the females for the male.

Any established relationship between a male and female would need to have been 'open' from the very beginning. Both would need to be absolutely on the same page about sex with other people, if the relationship is to avoid lasting damage.

My wife and I would never risk it.

My husband is so right in his posts. I would feel really jealous if some other woman had sex with him and it would be worse if she got his semen inside her. I would still feel like I had betrayed him if I broke my unbreakable rule and actually had sex with another man even if he said he agreed with me doing it which he never would. No I belong only to him and he belongs only to me. We are just too close bonded as a married couple to let somebody else be involved. We just NEVER would.

I've been in threesomes numerous times, always with two guys and a girl. The girls are usually apprehensive, but once they have two guys loving on them, they love it. In my case, it was all about the girl, and her enjoyment. The guys always got theirs, but it was after she was completely spent. I'm curious to learn about your experiences. Please share, and thanks

My wife and I bring another couple into our bed a few times a year. This is a long standing relationship that we all enjoy. It's never been a strain on our relationship, but that's just us.

I've tried multiple partners a few different ways. My least favorite is MFF, somebody is going to get left out, and the chances are good the M is a one shot deal.

MMF is fun if the guys are really comfortable with being skin to skin together. Much better if they want to play with each other, cause that's fun to watch.

Foursomes work well cause there's enough hands, mouthes, holes, that nobody gets left out.

My favorite MMMMMM+/F the guys, one at a time. Since I only do anal, I stick my butt in the air, and say 'Come and get it!'. The guys in line waiting can jack off too, which is fun to watch. CONDOMS ONLY.