What causes you to have the best, most satisfying orgasms?

What causes you to have those orgasms that totally overwhelm you and leave you emotionally and physically drained? Extra credit for lots of prurient details!

Having asked the question, I feel obliged to answer it as well. I will try for extra credit.

In younger days, when we were having a lot of sex and a lot of variety, it might have been difficult to identify just one or two things that really got me off in a big way. Most often, it was probably novelty, something unexpected or a special treat. Examples would be the very rare occasions when she asked for it up her ass or, maybe, the few times she gave me an enema.

Now, in our later years, when sex is seldom and there is little variety and nothing new, my most powerful orgasms and ejaculations are the result of her masturbating me while indulging me verbally in whatever fantasy she can get into at the time. If, while this is going on, fingers on her other hand stray near, touch, or even threaten to penetrate my anus, I am immediately electrified. If, as she does only once in a blue moon, she slides a slippery, lubed finger up my ass, I am beside myself. When she does this she always stimulates my prostate to some extent, causing a strong urge, a powerful need, to ejaculate. The orgasm/ejaculation that results from having her finger up me and having my prostate stimulated while being jacked off, leaves me wiped out and takes a bit for me to recover.

My best mind blowing orgasms is when sex is spontaneous just do it almost where you can, and if there is a chance of being caught then that adds to the intensity of it,cant beat it,

I get my best orgasms when my wife gives me erotic massages with happy endings, starting with a handjob while she fingers me, continuing with a blowjob, and finally, she rides me.

What causes me to have the best orgasms? Having a finger inside me while engaged in intercourse.

If we truly knew the answer to this, they'd all be that good.

I would have to say, any penile stimulation combined with anal and or prostate stimulation. This combo includes blowjob or handjob with fingers in ass or using anal beads; strapon combined with handjob; or regular screwing and using a position that allows her to use fingers in my ass while I pump away towards a super orgasm.

My husband would definitely say having me jerk him off while lying on his back while being fisted with lots of pressure on his prostate OR being jerked off while being fisted elbow deep. He just convulses and is usually exhausted when we're done even though I did all the work!

For me, it is having intercourse with me squatting on top of my husband while I'm massaging my clitoris. Hubby would massage my clit, but in that position, he is usually holding me around my waist with both hands.

Well, for me the visual factor makes a lot. I like to play with a womans holes, insert some toys and all kind of stuff in those. When she is getting hot I play harder and harder while my genitals do the same. When I feel ready I start to use my small friend.

After some good play and intercourse I finish with a happy face.

Just as I am about to cum, someone sticking their finger up my anus - it never fails.

Having a set of beads in my ass and just as I start to have an orgasm having the pulled out slow. I have a trick to doing this myself. I tied a string to the end of the beads. Just long enough so when I straighten out my leg they get pulled out. The other end of the string has a loop big enough for my big toe to fit through.

Or To have a finger or toy in my ass, a finger or toy in my vagine and someone sucking and spitting my clit in and out really fast.

For me it is a night of teasing and torment. I start off the evening in a dress or skirt, either nude underneath or the complete opposite, a firm girdle. Once in the car, I raise my skirt and my mate rubs and feels my crotch thru out the rest of the evening when we can get by it without getting caught. The more we are in public, a restaurant, bar, park or dancing, the more excited and worked up I get. Once at our final destination, I want it to continue until my companion strips me and finishes the deed with their tongue.

For me it is a tight vagina. It might be one of the main reasons that I really like period sex.

Most people realize a copulation in the push-pull technique; for my opinion this method is primitive and simple-minded. It is far more interesting and will give really the best and most satisfying orgasms in rotating or revolving around, this in a clockwise direction or in an anticlockwise direction, for you will be able to extend the copulation for a long time.

Ricini--how do you do the rotation?

hankb

Ricini how do achieve the rotation? Suspend one partner in the air? Does this give you friction burns?? Do you rotate clockwise or counter clockwise? Can this lead to Peyronnies disease? Please let me know the details. I'm fascinated.

Liquidsky

Ricini how do achieve the rotation?

Suspend one partner in the air? - No, not continually, but partly..

Does this give you friction burns? - Yes, in approaching the partner once in a rotation.

Do you rotate clockwise or counter clockwise? - Alternatively.

Can this lead to Peyronnies disease? - In the case that the rotation will be realized carefully, no.

In summary: You ought to be very creative and imaginative to the best of your partner. With a little practice this form of sexual intercourse will be neither laborious nor strenuous.

Lots and lots of oral. Smaller orgasms one after another with very little break in between. Lots of tongue on clit with fingers or toys in my pussy and then my ass as well eventually building up to one where I scream and my whole body shakes uncontrollably.

Okay. here ya go-

What really blows my top is this- the woman is laying on top of me, and I'm fondling and spreading her buttocks while eagerly thrusting away underneath her, with her intensely staring into my eyes and gently gliding her saliva-moistened fingertips back and forth over my sensitive erect nipples, until I explode!

Is that detailed enough for ya? 😃

Pain play, poking my clit with a pencil, pussy and clit clamps and clit spanking after pumping

Under or over on my wife with access to her breasts during intercourse. That is a double play of enjoyment.

Spooning allows me to be inside of her and able to stimulate her clitoris with my finger. That allows for mutual enjoyment. And if you don't thrust until you are able to sense she's ready to climax, both can have the climax simultaneously.

Like @douche , the visual of my wife's breasts really set me off. Especially enjoyed her on top with breasts hanging down to watch and hold. While this always resulted in a powerful orgasm, it reduced my staying power.

When I have sex with my boyfriend with vibrating clamps on my nipples and clit

When I have sex with my boyfriend with vibrating clamps on my nipples and clit

Amy, that sounds exquisite, especially with my extremely sensitive nipples that have always been like little sexual "On" buttons (see prior nipple post). What exactly do you use on your nipples? The vibration sounds wonderful but I need some nipple clamps that are quite adjustable to keep them on firmly but not cause pain in and of themselves.

Eric

I have a partner who does the best hand jobs I have ever had. Lots of lube and lots of head stimulation. Then I take her doggie style while I use a dildo in my ass. Fantastic. I cum so hard because she is so into it. And she cums over and over.