I told my girlfriend

I've lurked on this board for close to 2 years. For nearly all of that time I was a single guy with no worries of ever 'wanting' to tell anybody about this side of me. Then once I became seriously involved with my girlfriend that nagging voice that just repeats "tell her, tell her, she'll understand. She might even like it" kept creeping up. I was able to supress it for a little over 4 months, and could have longer if I wanted. The only thing keeping me from spilling the beans were the dozens of accounts I've read about people telling their significant other only to be rejected, and left. But tonight I overcame that fear. It was the second time in our relationship that I had a perfect oppurtunity to let it all out. The conversation had migrated to eachothers kinks, and although I hadnt planned out exactly how I was going to explain this, I started anyway. I told her how I liked being babied (something she instinctfully has done all along) and how I would like her to do it more often. And I stopped there. Then she simply said "and..." I thought it over and replied "I would love it if you treated me more like a toddler, bottle feeding me and such" She again replied "and..." I thought it over for a good while. Then decided this was the time. She says she loves me, here's a chance to prove it. I give her the background of my introduction to diapers, which goes back roughly five years. Once I finish (heart racing) I ask, "does this freak you out?" Then some of the sweetest words I've ever heard escaped her lips, "no, not at all. Its kind of interesting actually." We then went on to talk about some of the details of my desires, her potential role, the history, pretty much everything. I even described this site (which she cant wait to see) in fullest detail. And while she hasnt yet agreed to all of my desires she has promissed me 2 things.

1) this will in no way negativily affect what we already have.

2) she will do the best that she can to please me in this way.

So basicly I couldn't ask for more. I would have to say that I am a true believer in the 'if (s)he really loves you, (s)he'll understand philosiphy. And would encourage anyone else who is in the same situation and debating telling all to go ahead and do so.

Thats all for now.

Theodor

Nice one ,. im going to tell mine tonight ...

ill let it bo knowen , what she says ,and or dose

I ve only told one girl she seemed eager to try it but after the first time it always seemed more like a bother for her to have to act it all out. we are broke up now, I do encourage telling someone though because it makes things so much better not having to keep a secret and also being able to enjoy the fetish

:-\I told my g/f after dating about 6 months,she was 16 and i was 17, she thought it was different and made up something kinky that she liked, to calm me down i think, the first night she diapered me was great, we have had lots of ups and downs,she is jealous of the diapers because she said they are my first love,and it is true, i started wearing them when i was 5,because my sister and brother were diaperd at night and got all kinds of loveing attention,and i was jealous of that,by the time i was 7 i had my 1st orgasim in them, and was hooked. My wife once diapered me for 6 nights out of 7, but sometimes won't here of it for 2 years at a time. Now is one of those times. She uses the diapers against me a lot of times. I know i married her because she was the only person i told that didnt laugh at me,we dated for 6 years and i wore diapers to shows, going out to eat,ect ect ect. One time we went parking,it was a full moon she diapered me put on my plastic pants and i ran around outside and played like a baby in the dirt,that was the first time outside with just diapers on. We dated for six years and have been married for 34 years, just dont marry because of the diapers only, because that accceptance can change. Wish i was that young to do it all again. Have fun, keep them diapers close,,,,baby barry

It was on our year anniversary that my girl friend finally wanted to know what my secret was. I was going to tell her earlier on when I knew I could trust her. Well she said that she knew it was important to me and that she wanted me to wait till we knew we were really serious. Well we were talking in her car and she said "baby I really want to know what your sexual secret was. I explained that it was going to be wierd and she just smiled. It took her a couple days to take it all in before she started to get alot more intereted in it. And now she wants to try it.

Congrats to all that have told. Even better to those who their girlfriend has gotten into it. We all have some keepers

If she didnt run away shes a keeper

I want a keeper

Ok, so Theodor told his girlfriend on Jan 9.

Yes, he was only a visitor, but neither has he been back on to report on what's happened since in his relationship. Its too bad more people don't follow through on reports - wouldn't you love to hear how things are going between the two of them?

Those of you who have told your gf/bf successfully on a long term basis must have lots of other positive things going on in the relationship - for THAT, congratulations! You are very, very lucky...1) for the relationship and 2) for acceptance of your diapers. Maybe a few of you can comment on how you've accomodated your partner in the relationship so it isn't a one-sided situation.

It seems there are many out there looking for a partner to take care of their every need...without necessarily wanting to have to care for their partner and his/her needs. Those who have been successful, how has this worked in terms of your diapers?

You know, diaperpt. I was just thinking the exact same thing. How so many of these threads start with one person confessing how they are about to tell their S/O or whatever. And then it gets derailed by all sorts of whatsits and we never really find out what happened.

