WOMEN who like vaginal and anal penetration: Question

I don't like being vaginally penetrated. To me, it feels nothing like being anally penetrated, which I like a lot.

However, I'm pretty sure I'm wired differently than most women, on a nerve level or nervous-system level.

What I want to know from women who like both anal and vaginal penetration: Do they both feel the same or give the same level of pleasure? Or does one feel better than the other?

To me, vag penetration is like getting water in my ear. Zero pleasure, sort of uncomfortable, but not horrible, not painful. Just something I wouldn't choose.

Being properly fucked in the ass appeals to me very much. I've secretly never understood why women like vag pentration. Then it occurred to me that maybe vag penetration for most women feels the way ass penetration feels to me.

Do they feel the same as far as pleasure goes?

I'm male and can't properly respond to this but don't you still need clitoral stimulation to climax? I know vag penetration doesn't quite do that either but I have to imagine it helps.

I like vaginal intercourse over anal, although anal is fun. During foreplay I reach a point where I need to be penetrated vaginally. It might take a while or it can happen very fast, but I always reach a point where I want to be entered. Anal feels good, but I don't climax with just anal, I usually play with my clit to cum. Also with vaginal sex I feel like I'm participating a lot more. With anal it's like it's being done to me, which fulfills my submissive side, so it's really two different experiences.

My ex loved anal over vaginal, she always said she hated her vagina. Way to much maintenance and zero fun. She confessed to being fingered regularly at school. She humored the boys, butt never really enjoyed it until she met this kid who was an exchange student and didn't like fingering her vagina but her anus. She loved it, and she use to make him walk her home so he could finger her anus. They finally had anal sex and she was hooked forever.

This is a very good question. I would say anal makes me feel naughty free liberated and very submissive. I have often screamed and really let go when I am being taken anally. The sensation is much different mentally as well as physicaly to me. I feel loved secure and very womanly when I have straight vaginal sex which I enjoy and makes me really love the partner Im with. I guess to sum it up anal sex for me makes me feel like a whore., VAGINAL SEX MAKES ME FEEL LOVED.

As for me I love being penetrated in both holes they both feel good but I feel more during anal sex but I also feel a lot with just regular sex too

Emma, ginnie and VStar, is the sensation the same? I get that you may like one more than the other for how it makes you feel mentally.

But, do the nerve sensations feel the same? For example, if someone put a finger in your vagina for 2 minutes, then put the same finger in your ass for 2 minutes and moved the finger in exactly the same way, would it feel the same?

If I put a finger in my left ear and wiggle it, it feels virtually the same as it does in my right ear. If I put the same finger in my mouth and wiggle it exactly the same amount, it feels much more intense in my mouth, obviously because the mouth has more and different types of nerves.

Is your vagina more sensitive than your ass, are they the same or is your ass more sensitive? Or is this a flawed question because its apples and oranges?

I guess what I'm trying to figure out is if generally speaking, the anus is more sensitive than the vagina. I always sort of thought the ass was more sensitive on everyone, but yet no woman I've been with can come from anal alone. They need vaginal stimulation, but maybe that's actually less bc of the vagina's wiring and more about it's proximity to the clit.

Where's a Switchable Susie when you need one?

I don't have a vagina, but I have always heard that there are more nerves in the vagina. Men supposeldy like being anally penetrated to a great extent because their prostate is being stimulated. Only the anal opening I believe has nerves as opposed to the whole length of the vagina. Sunny you do seem to be wired differently than most women.

@Bostonseeker Yes. In more ways than one. 😃

Sunny said

. . . .I guess what I'm trying to figure out is if generally speaking, the anus is more sensitive than the vagina. I always sort of thought the ass was more sensitive on everyone, but yet no woman I've been with can come from anal alone. They need vaginal stimulation, but maybe that's actually less bc of the vagina's wiring and more about it's proximity to the clit.

Where's a Switchable Susie when you need one?

I have to say anal and vaginal penetration both feel good, I mean terrific, but they are clearly different, and for me, I need my vaginal/clitoral area stimulated to have an orgasm. Anal alone won't do it for me, but that's not a problem because my husband or myself can easily take care of the vaginal area when I'm penetrated anally.

In the same manner that a succulent three pound Maine Lobster and a Rack of Lamb both taste different, they are both delicious. (I'm a professional lobster eater, nothing left but a carapace and empty claws and I can strip a rack of lamb cleaner than a tank full of flesh eating beetles. I suppose you would have guessed I'm anal, I mean compulsive. 😁 😁 )

I also agree with the statement by Emma, that with vaginal sex I feel like my husband and I are on equal footing having sex. With anal it is definitely more like it's being done to me, but there are also times where I simply demand to be fucked in the ass.

