Imagine your real life doctor discovering your medfet. Either via disclosure or abnormal observation

Of course if you get an erection during a physical, your doc may try to reassure you that it's normal, especially if it's a woman doc But what if you responded to the physical in a way that revealed you were turned on to a greater extent with a doctor of either gender, moreso than their typical patients? Or what if you were open with your doctor about your fetish for whatever reason you chose to be?

On the flip side, what if you're a patient of either gender, and you just happen to observe your doc developed an erection & is thus turned on by what he's doing to you?

Or perhaps you have had an actual experience where one discovered the other was turned on.....

I think the most likely result would be safety counselling.

I don't think it would really bother me if one of my doctors somehow discovered that I was into medfet. But at the same time, it's not something that I would volunteer to them, since I don't really think it's any of their business. That brings up the question: If I don't volunteer that information, how would they discover my medfet leanings? That, to me, is a more interesting question. Are there certain hints or clues that a doctor might observe in a patient to lead them to believe that they have an interest in medfet?

An erection and moaning during ascultation, palpation or vital signs?

"Oh, baby, a Littman Cardiology III, why did you choose black? I would have gotten the purple one. Oh, a B-D instant read thermometer! Do you have a goniometer? How about an orchidometer?"

. Are there certain hints or clues that a doctor might observe in a patient to lead them to believe that they have an interest in medfet?

I can only think of very overt and open clues, like repeatedly coming to consults for no obvious medical reason. And then complaining about things that would require a doctor to exam intimate regions or complete undressing. Otherwise I can't really think of anything that would give your inner predilections away.

But if you repeatedly come to a doctor for no obvious medical reason, he might just as well conclude you're a hypochondriac or suffering from a sort of Munchausen's syndrome of exaggerating symptoms as a way of seeking attention. I think you'd really have to be quite overt about your longings and desires for anyone to pick up on them. Not unless the doc had leanings such as yourself.

An erection and moaning during ascultation, palpation or vital signs?

"Oh, baby, a Littman Cardiology III, why did you choose black? I would have gotten the purple one. Oh, a B-D instant read thermometer! Do you have a goniometer? How about an orchidometer?"

LOL

My RL doctor? No, I just cannot picture this at all. Our relationship is strictly professional.

My RL doctor? No, I just cannot picture this at all. Our relationship is strictly professional.

But what about discovery during a medically necessary interview? When I had an elevated PSA, it was due to both a large quantity of DRE exams by students and anal play. I discussed all of this with my urologist.

I guess it would be nice, if she also is kinky or exploring her kinky side - lol. Even if she is kink aware and sympathetic, I guess our communication will be taken to the next level and trust will be even more deeper.

Along similar lines, I would want the woman doctor to feel flattered by my erection, but at the same time, considering me a perfect gentleman that wasn't trying to make anything happen with her. I would expect that she would want to remain professional, but nice to know she knew the ball was in her court if she wanted to pursue anything.

The closest i came to giving myself away was one of the first times the doctor felt my balls for lumps after the hernia check while lying on my back. The previous several years he examined me during the annual physical, he would only check for hernia. As i lie there on my back, I would be staring up at the ceiling, anticipating that soon after feeling around my abdomen, he'd lift up my underwear, maybe pull down a bit & do the hernia check only. So during a physical in later years, seemingly spontaneously after the hernia check, he ran his fingers over my balls to check for lumps. Staring at the ceiling & this never being done to me before, I didn't see it coming, I may as well have been wearing a blindfold. So when i felt this, it took me by surprise & felt good at the same time.

I don't remember if it was this first year or the next, when i may have been in some anticipation of this new thing, he briefly gently squeezed my balls. It happened too fast for me to get an erection, & I'm not attracted to men anyway. But the pleasurable effect caused me to be slow to sit up, to the point where he went to put his hand on my back to guide me up. Being about 30 at the time, that made me sit up quickly because I didn't want anyone helping me up at the time.

I would end up getting a big counselling .....

~Cookie

My uncle is my physician. And if he ever gets to know I am going to have a big problem at home.....

At some point I feared I had said too much to my physician.

We were discussing bowel issues and I ended up mentioning that my wife had had to give me an enema due to constipation. Now, the point is, instead of saying "I had to take an enema to relieve myself", I said "my wife had to give".

The physician did not bat an eye.

But, hey, she's the one who, when encouraging my wife to self-exam her breasts, pointed out that I, the husband, could perform the examination as well. So she may be in fact quite in favor of partners dealing with each other medically.

But, hey, she's the one who, when encouraging my wife to self-exam her breasts, pointed out that I, the husband, could perform the examination as well. So she may be in fact quite in favor of partners dealing with each other medically.

Pecan nutjob

It is advocated that the significant other in a relationship checks the breasts of each other. It is also advocated in regards to self testicular exams. Nothing out of the normal.

Andie

I think I would welcome this!

Not to change the subject, but to stay on the lines of what does your doctor already know about you, and you don't know they know, until..

I had been in to see my primary doc, about 3 weeks later I called to get a follow up appointment with her. The staff member on the phone told me, no easy, she was out on maternity leave. Funny, she did not look pregnant three weeks ago. I started to think, maybe she is a lesbian and her partner was the one who carried the baby??? Anyway, it was about two years later, when I was in with the good doc, when she blurted out "my husband and I took the kids..." she stressed the husband part a little too much in my opinion. Maybe she knew I thought she was a lesbian and she wanted to correct me?