Who is John Galt?
This is a great site. Like minded, open minded, kinky minded people coming together to exchange and express ideas thoughts feelings, insecurities etc.
One thing I have noticed, some people still question the 'why' the 'how' of their paticular proclivity.
Imho, your fetish is not much different from why do you like blonde hair over red, or green eyes over brown. It is coming of age. Moving through puberty and having one if your first few sexual ( unknown sexual) experiences. Whatever you saw, or heard or where doing is imprinted on you for life. These events can be subtle, barely dicernable, or earth shattering.
There is a (simplistic version) story I read or heard that explained it for me. Here goes.
A girl was teling her best friend that there was only way her younger brother was able to achieve an orgasm. Growing up, whenever she would catch him jerking off, she would sneak up and pull his underwear down over his head and face. To this day that was his go to. Getting catch jerking off, the humiliation of having your own dirty underwear and cumming.
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So you might have gotten hundreds of spankings, enemas, temperatures taken anally, or whatever, the key is, the one or two or more you received while traveling through the rocky seas of puberty etched in your brain and sexual psyche...forever.
Maybe I am just fortunate. When my bf of 30+ years ago tied me up, spanked my bum, took me anally, and too many other things to mentiin here I did not question it. I reveled in the absolute pure pleasure rushing through my body. The 'depraved' things he did to me and with me, spoke to me.
What I did question was, 'What if this NEVER happened?' 'Sex, my sex life would be mundane, lackluster, tired'. And all thise people who will never be introduced to a little kink.
It is also imho, that if more people where introduced to a little kink, they woukd like it.
Rejoice your fetish. Embrace your kink. Blame you sister.... -)
LadyM
PS Just like the title says, ' Sex is Fun!'