According to WOMEN I have talked to, read about, and in one case had both vaginal and anal sex with, the determining factor here is g-spot stimulation. Many women get more g-spot pleasure from anal sex than from vaginal. However, it is also common for a woman's g-spot to receive more pleasure from vaginal sex than from anal. It really all depends on a woman's anatomy, and not every woman has exactly the same anatomy in terms of where her g-spot appears when she gets turned on. Of course a woman must be completely aroused for her g-spot to awaken and bring her the sensations that lead to orgasms, sort of like how a man has to be aroused in order to get an erection and feel pleasure in his penis.

Many people are beginning to discover that the g-spot is merely the erectile tissue of the internal part of the clitoris, which actually occupies a significant area inside the pelvic region and parts of it extend all the way back to the anus. Here is something I have mentioned in another thread:

The anal stimulation you experience during arousal and especially orgasm is therefore probably also internal clitoral stimulation. It is very important to excite the inner portion of the clitoris (through massaging the outer labia, vaginal penetration, and anal penetration), as well as the "glans" on the outside which is only the very tip of it even though most people think the glans is the entire clit.

Further reading on internal clit:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=66656

http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/

Everyone is different. I love vaginal penetration. I also love a vibe or plug anally at the same time. Awesome orgasms with the vibes or rocking with the plug. But never just a plug or vibe in my ass without stimulation up front. I love my ass played with like with thermometers nothing big. It all depends on the woman.

Anal vs vag...

When I was a young woman, I probably liked both equally.

After being tremendously aroused, heavy FOREPLAY is a MUST, ( clitorus and vagina, oral and inserts) Getting "pounded" was great. An old boyfriend told me, 'the first time (intercourse) was for the man, the second time for the woman, the third time for both.' Of course that was after an oral sex orgasm for me. (Yes I am demanding. )? Key is Foreplay!!!

Anal sex is also phenomenal, but again, if you rub my butt, maybe a few lite slaps on my bum, play with my asshole, anal stimulation.

depends on where you start playing....I will want anal.

But wanting anal vs vag, it is sometimes like, do I want to wear my sneakers, jeans and tank top feel sexy and comfy? Or don my stilettos, shelf bra and feel super sexy.

It is all about the mood I am in, and where you focus your attention

The first time my husband f**ked me in the ass with a dildo and I came, I thought he was going to cum as well. It was glorious. He was shocked. Just dildo, not clitoral stimulation.

So @sunny76, feels different, but, both equally as good like, the lobster and a filet. At least vag used to feel as good 15 years ago. Now truth be told, I could nit care less about vaginal intercourse and bet I am not the only? female that feels that way.

Awesome replies. Thank you all for this input.

Turkey1 - do you mean you do not care about any penetration now or do you mean you do not care about vaginal now? If you mean you don't care for either, is that bc you have a lower libido than you used to?

As the fucker of women's asses and their c*nts, I can say it honestly feels different to me when she gives me one versus the other. Having a woman allow me to f*ck her in the ass feels way more intimate, and it feels way more powerful and dominating to me.

As several of you have said, f*cking her vag feels more equal and there isn't so much of a power-exchange feeling, or a submission on her part as when it's in the ass. Though I love the consensual power-exchange dom/sub top/bottom thing completely, occasionally it offends my sensibilities that this love of the consensual power-exchange reaches it's zenith by taking a woman in the ass, as can not be matched in any other way. I suppose if I f*cked a guy in the ass, I'd feel the same way.

*I use the term c*nt here because that is generally the term I use with my friends and it's used not in a derogatory sense, but in a conscious, re-framed/empowering way.

Unfortunately Sunny almost no women want to f*ck a guy in the ass. If you were willing to do that, you could possibly have men lining up to receive. Many men long to receive a strap-on from a woman; almost all have to settle for fantasy.

@Bostonseeker I didn't know that. Somewhere I have a link for a great pegging video. It's only a few minutes long, but it was edited and to me, it's all awesome, no boring filler. I'll try and find it and post it.

It's interesting to me how a bunch of people have commented here that anal sex puts the woman in a more passive role than when she has vaginal sex. That used to be my belief as well. Until the first time I actually had anal sex, at which point I realized that in some ways the woman is in a more active role when she receives anal sex than I had thought. After all, the grip of her ass is doing more to the penis than the vagina can typically do for the penis, in terms of sensations. There is even a beautiful, constant sense of suction into her body. This is a sensation that I had always dreamed sex would provide, yet in my experience I have only felt it during anal sex. Since, as a result, my penis felt more responsive to anal sex than it had to vaginal sex, I had a sense that the woman's body responded more to anal sex than to vaginal as well. So in that way, experience has caused me to feel like both the woman and the man are doing more and feeling more when they have anal sex, than when they have vaginal sex. I therefore have the sense that the man and the woman are still on "equal footing" during anal sex, except it is more intense and intimate for both of them.

