A not so pleasant masturbation

We have a rule in our couple that we should not masturbate to orgasm without the partner's approval (unless away); that is, if we want an orgasm the first step is to ask the partner.

Some day I had behaved in a somewhat irritating way to my wife, then had asked for some sexual "relief".

My wife asked me to go to the toilet to be ready for action. I thought hey probably vaginal sex (we go to the loo before vaginal sex in order to avoid an urge to pee due to pressures on the bladder).

When I came back she had me lay on my back close to the edge of the bed with a sleeping mask over the eyes (you know the kind you use on jetliners). I thought hey a blowjob!

She got me hard then covered me with a condom (we had some at home in case of forgotten pills). Then she masturbated me some more. Then I heard some noises then felt her finger, other hand, greasing my backdoor. Then the order to "push as if going potty". The well-vaselined finger slipped in.

She then masturbated me in earnest, in a rhythmic fashion, while probing me internally. It was not sensual, the goal was obviously to stimulate me quickly.

I ejaculated in the condom.

"Relieved?"

Pecan, you didn't enjoy it? Or it was too pedestrian? Why was it not so pleasant?

Sunny76: Physically speaking I reached an orgasm. However the impression was that I somehow had had my balls emptied "clinically". There was none of the exhilarating feeling of good intercourse, for instance.

Sounds hot to me. And yes, very clinical. Very VERY clinical. Love how she made you wear a condom, most likely so you wouldn't 'make a mess' when you spilled your seed. The fingering was to ensure your prostate and surrounding glands produced as much semen as possible to relieve your 'condition.' Betting your woman has a serious medical fetish. Get her a nurse's outfit and an industrial size box of examination gloves, your fun has only just started...

Suds: The condom 1) avoids making a mess 2) makes lubrication easier (I think she put some lube in the condom and over it). Normally she would lubricate me by sucking but she certainly did not want to do that.

A rule to not masturbate when your partner is around is silly.

If you want to jerk off, you should go ahead.

A rule to not masturbate when your partner is around is silly.

If you want to jerk off, you should go ahead.

And involve them if so desired.

Maybe he wants to do it alone sometimes.

Switchablesusie: Well, we do have such an agreement not to "unload" ourselves selfishly. ;-)

Selfishness has nothing to do with it.

OR

Maybe it's selfishness on the other's part that you can't just do it on your own.

Do you have a rule not to read a book, watch television, go for a drive or use the bathroom if the other person isn't doing it with you? This is the same thing.

Susie, Just look at the name he chose. Enough said.

Switchablesusie, quincy; Who are you to judge other couples' "domestic discipline" arrangements?

(Would I sound even madder if I said that we also spank for real offenses?)