I would love to see some follow ups in these threads and less thread-jacking. (I use the term very loosely because I know that no one does it maliciously here in this community)

My girlfriend told me it was just gross, and left me. >😢

😳 If you are just dating ask yourself if she really needs to know. I never told anyone I was dating that I was into diapers. At that point I wasn't into them daly like I am now. If she is the right one for you it won't matter to her at all. It will take her a little to get used to the idea but you are still you in diapers or out. Just remember you have to be careful with some people. Don't tell them something you would rather not have everyone knowing. One time I was dating this girl and she was a lot more experienced with sex than I was. Well she literally tore my pants off to have sex with me. When she discovered I wasn't very well endowed she got a great laugh out of that. We didn't last long after that. She made some excuse but pretty much just dumped me. I found out she was spreading the word that I was too small to be able to satisfy a real woman so the dating scean got pretty slim for me for quite a while. 😮 Then I found someone that didn't care about size as much. I married her. 😁

Ok I am assuming some of you have Boyfriends or Girlfriends and they know about you wearing diapers. I don't need them I just like them. I am wondering how you told your partner and I am even more curious of what their reaction was? I have read some of the replies on this subject but I haven't seen to many that went into what the person's reaction was. I am also wondering how you break it to someone slowly?

Mick

When i first dated my gf i started talking to her about fetishes and which one did she tried and i reply back. that night i told her about that i wore diapers once for an old gf and she laugh and continue to ask questions about it thoughout the night.

Well on my birthday she invited me to her place and that night she surprised me by bringing out kinds of sex toys. she told me to check under that bed and that when i found a pack of diapers and she told me that she was so intrigued and diaper fetish that she wanted me to wear them for her.

I'm still married to her 6 yrs later!

I told my girlfriend and she told me that it was fine, then as time went on she asked me to stop wearing them and all of it, I tried, we got married, married for like 5 to 6 six months and told her that diapers was apart of me, I can't change what turns me on. She said it was hard to sleep with a grown man after seeing him in diapers. She left me. all I got to say is, yes girls may accept them, yes it can change, yes diapers will always be a little higher than your wife, yes ill choose diaper over anyone, just because I couldn't stop liking diapers when I want to it doesn't work that way. If you marry someone that don't understand the fact that diapers will always trump her, or match her, and accept that, it will NEVER work. or itll be a hassell

I havn't told my gf but i found a great way for us to both be wearing diapers when we're together. basically i told her that when we have our legs intertwined, after a while, i cum, and that's embarresing to have on ur pant leg and gets uncomfortable. so we were thinking of alternate solutions and a condom wouldn't work bc the oil would leave residue on the pants. so she mentioned female pads while just thinking out lound and was wondering if guys had anything that that for what i was talking about and i was like no. and anyway, diapers came up bc they're alot like the pads, just bigger and more like underware. and i asked her to try one too so that i wasn't alone (*wink wink*) and so that she'd kno what they felt like and we' be able to just talk about it if i was too embarresed by them (*wink wink* again) and afterward i told her i was alot more comfortable with her wearing one too so that i didn't feel alone and now when we're together we wear diapers

I told my girlfriend after about three months of dating and she was supportive yet hesitant to try it but agreed. now we've been together almost 10 months and we're closer than any couple i've everheard of. now she even craves being my mommy. it's fantastic! her favorite thing is to put me in diapers and have me suck on her nipples! how lucky can a guy get! 😁

My gf she dont like it i told her and she said that weird but then said that she didnt mind me wearing but she wasnt getting involved

Still havent told mine...idk if i should though im 16 and she just turned 15 shes a freshman so i doubt she would diaper me let alone do anything sexual but idk

Ladys are alot more open minded than us men, its just that alot of men are to afraid to share vurnerable feelings and such. Take a risk, it might pay off, sissys 😉

About five years ago I told my girlfriend that I liked diapers and that I wanted her to baby me (she did somewhat instinctually already too--I think all women do). At first she was very supportive, even babying me (though she never diapered me, she breastfed me and powdered my butt once). After awhile though she said she couldn't take it. She said she thought she could but was wrong and so we didn't talk about it anymore, but whenever we had a fight, she brought it up and threw it in my face, like 'what kind of man likes diapers?' You have to be careful about who you tell b/c women love to use things like that against you.

I want to tell my girlfriend sooo bad! but i just am soo nervous!!! anyone have any suggestions on how i could tell her?!....

Congrats!! My ex-wife knew but choose to ignore it.

I hope that works out for you. Definitely get her to change you! 😁

Peace

- YoungDL44

My bf is a bedwetter he has allways wet at night I started to wet at night and now i love it it is a lot of fun and a great way to start a day in a wet diaper

I've lived with my GF for 4 years now (been going out 5) but still havn't told her. I guess I find it difficult to tell her because of how long we've been going out. Only way I can think of getting her involved is to become a BW and introduce it that way - but I would feel like i was lying still. I could come out with it - what do you guys think?

I'm no expert, but I would start slow. Ask her if she ever heard of it before. Go from there, test the waters. If she heard of it, you cut down on some explaining. Ask her what she thinks about it, maybe she'll be hip to it right then and there? If she don't know about it, you might show her some literature from the internet, positive stuff of course. Just keep it moving in an educational type fashion. Hope some of that might be of some help, good luck!

I told a girl I was with a while ago. She didnt freak out, but she was a little wierded. She never got involved, but she never judged me.

Aww, congrats. have fun!! and you're going to feel amazing!

I would be so interested in knowing how people would react if i ll tell them that i like wearing diapers.

maybe i would find some that like this fetish too

that would be great