Examination when younger

If true about your doctor, then don't you think he'd have been arrested? Inevitably abuse like that comes to light. It simply is not that common. I'm frankly still quite skeptical. You sure this hasn't been embellished upon?

. . . As we grew up together...[color=#000000][b]we would play "doctor" and take turns examining each other[/b].[/color] As we grew older and became teenagers, when I slept over his house (for sleepovers) it was custom we both hung out in undies and [color=00f0000]when we feel asleep we slept in the same bed and jerk each other off[/color]. Because we had this common bond with the doctor "molesting" us it turned out we also played with each other.

[color=#000000][b]This went on for years...I'm gay and he is straight with a wife and two kids. We are like brothers and we often meet up every year...he comes to Florida where I live for about 3-4days without his wife and kids and we play around as if we were kids and swap stories with each other.[/b][/color]

Let me preface my post with the following statement: I am not a guy but I do have a husband and he and I have shared many stories about our experiences in life.

Based on what you said, as you said, you are gay but your friend is NOT straight, he is bisexual or gay living a straight appearing life. It is certainly NOT the custom for teenage boys to sleep in the same bed and jerk each other off. They may jerk themselves off--that is common for teenage boys--but NOT to jerk off their friends.

Liquidsky, it is not uncommon for physicians to pull down boys underwear to do an examination.

What a wonderful question. I believe that our current expectations and fantasies come from prior experiences and what better than when younger, especially those teen years and shortly thereafter. As a child, there was always a concern about receiving some sort of shot and an exam with mom present. It was largely a helpless feeling - undressed, rectal temp and sitting there usually close to tears. As a teen, there was more independence as well as keen awareness of what an exam meant and greater self consciousness of my body parts. Anticipation of an exam also could mean some arousal the night before or surely after. Seeing changes in my body - more hair and budding parts - helped along with having a a more acute sense of being vulnerable. That sound of the paper crinkling seemed to be louder and last longer. Having my heart beat faster and my nipples react was inevitable. All of these are clearly remembered now and heightened by current exams. So yes, memories are sometimes very nice to hold onto!

If true about your doctor, then don't you think he'd have been arrested? Inevitably abuse like that comes to light. It simply is not that common. I'm frankly still quite skeptical. You sure this hasn't been embellished upon?

I know I'm reviving an old thread. But I never got enough courage to respond when this thread was current .

When I read this thread, and the posts by mboyd77, I was amazed too because what he wrote about the doctor was very similar to my own experience; my one visit to a doctor that I have described here as abusive. When I contacted mboyd77 directly to discuss his experience and mine, I found out at the doctor who I felt abused me was the SAME one he saw during his High School exam. Now that is amazing, to talk with a complete stranger on this message board and when discussing similarities to realize we may have been abused by the same person. So I know that on many threads here on Zity there are those who would never ascribe ill intentions to those with a mefical doctorate degree and even defend the very notion that a doctor who wasn't arrested was getting pleasure out of an exam, however, mine and many others personal experience prove otherwise.

What's amazing is that these people are not in jail and that due to their reputation many are never even investigated. The doctor that I'm referring to, that I believe abused me, retired as in very prominent member of that community. I even called the police in that City to see if there was ever an investigation and the lieutenant I spoke to was not aware of any investigation regarding him. I also called the doctor who examined me shortly before he retired and he gave me explanations such as, 'things were different in those days' and 'maybe my summer intern examined you and I don't have records that far back.'

So I guess the punch line is that not unlike the church scandals and the abuses perpetrated by priests that took decades to come to light, perhaps there are more doctors who are secretly covert abusers and this issue has not for the most part come to light yet. I guess there is another difficulty in that if a priest is touching someone inappropriately, their touch is obviously inappropriate, whereas a doctor can hide behind the convert need for an exam to conduct his sketchy Behavior.

I know many here have a very sensative BS meter and quickly jump on those that describe abuses that seem so fantastic that they can't be true. (another reason I waited to reply) All I ask is that folks not jump to conclusions, there is a lot of real abuse out there - yes even from medical professionals and parents. (and some of it leads to medfet)

Ah, I also see now that I missed a thread (now closed) from July that addressed doctors and abuse too.

I am a male with a medical fetish.

