Can men tell (with their penis) when a woman is constipated during vaginal sex?

I've always wondered if men can tell when a woman is constipated during vaginal sex. Can you? When I put my fingers in a woman's vagina I can tell, so I imagine they can, but I searched on here and it's never been asked. Of course one's fingers may be more sensitive to such a thing.

Sunny, I can't speak for all or even most men. I never could tell, but then that wasn't on my mind, and I was focused on other parts. My wife went through a few years where she was constipated a lot. I knew that yet never noticed anything during sex. She has absolutely no anal interest, so I didn't go exploring where I wasn't wanted.

Sunny, I agree with your theory that this is something a person will notice with their fingers, but perhaps not with their penis. As sensitive as an aroused penis can be, I do not think it picks up on the same specific details of a woman's body as the fingertips can perceive. Of course I am speaking from my personal experience here. But with my fingertips, for example, I can feel exactly what is going on inside a woman and exactly where her g-spot is at any given moment, or where her g-spot appears once she is aroused enough. (Hopefully I am not already feeling around inside her before she is turned on.)

This may even suggest that the fingertips provide a higher level of intimacy with a woman, if one defines intimacy only by how much one can feel going on inside her. Of course we all know there is more to intimacy than which body parts are involved, including the fact that the penis will undoubtedly still be able to intensely feel it whenever a woman has a fairly strong orgasm.

We primarily rely on our fingertips for our sense of touch, and I think evolution has fine-tuned the sensations of our fingertips to be able to collect far more specific information than our penises.

Sunny76: I don't think I've ever felt fecal matter when having vaginal intercourse, but it may be due to the fact that my wife generally has a bathroom break not long before sex (intercourse over a nonempty bladder is unpleasant and probably also with a full rectum). If she had such a blockage in the rectum that I could feel it then she would probably ask for an enema.

I know other women have wondered this. Thanks for the answers, gents.

HC's point about the sensitivity of fingertips is valid. The blind use fingertips to read braille.

Also doctors use their fingertips to examine all sorts of things around and in the body.

I remember once (long ago and before embracing enemas) I was trying to initiate anal sex with my wife and she stopped me and admitted she was constipated. When I penetrated her pussy, I could distinctly feel a firm mass against the underside of my cock. Admittedly, had I not known of her constipation I may not have made the association. After that initial experience, there were other times when I could tell when she was constipated.

I always suggested that a good cock stirring with sperm suppository would clean her out, but she always declined.

Doug, wouldn't you be concerned that feces would get in your cock (uti)? Or would you wear a condom? Wouldn't it hurt your dick to bang into the constipation?

I've always found that when you go down on a woman and massage her ass a tad with your finger, getting her turned on anally, it's more likely that she'll let you fuck her in the ass later.

Doug, wouldn't you be concerned that feces would get in your cock (uti)? Or would you wear a condom? Wouldn't it hurt your dick to bang into the constipation?

@Sunny76 - a hard cock knows very few concerns 😃

I have wondered about this before as well. But then that question passed because I don't have sex with men anymore. But it is an interesting question. I mean I am like Sunny76 when fingering another woman's vagina I can tell if something is in there. That tells me to stay away from that unless she is into enemas.

Now that I have a decent collection of enema gear and some experience - I can't wait until I catch my wife with some constipation 😉

ImDoug: Anal sex with hard stools in the rectum sounds like a good way to injure the rectum.

Sunny76: Out of curiosity, isn't it unpleasant for you to have vaginal sex with a bloated stomach or a urge to poop? (My wife hates having bathroom urges during sex.)

ImDoug: Anal sex with hard stools in the rectum sounds like a good way to injure the rectum.

You are taking my posts much too literally. My comments were purely meant as naughty humor. 😃

That may feel interesting, I have never felt or noticed anything through the vaginal wall. Other than my other finger, if I put one up her bottom and one or two in her vagina and rub them together. I will be paying more attention from now on. How does it feel to have sex constipated or needing to go?

Pecan and 1ofmany, I myself do not like being penetrated in the ways one would normally imagine. And I haven't had sex with a guy since I was a kid, like when I was under 20. I can't imagine it would feel good to be penetrated vaginally if you were constipated. But, maybe some folks do like it.

I recall one time I had a lover who liked being vaginally fisted. Before I do that I always put my fingers in there(her vag) first. I could tell she had to go and I asked about it and it was like she hadn't thought about it, but she said yes, she had gotten constipated bc she'd been travelling.

That might have been the first time I mentioned enemas to her. She didn't know what they were! I said I didn't want to fist her if she was constipated and at first her feelings got hurt bc she *mistakenly* thought it grossed me out. I told her she was wrong, that it didn't gross me out, that I didn't care, but that there wouldn't be enough room and it wouldn't feel very good probably. She was small and had never had sex with a dude.

I didn't fist her that night and once I answered all her questions about getting an enema she was down with it and started requesting them often. We don't sleep together anymore, but she still mentions them occasionally, in a wistful, missing them sort of way. She'd say something like "I'm not empty enough for you to fist me. Maybe you should give me an enema first."

I knew another woman who really liked having sex when she had a full bladder. Something about having to pee made her orgasms more intense she said.

I just thought of another variable to this topic. I have seen it mentioned in several comments elsewhere that a man feels a difference when having sex with a woman at the same time as she wears a butt plug. Yet a butt plug, when in use, is located just inside the anal opening and more adjacent to the vagina. The vagina only goes so deep, often only 5 inches or so. Whereas whatever debris may be in the body as a result of constipation, is probably often deeper than the vagina reaches. So we may conclude that even if you do not feel anything extra through the vaginal wall, there could still be a chance that the woman is constipated farther up. Perhaps this is why many people report that they enjoy sex more on days when they have had an enema. The more cleared out they are, the more they can enjoy stimulation inside their bodies.

I just thought of another variable to this topic. I have seen it mentioned in several comments elsewhere that a man feels a difference when having sex with a woman at the same time as she wears a butt plug. Yet a butt plug, when in use, is located just inside the anal opening and more adjacent to the vagina. . . .

I have posted on that using a balloon catheter in my rectum while having vaginal sex. A large balloon pumped up tight does put good anteriorly directed pressure against the penis and puts more pressure against the G-spot region.

Susie, do you mean like a B@rdex? Or something bigger, like a sex-toy balloon type? Does your husband like it too or are you mostly the beneficiary?

^^^^ Yes, but you have to use the generic "balloon nozzle" for legal reasons.

He also like the feel with it inserted in me. It's good for both of us when we are in the mood for it.