If you had told me this before I had ever had anal sex, I would not have believed you. I used to think that the only way to go "all the way" was penis in vagina, because it revolves around the genitals of both the male and the female. Since anal sex seems to only involve the genitals of the male, it may appear to be an activity that revolves more around the male. If anything, I expected anal sex to be less intimate than vaginal, until I actually tried it. Now I know better. The female can get just as much out of receiving anal sex as the male can on the other side of the equation. Especially if anal sex happens to turn her on more and/or stimulate her g-spot more than vaginal can. Real sex is just whatever floats your boat.

Beyond the physical aspects of the experience, a woman needs to trust a man even more before she has anal sex with him, than when they have vaginal sex. She has to trust him not to get impatient or to pound away unless/until she is ready. The man also needs to let the woman guide him to her preferred intensity level in terms of thrusting, which can be more specific during anal sex than during vaginal. During vaginal sex, it can be more common for a man to go about it like he is having his way with the woman, and hopefully this happens only when the woman wants it that way as well. Anal sex, however, calls for the woman to coach the man through it a bit more, and for the man to obey her instructions. From anal sex, I get the sense that the woman has granted me a certain privilege and that I need to do exactly what she says if I want to continue. When you consider these facts, anal sex can be just as empowering for the woman as for the man.

For women who enjoy anal intercourse. Would you prefer you SO to orally bring you to climax before or after the penetration, or both?

Emma J nailed it for me. I cum a lot during foreplay and at some point I just need a cock in my pussy. It just comes on and it's like 'for God's sake just fuck me now and fuck me hard'. Anal is different. Amazing but different. Like others have said it's done TO me (which i like)

No vaginal and anal sex do not feel the same to me. I like both of them but they feel different to me. I enjoy anal sex and I like my husband to do it when I am in the doggy position, I think it is about every one or two weeks as an average, when I get in the mood for it when we go to bed. I do not think I prefer how it feels but I do enjoy it. I love love love vaginal sex though and I have a lot of my orgasms caused by getting my G spot stimulated, not just by having my external clitoris stimulated.

For me, I know with anal that it is going to be a wild ride, vagina intercourse is hit or miss.

When we have anal, yes it really gets me worked up, thought I have never had an orgasm. He will do me, then sit me on the side of the bed, lay me back, get down on his knees and let that magic tongue do it's work. And yes you will hear me squall because he can and does bring me to multiple orgasms.

If he does enough foreplay, he can and manages to push all the right buttons, an orgasm is possible with vaginal. Anal is for when we have plenty of time for each other, but like most busy people, the quicky seems to be the sex of choice.

I used to enjoy anal sex more often. The feeling of being full when getting fucked anally was pleasurable. My sub enjoyed the really tight "pussy". But that enjoyment has faded.

I've gotten more orgasms with vaginal sex so tend to stick with my sub "using" it. I don't want to pass up a chance at an orgasm.

They are totally different experiences. While I enjoy both neither makes me orgasm. For that I need direct clitoral stimulation either by mouth, hand, or toy.

I prefer anal penetration for several reasons. First, he has a tiny penis so I can feel him better in my rear. Second there are absolutely no worries about getting pregnant. Plus he massages my front while doing my rear, and sometimes gives me a pee enema.

But I really prefer oral as the best.

I have been Anal Only for about 4 years, but preferring anal goes back to my teens. I had anal sex long before vaginal.

To me, a guy in my pussy is bothersome, and a waste of time. Anally, I'm guaranteed to come.

I enjoy both vaginal and anal intercourse and I have strong orgasms with both. I prefer vaginal sex because I am always ready and I don't need any preparation. Most of the time my husband is the one who initiates anal sex. If he wants anal, he just tells me to prep myself for the next evening and I do that. My routine is to drink only clear broth. The next morning I take a couple of enemas and then another bag or two 3 or 4 hours before our date. I am a clean freak and I don't like a mess. Lately, I go get a colonic irrigation in the late afternoon because it cleans me out better than the enema. The therapist asked me one time why I was already rather clean before the appointment. I told her that it was for sex prep just to see her reaction. To my surprise, she said that several of her clients that wanted late appointments did so to prepare for anal sex to avoid the bother of doing it at home.

Dita

@Dita if we had to go through all of that just to have anal sex we would never ever do it. She would be too tired after all the prep stuff and it would totally kill off any spontaneity. If we get a little dirty that's why we have a shower.

Everyone has their own tastes. Most women like cunnilingus for example, or masturbate by rubbing their clit, while some don't like oral sex or masturbate only through penetration. I daresay you're in a small minority of women if you prefer anal to vaginal every time, but whatever floats your boat. That said, a lot of women get put off anal by the idea of it, or some poor early experiences, when it's really a variation that most women could learn to enjoy as much as the men in their lives wants them to do it.

I really enjoy both vaginal as well as anal intercourse. For me it is usually via strap on and the like. For those rare boy on girl times I love being filled with man goo. Especially in my ass. Also the orgasm is more intense for me if my anus is filled while having vaginal sex.

But I don't mind a strong female mounting me from behind as well. In the grand scheme of things...it's all good