Is anal sex with a partner better than anal toys?

I am lucky my Lady Friend love anal to receive and to give, recently she starts to use some toys on me. A partner is nice, a toy is good, both at the same time are incredible.

I am a straight male who has never had the real thing in my butt but I absolutely love having my butt filled with butt plugs and other anal toys. If the opportunity presented itself I might be willing to try anal sex but for now I am extremely happy with just my plugs and probes.

I think what we can safely deduce from a variety of comments, is that the desire of some men to be fucked in the ass by another man has very little to do with being gay, bisexual or whatever. As TJM pointed out, he is a straight male who is anally erotic. Just like a lot of other men, including myself. Sexual orientation has to to with being romantically/sexually attracted to a particular gender - anal eroticism is just something a lot of people are into because, well, it's sexually pleasurable.

Although I have never "crossed the line" of having another man screw me in the ass (and have anybody who may get to know about it summarily declare me to be gay or bi), I think it must be an exhilarating experience. I would assume the real deal is probably better than toys.

I have always preferred a real penis to a dildo. The feel is better and my partner is in control which I find exciting. Toys don't cum inside me either.

A partner is better, but a partner with toys is great.

Never done it, but it's a frequent masturbation fantasy of mine, (while I'm tied up and an audience is watching.) I wouldn't do it unless my wife and I wanted to try a threesome because I've promised to always be faithful to her. I know I'd love it because I love my wife to peg me.

If you've never experienced anal sex with another man, check out this discussion and read the post by AnythingAnal:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=831604

Well I've yet to experience a REAL COCK in my SMOOTH/TIGHT "VIRGIN ASS" but I do enjoy Big Orgasms using a Vibrator in my Ass!! I can only imagine the Orgasm I would have as a Throbbing/HARD/HOT Well Lubed COCK is eased into my HOT ASS slowly until it is in Balls Deep? I'm sure I would Orgasm VERY SOON!! It doesn't take me long with a Vibrator to Orgasm so a REAL COCK(average to Thin)would be even More Arousing/Satisfying??

A dildo feels great, a plug, wonderful. It is lots of fun, you can have a plug or large dildo in your ass and then a dildo in you vagina.

But, but, but, the real thing! The real thing, a real, flesh and blood, hard cock in your ass, spreading you, his body, hot flesh touching yours. Maybe whispering dirty things in your ear (on your stomach, ass up). Not only the sensation(s) but the mental part making you feel you are being taken, doing something really taboo.

There is nothing like it. No words to describe.

At any point of time sex between two human is more enjoyable than a toy because human has sense of control but toys don't.

I love both, and I orgasm like a monster from either, but they are completely different. The human contact is one thing, A big throbbing dick is a different feeling, and we can talk and vary what we're doing. Feeling a man come in my ass is like no other. Also, we can cuddle (I know, a girl thing).

All my dildos are bigger than any dick I've ever seen. I love them, and like the challenge of getting something that huge into me. I can usually come just from inserting something that big. A real world penis size dildo wouldn't do the job.

There are disadvantages to the real thing- Doing a little oral on him to get ready, and oops, 'I didn't mean to come in your mouth'. I was with a guy recently that went soft three times during sex, I'd climb on top of his guide his hard cock into my rectum, and...soft again. Viagra has fixed most of this. If he comes during foreplay, he'll be ready to go again soon, and going soft usually isn't an issue. Viagra was the greatest thing EVER invented for men who are a little older. Downside, a guy fucked me for so long, I switched to a reverse cowgirl so I could see the T.V. LOL.

Yes, a human being is much better than a toy but, I do love my toys.

I can now say, from experience, a real cock is better than a toy. Pegging is pretty close though!

Anal with my wife is great. And i love my dildos. I'm trying to encourage my wife to use dildos on me.

To each there own. I would try it, personally I enjoy both for me the bigger the better partly why I got into fisting. Butt like I said to each their own. Just saying

Depends on what you mean. Is anal sex with a real penis better than toys? I can't say, and I'm not interested in finding out. Is anal sex with a real partner but using things other than penises (fingers, toys, etc.) better than toys used solo? Hell yes (provided, of course, that your partner is willing, interested and, ideally, enthusiastic. If your partner doesn't want to do it then maybe not).

Anal with my guy is really wonderful, much better than a sex toy. He has a tiny penis so it doesn't stretch me or go in very deeply. He is very gentle and and massages me in front while doing my rear to give me a a nice orgasm. And sometimes he gives me a pee enema too.

There’s differences between a real penis and a dildo. For example, a dildo can’t ejaculate and they’re not warm and pulsing. Also, you can do much less work with a real penis, because the guy can fuck you without you having to do anything. You could be sitting on top while he pounds your ass, and you don’t need to do anything unless you want to grind on it.

I can't see how having the real thing can compare to a toy.

Feeling him inside me, pulling my hair, grabbing my hips, smacking my ass, caressing, rubbing, nibbling, biting. Feeling his breath on my neck, hearing him ,talk to me, his breathing change, him moaning and feeling him cum in my ass ... oh my ! Then collapsing on top of each other in utter bliss . Nothing compares !

The warmth, ejaculation, pulsating feelings of a real penis can't be replaced with a dildo or any other toys

A toy can never replace the real thing. A toy can be used if your boyfriend is gone and you feel a dire need to have anal sex. I can tell you from a personal view a toy is not used often because a throbbing penis in your ass rhythmicly go in and out at a steady speed cannot be replaced. Also when he cums in your ass and the cum rolls out and down your leg nothing can replace. I would have to say that Bridgette's description is beutiful and exactly as my thoughts.

You're not putting anything in me, anywhere, if you don't kiss it first.

You're not putting anything in me, anywhere, if you don't kiss it first.

@ginnie Exactly right! I always heard it as "If you don't lick it, you can't stick it!" which I wholeheartedly agree with!

Ginnie , of course ! 😉

@ginnie I agree with you Ginnie, kiss it and lick it 1st. 😜

Anal penetration is definitely better than a toy. But I love being fucked in the pussy when having a vibrator in my anus.

Suppose it depends on the toy being used or the partner involved or both !!

With my husband for sure! We kiss and talk to one another. Sexy communication is important for us. My pink glass dildo plays second fiddle.

Happy to have found this thread as I was going to ask the same question. I enjoy plugs and a dildo I have about the same size that my penis is. I have enjoyed anal with a couple of women through out the years and wondered what it would feel like to that something my size up my butt. I’m not excessively long, but, at the base, pretty wide. Turns out I really like it. Maybe someday the real thing will enter my life... and my ass

I've been playing with anal toys for over 20 years but I've have absolutely no interest in other men. Now Fully passable pre-op or non-operative Trans-women who love topping on the other hand are a different story. I've been with dozens and the feeling is usually great! Once you've found one who's not ashamed of using her "extra long clit" (the way cis-women use strap on's) and doesn't charge you for it, I'm good to go.

As for which is better, sometimes it depends on the sexual compatibility of Trans-woman in question (some of them cum too fast ) and on the sex toy I'm using (mastering 10' or larger dildo's that are ribbed with a suction base can be steep competition). Same goes for certain pussy out there that isn't better than simply jerking off that night.