Anal hygiene

In many years of anal eroticism I rarely encountered partners who would dedicate the proper attention to the hygieme of their anal region. Perhaps I might be a little too anal about this (haha) but I am always quite concerned about this issue and I always make sure that I am cleaned properly back there before I engage in any anal play. For example either a bidet or a shower is mandatory after a bowel movement. How do you feel about this?

You are correct, not only because it is common courtesy to tidy up the house when a guest is expected, but also because cleanliness makes anal sex more enjoyable for the receiver. Apparently the presence of debris left over from a recent bowel movement can create friction and make anal sex uncomfortable to receive if it is not washed out at some point beforehand.

Always nice to have a clean n tidy "playground"....When ya wanna park we hope it's safe in the dark.

Hi albi and all,

I concur. It's nice that if you are "expecting" it to happen and you want to be "nice for your guest," you get ready. Also if things happen and the encounter is "spontaneous," "Getting ready" can be a wonderful form of "Fore play!!" Break out the bag and both can enjoy the "prelude to the interlude!!"

'ya never know??,

hghwater

Highwater,

According to some comments I've seen on this forum, using an enema bag to clean out right before anal sex might be over-doing it and could result in more of a mess. The last thing you want anyone to do is stir things up like that right before you "get in that ass!" It's better for a person to have completed an enema series several hours earlier. Spur of the moment cleaning is more advisable in the form of a small amount of water, like 6 ounces, or even just taking a shower and using one's finger, assuming they have already had a bowel movement in the past few hours.

I would have to agree that cleanliness is important, there would be nothing more embarrassing than being unclean. I have suppositories inserted by another person, followed by an anal plug. The plug is not long, about three inches, so it doesn't go in very far, and always comes out clean.

I undress and use a bidet-toilter first, this has a hose that is inserted to flush the insides, after three times, the insides are perfectly clean.

The suppository goes in about three of four inches, the plug is left in for several hours, sometimes until I use the bidet-toilet the next time.

I wonder if there is waist-harness that can be used to hold it in place as I prefer a smaller plug, which could slip out?

So I think cleanliness is much better than being embarrassed.

Absolutely! Wash privates morning and night and always after toilet activity. I guess there are those who go for skankiness and elevated levels of B. O. in general - I'm not one of them. I hate to think of what is must have been like back in the days when people washed only their hands and faces regularly. Didn't they do oral sex?

Absolutely do some cleaning first. Just having a BM an hour or two before play will achieve much of the cleaning process. Then a quick flush using an enema where you are using relatively small amounts of liquid (2-3 cups) to inject quickly and expel quickly maybe an hour or so before play can put the finishing touches on a clean rectum. Those of us who like to do all things anal know this is all part of the process and do it as a matter of course in their everyday life.

I have to agree with ProV1's statement below. I also find that even after a complete enema series, leaving about a half-hour "window" prior to anal play will usually get all the residual water into the rectum for a final evacuation. During this half hour period, you should be up and about so gravity aids in the final draining process.

I agree with all the other posters that a clean playground sets the stage for some fun times ahead.

I totally agree with you.

Definitely, a priority. I totally agree with pdqman.

Anal hygiene is very important to me and my man! I dont want a clean ass only when we are ass playing either...l want a clean bum when I am fucking him with my pussy! His hands and fingers are all over me and I want to be ready for him to do what he wants with my clean ass! His ass is always clean too...and very tasty...

My toilet has a small hose of bidet shower for use after bowel movements. I use three hours before anal play. Then I can have great anal sessions without any problems.

And of course I like women who are very neat anally.

I think cleanliness is much better than being embarrassed.

To me its only common sense - and then i have always said if common sense were common, more people would have it!! Being anally clean before play is just common sense to me. To be clean you need to enema at least once - more is better in this case. totally agree here.

Enema, wash, shave and usually put some kind of skin moisturizer back there wether I'm playing or not especially after shaving.

Taking a Fleet before I feel is good. It doesn't loosen up the upper stuff.

Very important to me, I love to rim and to know its clean and ready all adds to the pleasure !

Am in total agreement re hygiene and cleanliness. When playing solo, like to be very clean and empty prior to inserting anything in my rectum. With a partner is equally or more important. A light fresh fragrance is always good as well!

Greengodess posted. Anal hygiene is very important to me and my man! I dont want a clean ass only when we are ass playing either...

Very well said and I totally agree. Common sense goes a long way when it comes to being safe and clean during fun and play.

"For example either a bidet or a shower is mandatory after a bowel movement. How do you feel about this?"

Actually, I try to keep my enema routine such that I don't have bowel movements. I try to make sure I expel thru enemas; however, that is not always possible. I suspect I have only 1 or 2 normal bowel movements per month. That generally means after my last enema session I didn't have another enema session until the 4th day. My last enema session was Friday morning. My next will be Monday morning. I've not had a bm in the interim.

I’ve played with quite a few women’s bottoms in the very intimate sense. Maybe about 20. I’d say that almost all of them were extremely hygienic, that when I spread the cheeks open I saw a very clean anus. And yes I always took a good long look first. I can only think of a few occasions, maybe 3 or 4, where there was a bit of residue but that can be addressed without embarrassing the women or disrupting the evening’s “activity”. We’re all human after all.