When I told my wife

I had quite a good experience when I told my wife. At the time, we weren't yet married, but living together and engaged. She had made plans for Halloween to go to a casino with her friends for a costume party, but her plans to dress as a witch didn't go so well. The makeup was all screwed up and the outfit looked cheap. She was upset, so I helped her make a new costume. I work part time as a photographer and do a lot of adult content. So, when I pulled out the adult cloth diaper and printed plastic pants she seemed to accept they were left over props.

After she was dolled up in baby gear, she was looking great. However, she wasn't too keen on the idea of going out dressed like that, even on Halloween. I told her over and over how hot she looked, trying to put her mind at ease, but after a bit of that she became suspicious of my motives. She moved her hand to my crotch and felt my hardon and asked if this was turning me on. Seeing the smile on her face, I just decided to be honest. I responded with "So what if it is?". She teased me about it for a minute before I finally just gave in and told her it did.

She ended up not going to the costume party and instead we laid in bed all night talking. We discussed my fetishes, which helped her to open up about her own. It was a very liberating experience which brought us much closer together. We have now been married for 6 years and we couldn't be happier. We spend nearly every weekend roleplaying out each others fetishes. During the week, we're a perfectly normal, happy couple.

Has anyone experienced a g/f going from "you want me to wear what" and "NO WAY" to "ok just this once" and now wears a nappy nearly every night. It happened to me recently and its now at the stage where she has become the major nappy wearer. She has changed from bikini briefs to classy full briefs so she can look sexy in a nappy, and she'll put one on as soon as she gets home but the strange thing is she doesn't like to wet them. The're for "security" she says. The only time she has wet them is when she is on the phone having a long chat to some-one or on one occassion while driving in the country. She claims she doesn't wet but just "twinkles". She loves the thin depends so she can wear them under shorts and skirts. I must say its fantastic watching her cook dinner while dressed in a t-shirt, nappy and lacy full briefs. I'm just going with it but i am suprised at the complete change of heart. It's wonderful.

Yeah, I don't see my wife ever getting into it. Of course, I don't even give her the benefit of the doubt by not telling her. All these stories have got me thinking about it though...

All I'll say is be very sure before you do because you can't take it back once you tell them.

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I would never tell. that means it remains a private dream for me.

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You bring up something I always battle with, within myself here. The dilemma is, you meet someone who is the one for you. You really believe they can be trusted with anything you tell them. You don't want to be keeping anything from this person on one hand, but what happens if you tell them your secret? What happens when you have that big blow-up disagreement and she in the heat of the argument fires that out! Your most intimate secret, that's only been shared by you to her. She may have feelings of being wronged, and to make up for this, your secret gets shared to all you know.

In the heat of arguments people don't always think the same as they would otherwise. It may be something she would never tell anyone, not wanting to betray your trust, but... in an argument, not thinking the same as normal, out it comes.

I know there's no easy answer to this. Should I tell someone or not? But I think about it allot, and it can be scary giving over the key to your inner most secret to some other person. The key to your pandora's box 😮

Luvs It.

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What happens when you have that big blow-up disagreement and she in the heat of the argument fires that out! Your most intimate secret, that's only been shared by you to her.[/quote]

That's usually a sign that there's deeper things wrong with a relationship. I know that you still keep secrets for your spouse. (little things) But, if you can't be truly honest with each other until there is a big blow-up. Then, maybe it really isn't meant to be.

My ex did try and use my interests in nappies against me, but other than telling a few of her friends it didn't get very far. Interestingly one of her friends said 'well if thats all he wants to keep him happy I'd get on with it'. Shame I didn't marry that woman instead!

I am very lucky that my wife understands. i told her a long time ago. she and i make up baby games, assignments, dares, and adventures. we do something that many would deem extreme about once a month. i always have something to look forward to. the anticipation is many times as good as the reality.

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i am very lucky that my wife understands. i told her a long time ago. she and i make up baby games, assignments, dares, and adventures. we do something that many would deem extreme about once a month. i always have something to look forward to. the anticipation is many times as good as the reality.

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Ahh the good life, you do have it lucky. And you're right, anticipation makes it so much better. Enjoy! Maybe some day I'll be able to say the same, hope.

Luvs It.

It started as a joke...she spilled a glass of water on the bedstand and i told her i was going to get her a sippy cup...snowballed from there...i didn't end up telling her, she just...knew?!

My wife is indifferent to the whole thing. She knows and makes a few comments here and there but nothing too fun. If she only knew. We are connected on every other level just not that one. We have a great sex life just without my kink. its frusterating some days.

Women can be very understanding, my wife was which i sort of new she would be. Thats what i love about her plus other things.

I've been married nearly 25 years and my wife knows about my fetish. For a while she even went to the chemist with me and bought some plastic pants plus white towels for nappies. Things were fine for a few months until I took matters too far for her and now she will only let me suckle her (which she loves!) and she'll smother Johnson's lotion on me. Unfortunately, we rarely talk about nappies etc now, and if I were to try to bring the subject up she responds negatively.

I would go ahead and tell her i think most wifes like to hear their husbands sexual desiers, i was the same way but she loves it now and wears diapers also.

When I told mi wife she was not pleased because I took too long to tell her, after a lot of time and begging she diapered me once. She laid me down on a towel and pulled mi pants and underwear down and took a diaper out of mi bag(it was an attends with the cartoon strip from an old pampers babi dri taped on it) and let me cuddle in her lap while I wet. then she changed me into a luvs sz 6 which she bareli got me into and all she said was- does that feel good?