Auscultation with partner

Although I have a major heart fetish, this is the first place I've actually been able to talk about it. I wish I could be more open about it to my partner. Although, it's interesting because we both seem to get really into pressing our hands onto each other's hearts when we are laying in bed, and it seems like we both get worked up over it. There have been times when I have orgasmed and he has placed his hand directly over my heart ... And like... I know what he's doing.. Or I will lay on his chest and listen to his heart speed up with excitement if I move my head around to listen at different places. I kinda wonder if we both don't have the same unspoken fetish... Which is making me lol as I type this out. I guess the thing is how do I come out and try to "explore" this more with him? I know it sounds like it's easy enough, but I have been in a relationship with him for a very long time and it just seems like at this point I've been "hiding it" from him.

I had an ex in the past who wasn't really into medical play and I guess I felt like I was a bit of a weirdo. So it's hard to just come out and say how deep this is.

Just be confident and try to introduce it slowly in to your sex life. Ask him if he will listen on your chest maybe. Then you can tell him that you like it. And that you'd like to listen to him. See how that goes.

I agree w/ Dr. Stethoscope-just bring the topic up gradually. If he really cares for you he won't think you're weird, it might increase his interest and bring him to tell you more about his medical fetishes. You'll most likely feel better for getting your interest out in the open.

I totally know where you are coming from. I've never told anyone about my stething interest through fear that they won't like it or think I'm strange. I've done similar things to you with ear stething and all but I don't feel like I can tell anyone

Same here - only people on various 'specialist interest' sites like this know.

Exactly. I feel like if the interest was on the table and he rejected it, I would be very embarrassed. We've been together for years and it wouldn't hurt anything. But this is really personal and if he wasn't into it, I'd rather have never brought it up.

I know just what you mean - in a strange way it feels like there's too much too lose in both directions. On the one hand, I would never want to upset or freak out my wonderful partner by introducing what has been such a secret special fetish to me for years...well, forever. And on the other hand, that special secret is very precious to me and I would hate to have it questioned, rejected, exposed....

And yet, it's maddening to know that just maybe there could be the most beautiful, blissful, middle ground...

I have a girlfriend who knows about my fetish. We play a lot together. We change roles. Sometimes i'm the doctor and sometimes she is.

Next time he feels your heartbeat, ask him. Bring it up when he's doing something related. Tell him you like it and see what he does. How does he act when he does these things? I have the exact same issue as you do. It's very frustrating to hold this all in.

I do it during love making with my wife. We play with each other.

I've never regretted bringing it up with a girlfriend, but there are plenty of girls I regret not bringing it up with.

Sometimes i listen to my partner's heart but i prefer to check her bp

Is having interest in the heart and heart sounds that weird in society? I always thought if doctors are doing it, so whats the problem with bringing that fetish into a more private environment?

My partner knows about it. But I'm still embarrassed to discuss it with her. This is a big problem, as I feel flawed

I have listened to my wife wish I could more often

I often have a steth around with a gf I'm intimate with. It's basically another sexual play toy!

Currently single, but I have examined my ex girlfriend a couple of times. She didn't like auscultation that much, unfortunately.