I this is a result of the pleasure I experienced several times as a pre teen who mature rather early. My doctor would palpate my abdomen, which is an erotic area for many people. So I believe I would become erect when this occurred starting about age 11, when I went through puberty.

I remember him also put my penis in his hand so he could look into my urethra; I remember him pulling it apart a bit. I found this very sexually stimulating. Then he would place his finger up and down the shaft, feeling for bumps I imagine. I believe he also checked my public hair, which was also stimulating.

And of course he would always check for hernia. I recall wanting him to continue doing it!!! (I also love to have my testicles pulled on to this day, as a 42 year old adult man)

Just the smell of the alcohol used in the practice can start to turn me on.

I believe I probably came close to ejaculating between the ages of 11 and 16 or so at least once during an exam, before I started going to an internal medicine doctor for adults.

I know I'm reviving an old thread. But I never got enough courage to respond when this thread was current .

When I read this thread, and the posts by mboyd77, I was amazed too because what he wrote about the doctor was very similar to my own experience; my one visit to a doctor that I have described here as abusive. When I contacted mboyd77 directly to discuss his experience and mine, I found out at the doctor who I felt abused me was the SAME one he saw during his High School exam. Now that is amazing, to talk with a complete stranger on this message board and when discussing similarities to realize we may have been abused by the same person. So I know that on many threads here on Zity there are those who would never ascribe ill intentions to those with a mefical doctorate degree and even defend the very notion that a doctor who wasn't arrested was getting pleasure out of an exam, however, mine and many others personal experience prove otherwise.

What's amazing is that these people are not in jail and that due to their reputation many are never even investigated. The doctor that I'm referring to, that I believe abused me, retired as in very prominent member of that community. I even called the police in that City to see if there was ever an investigation and the lieutenant I spoke to was not aware of any investigation regarding him. I also called the doctor who examined me shortly before he retired and he gave me explanations such as, 'things were different in those days' and 'maybe my summer intern examined you and I don't have records that far back.'

So I guess the punch line is that not unlike the church scandals and the abuses perpetrated by priests that took decades to come to light, perhaps there are more doctors who are secretly covert abusers and this issue has not for the most part come to light yet. I guess there is another difficulty in that if a priest is touching someone inappropriately, their touch is obviously inappropriate, whereas a doctor can hide behind the convert need for an exam to conduct his sketchy Behavior.

I know many here have a very sensative BS meter and quickly jump on those that describe abuses that seem so fantastic that they can't be true. (another reason I waited to reply) All I ask is that folks not jump to conclusions, there is a lot of real abuse out there - yes even from medical professionals and parents. (and some of it leads to medfet)

It is an old thread...but people should be aware that doctor abuse is common. It was kind of crazy and very shocked that two strangers that only spoke through this forum new of my town and the doctor(s) and understood my issues. My experience "I think" is of the extreme and at least I wasn't beaten and abused physically which is also common in many families. I was mentally and sexually abused by my mother, a doctor and my mothers boyfriend. My sister didn't get abused that much by the doctor or my mother, but my sister did admit years ago that my mothers boyfriend would sexually abuse her as well. There are all types of abuse from all types of people.

Although with my therapy and growing up and being an adult and my abusers have passed away, with talking to my younger sister and self help...I consider myself as normal as can be. However, my sense of sex, my likes and dislikes are not of the norm...I am into medfet because of my experiences and I have a host of other sexual fetishes and kinks because of my past history I also am convinced that mother son relationships are not as normal as it seems. Just as an example, I was just recently in Disney World waiting about 2 hours to get onto the Soarin ride in Epcot. There was a huge line and it moved slowly. In front of me was a family of 4. The father, the mother, the son (about 16 years old) and the sister about (14 years old). The family seem to be a normal family you would see in a Disney park...enjoying there vacation. As the line was long and took forever, the son was hugging his mother and she was hugging him back and rubbing his shoulders and the daughter was hugging the father. I took notice and I thought the dynamics between the mother and son was a bit odd, how the son and mother would be holding each other as if they were boyfriend and girlfriend. They seem to be attached to the hip. The people around us didn't take notice as they were in there own world...but I took notice and perhaps I was being over-sensitive but found if very odd the relationship this mother had with her son. As the line moved slowly and we took fewer and fewer steps, we reached the point there was a garbage can and the mother and son decided to arm wrestle using the top of the garbage can as a counter top to arm wrestle...the mother let the son win and as they both laughed...they hugged each other again. I noticed that the boy was getting an erection. Since he was wearing just basketball shorts and most like boxer shorts...I notice his dick was hard and he adjusted his dick to go upwards. I noticed the mother looked at his erection and the family huddled and the mother and son continued to be hugging but the mother this time placed her hand underneath her sons shirt and I can tell that she was feeling her sons boner. His hard dick was standing straight upwards as his shorts and shirt was hiding his hard on, but his mother new and kind of teased his dick...as the line continued the move, she and her son continued hugging. It was really strange.

