Thank you for all the comments shared here on this….May I say this, Even though addressed primarily…to the women,
I can tell you that my dearest lady ever in my life, has, over five beautiful years, brought me to tears both during the insertion of tube & water combined , and then during the afterglow, at which time, both the water and the entire 40" of tube remain for a few precious minutes, allowing things to settle down before being removed for the final release…
It is the culmination of many things, the emotional release of tension that we men have been taught our entire lives, to deny and ACT out, otherwise.
There is nothing more beautiful than this trusting completely & sharing together, and my being vulnerable, to the only person in my entire life, childhood including, that I am finally able to trust, with my whole heart, body and soul. Yes, it is a much needed, emotional release indeed.
If we men, could find this place more easily in this life, the world would be a better place for us all.
And these lovely women, would not have to be so at battle with us. They deserve better.