Ways to spot a person who might be into diaper fetish?

What are some good ways to spot people who might have an interest in this? Even people who don't know they have one?

There was a girl I went to school with years ago who was in to wetting and spanking, and you could tell by thing she dropped in to the conversation, but she didn't like the idea of diapers/nappies.

The old saying "dont judge a book by its cover" I have that happen to me on more then once.

I was dating a girl and before I told her about the diapers (which she liked) I asked what was the craziest thing you have done when it comes to sex or some thing along those lines. I was told that she had to masturbate in the girls locker room because she could not wait utill she got home. Talk about being surprized and this girl was 5 foot nothing and could fit in to Pampers size six easy and wore glass's. I would never have thought in a million years she would be a freak.

I saw a proposal on an internet community some time ago to the effect that one might display a diaper pin...different colors would indicate a specific interest such as: while for DL only, yellow, pink etc for various things.

However displaying a diaper pin sort of says it to the world 😮.

Well one easy way is to kinda hang out at a drug store for a little while and stay close to the incontinence isle and watch ive seen girl buy them all the time and some of these girls were young maybe early 20's late teens. and they didnt have a diaperd butt but they seemed quite nervous for some reason. if you are buying them for someone you wouldnt be nervous at all, and if they are for you and you need em you will be in em when buying so there is only one reason to e nervous because you are buying them for you lol. hahaha caught ya little one

I duno if i'm goin out on a limb on this one... but they might be wearin a diaper 😶 fo real tho, i iz all ways tryin to find lil ways here and there to hit about that fact i'm a DL weather it's a stupid joke, a pun, or some other kinda innuendos of sorts. :😃

That would be the easiest way is anytime you are in a drug store or any store that sells diapers if you always glance down the row you might adventually see some one.

I totaly agree with youi was at walmart buying diapers for myself and when i checked out the lady at the register said that i didnt look like i needed them and i told her i did and she said that she wished that she did and i gave her my number and about 7mounths latter we got married and we are changing eachother all the time and it is so cool

:😃 If someone talks about them or hints about them likly they are into them. I know a couple people that the conversation ends up with spanking or someone "accidentally" wetting. I got a good notion that they are into that kind of thing. 😁

I had a babysitter that I would have never thought that she liked diapers but when she found my diaper stach I found out that she would take one or ywo home with her after she left to wear them I told her that she didn't have to take them home that if she wanted to wear them she could wear them at my house SHe got a surprising look on her face I grinned Then pulled down her pant & exposed a disposable diaper

I have never seen any of these signs!

When I'm in the incontinence aisle it's usually just me and some old guy. No safety pins anywhere. Never spotted anyone who was obviously diapered. When did all the DLs in the world decide to move away from me?

Maybe I oughtta start wearing the safety pin, see what happens.

Call it lucky, but this is a true story.

Not to long ago I was buying condoms at the local Walmart and bumped into a girl in her early-to-mid 20s who looked like she could have been a stripper. She seemed a little doped up. We got to talking and she said she was on her way to a girlfriend's house to shoot a video. She said her girlfriend was into amateur porn and wanted to experiment with diapers. She then proceeded to pick out a package of Maximum absorbency Depends, which she said both her and her friend liked to wear and wet!

Anyway, she said she'd invite me over, but her boyfriend was going to be there. She did give me a number that works and when I called her we set a date this weekend to get together!

I'll be posting a the juicy details ASAP.

Although some people can appear suspect as ABDL I'm not convinced that they necessarily are. I think most ABDL's hide the fact they like diapers very very well, just reading a lot of posts on this forum goes to show the lengths we have all gone to at one stage or another to hide our fetish, the very fear of being found out makes most very careful even in general conversations when diapers at times do get brought up. I think to spot someone with a diaper fetish is extremely difficult.

However if I was looking... I would look for the person whose face goes red, or walks away, or trys changing the subject when diapers get mentioned in conversation, that would make me think there maybe a person with a diaper fetish and why they suddenly appear so uncomfortable!