I am very convinced that mothers are into there son's development and growth and very curious about the size of there son's penis and such....of course this is just my screwed thinking 😃

Post 74 are you for real? You speak of mboyd77 in the third person yet you post as mboyd77. This type of posting alone adds a certain degree of skepticism. Please clarify.

Post 74 are you for real? You speak of mboyd77 in the third person yet you post as mboyd77. This type of posting alone adds a certain degree of skepticism. Please clarify.

mboyd77 is quoting my post #71, before his reply but it's not in a quote box.

Sorry for the confusion...for some reason when I used the "insert quote" button it doesn't come out as a "quote" and it looks like I am writing it...am I using that "insert quote" button correctly....sorry for any confusion!

The old message is now in quotes.

The old message is now in quotes.

Thanks Woyzeck

A physical exam at age 12 marked me for life. Made me realize my anal fetish. Have been playing doctor ever since.

I remember vividly not only the physicals from my teen years, but much further back into my earliest school physicals, too. But, my physicals more recently I remember less, perhaps because these have been less eventful. Those which I remember well from so long ago were usually ones which involved something happening, like first school physical, or first time being naked at a medical office that wasn't our family doctor's, or different ways of being examined in different states of undress.

I remember the first school physical, I think when I was six, undressing down to my underpants and not really being naked because the doctor only reached down inside, but never really had me take them off. Then, the next year I was completely naked for the entire physical. And, the year after that I was undressed down to only my socks for the whole time, which made me actually feel more naked than when I was wearing nothing at all the year before. I can fairly clearly recall each of these physicals, but much less so other years after that when it just seemed more routine because it was with our regular doctor, whereas those other physicals were with a different doctor each time.

In my teens it was much the same. I remember the school physicals much more than the ones with our family doctor in those same years. I do remember things in young adulthood, like first prostate exam or first time completely undressing and just wearing a gown. Also, some physicals later in adulthood which were in foreign countries where procedures were different than back home, like no gowns, so either just in underwear or totally naked. Or, the time in South Africa when they gave me a beer stein to use for the urine sample. Really!

It's those times when something was different which I think makes it more memorable.

Exams with my pediatrician are what started me in all this and I think for a lot of people this is the case. That's why they stand out. It isn't strange at all to remember them so well.

Its the power of association, the more you associate with an event, the clearer you will remember it. Happens a lot with me. I can remember numbers, dates and events of history or stuff, but can't remember things I did yesterday or things I have to do today.

But then again I am a dyslexic.

I think we remember about what happened when were younger easier . Most likely good memories. Easier to remember. I would say for most that is were the"magic" began..Maybe it leads to something sexual in the memory. I think it gives most people preasure overall.

My most vivid recollection of doctor visits in my youth was hearing the dread instruction, "Pull down your pants and bend over", followed by the agonised wait staring at the receptionist's legs while bending across her lap in helpless anticipation of the injection(s) in my vulnerable bare bottom, which often left me unable to sit down later.

Perhaps it is because in part when we were younger, doctors and teachers were authority figures who imposed demands to which we submitted.

Im the same way. I remember clearly almost 10 years ago every detail of my genital exams

Its the power of association, the more you associate with an event, the clearer you will remember it. Happens a lot with me. I can remember numbers, dates and events of history or stuff, but can't remember things I did yesterday or things I have to do today.

But then again I am a dyslexic.

Being Dyslexic is not a memory impairment.

These were probably big events in your life so they are very strong in your memory. Minor things like what you did last week are probably not going to be remembered.