Yea theres a really pretty girl in my english class who i think is one...shes real athletic too

[quote author=poonks link=topic=399.msg23288#msg23288 date=1213329312]

yea theres a really pretty girl in my english class who i think is one...shes real athletic too

[/quote]

Awww, dude. If there's one kind of girl I love, it's an athletic one. Athletic girls in diapers? I think I might overload.

Yeah, I want to find a girl into diapers. Kind of hard to find people like us, eh? Hmm... sorry, can;t help you there

- YoungDL44

Sorry to break this to you but I think most DLs are guys. Sad I know. I was in Brussels the other month and this random guy was obviously wearing a heavy diaper under his pants. Probably the only time I've seen that in public.

My GF was saying the other day that it'd be great to have a chamber pot so she didn't get cold when going to the bathroom. I was on the verge of saying 'how about diapers' but chickened out 😶

I also have to agree. Most of the time I find it better not to say anything about it unless you know the person very well and you can confide in them.

Well, i personally liked the idea of waiting around the incont. isle, but i think also the majority of DL's who buy diapers aren't gonna buy them in big places anyways, myself i will find a small place with hopefully none or minimal other shoppers, and in this situation you would get noticed just hanging around the isle.

No offense, but a big reason most women aren't open about this fetish is guys. All too often I see a girl/woman be brave enough to open up online about their love of diapers or being a baby, and they get pounced by guys like a pack of dogs on a 3 legged cat.

If thats the kind of welcoming they are going to get, then why should they be open about it. Most will just lurk around, never posting, never saying anything.

Personally the reaction that most guys have towards a female AB/DL disgusts me, and don't blame women one bit for hiding it. Stop thinking and acting with your diapered private parts and show some respect towards your fellow AB/DL's.

-Sky

That being said Skywolf, I think this site is by far the most respectful of it's female members, that I have come to. I would like to see it stay that way too!

I love you girls, and love to hear your thoughts and input. With all do respect to the guys, I do get tired of hearing just guys talk all the time. That's a big reason why I come here.

Well to finaly answer this as truthfull as possible !!!!! if they are wearing a diaper and dressedas in baby clothes then they are ab !! if they are wearing diapers and seem to be normal they are dl .

Maybe you should just bring it up in conversation and see how she reacts. If it seems like she says diaper wearing is stupid but she looks intrieged maybe you should ask or come clean about being a ab/dl

It's a nice idea to dream that others can read me, especially that i love diapers

About the only thing I can think of is waiting for (or steering towards) a conversation pertaining to fetishes with your love interest. When its your turn to say what you like, act like your going to tell then back out so that it builds curiosity, and that he/she has to ask or beg to find out. Say something like "I don't know if you can handle it" with a smile to keep the mood light. And no I don't know if this will actually work or if its even a good idea.

I had agirl that always told me she wished she could still be in diapers so after a lot of thought i gave her a package of depends 4 her birthday and she wanted no part of them i was so dissapointed

I think it's pretty much impossible to tell if a person's into diapers short of discovering them wearing diapers. As far as conversation, I'd expect them to react less to comments about diapers than others because they are trying to hide something.

I had a friend who would talk to me about all sorts of things. She would be talking about just random stuff, and mention she would have to go to the bathroom. Every once in a while she would just be like man I just need a diaper.

And thena t times when we were in a place with a disgusting bathroom she would be like yeah, I just need a diaper instead of going in that bathroom.

Just during normal conversation, if it comes up, thats when you find out.

After I told my wife about my diapers, before we got married, I talked her into trying them. She agreed that one time, but that was the last time she tried them. Was very exciting for me, but she just thought it was weird and uncomfortable.

I hope sarah is right and its not just all guys cause that would suck, the pin idea is basically the same gay ppl putting the rainbow on the back of there cars and we all know what the rainbow is. i would love to come up with some thing cause it would be great to meet real ppl out in the world

I dont know man i say we all put our heads together and come up with something more clever, maybe put the pin on your shoe? same idea but less noticable inless you know where to look