Deep breaths and panting

When I first started getting enemas mom always had me to pant, like a puppy as she give me my enemas, now I know it helps the water go in easier or take lone deep breaths . Now to hear someone pant or take deep breaths while taking a enema is a turn on for me, knowing there getting a tummy ache. anyone here agree? 😄

Just a brief comment. for a woman, cramps will almost go away with massaging of the nipples or clitoris during an enema---plus it feels great.

I also had my mother make me pant as a child when receiving enemas and it is a major turn-on for me now. It did/does seem to alleviate cramping . . . perhaps it relaxes the colon

I always pant and breath heavey when my wife gives me enemas aalso she dose the same when i giver her one

Panting helps me when three quarts of the enema are already in, and I have another quart or more to go. It does help with cramping and to allow more enema to be administered.

I really enjoy looking at extending belly of my girlfriend and her panting is an additional bonus. And girls like kalee, who is excellent submissive makes the experience perfect

The cramps and getting through them is what leads to such intense pleasure for myself. I love having them knowing that on the other side will be such deep orgasms. The cramps allow me to let go. Such a reward to say the least mmmmmmmm 😃

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The cramps and getting through them is what leads to such intense pleasure for myself. I love having them knowing that on the other side will be such deep orgasms. The cramps allow me to let go. Such a reward to say the least mmmmmmmm 😃

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At times I will make the water cool to produce cramps. Also, hanging it high helps produce cramps for me. I understand how you would like that. It seems to me close to a punishment enema. - Vicki

I absolutely agree. I, too, had to "pant like a puppy" during my enemas when the pressure began to build. This was common practice at the St. Thomas hospital where I had many hot, soapy enemas given to me as well as at home.

When I was going through natural childbirth classes with my wife many years ago, the instructor (female) would show everyone the breathing techniques the expectant mothers should use during contractions, which were essentially quick, shallow panting. She said if the fathers wanted to see just how effective these breathing techniques were, they should go home and allow their wives give them a high enema, using a full 2 quart bag with very warm soapy water. Unfortunately, my wife didn't follow up, and I was too shy to ask.

Deep breathing IS part of the retention process. When you're not sure you can hold it, a few very deep slow breaths, and you CAN hold it a little longer.

As for panting. When it gets to that, you've overdone it!

Slow deep breaths work best for me, while I have had partners who panted their way through a fill. Both methods seem to work, and I find the sound of a woman using either method provides me with both the excitement of knowing she is totally involved-mind and body- with the enema she is getting as well as provideing me with an audible indicator of her distress level. This way I know when she has gone past being challenged and is starting to be overwhelmed by the experiance. Overwhelmed, she probably will stop enjoying the session. If she doesn't have fun, she may choose not to play next time!

I typically do medium, to shallow breaths. If I take big deep breaths it seems to put a lot more pressure down there when I start to get full. But sometimes I have to remind myself to breath otherwise the cramps become to unbearable especially with a soapy enema.

Never thought about trying to control my breathing. Something I'll have to check out next time!

Isn't it necessary to take shallow breaths - or pant - if you take a large enema, more than 4 quarts? Once you have that much water inside you, there's less room to take deep breaths.

Depends on how much your taking, however if your going to cramp your going to cramp. but if it works for you then great.

My mom always coached me during my enema sessions. i had deep cramping during hhese i see now very very soapy enemas. she would keep telling me i needed to keep taking long deep breaths. i remember hearing the solution gurgling deep inside me and my mom acting so proud. Please add moms_enemas if you have yahoo messenger.

Same my mom taught me to breathin and blow out .still love to hear that sound .

I was never told to pant, but take nice slow deep breaths instead. But often when struggling to take the last few ounces in the bag or waiting those last few minutes before deciding to expel I have often resorted to curling my toes as the pressure builds.

As a kid I was instructed to take slow deep breaths through an open mouth. It was awful anyway. I was also cautioned not to hold the pipe too tight as this would make the enema harder to take. I'm not sure about that bit of advice. I had to struggle to hold it in. I was amazed that the agony continued as long as the clamp was open. The enema can was a bit too high on a hook under the window. Unnnnhhh....... I always got at least one sharp cramp and yelped. She would click it off until I said, "Okay".

I love to hear my enema giver say "pant like a puppy, it'll help the water go in deeper". 😃

My mom told me to take slow deep breaths when I felt cramps or a strong need to go during an enema.

My mom would stop the flow from the enema can momentarily or, later, let me close the hose clamp to have me take deep breaths to hold in more of the soapy water. My colon therapist also advises that to her clients with the closed system, just as she learned from her mother in the enema golden age.

Where to begin? Ah- My childhood was not one of memorable "given to me" enemas in frequency. the few memorable ones from others? I've little recollect of breathing being mentioned during my earlier enemas. The most memorable Barium X-Ray session however- involved me being told repeatedly to breathe slowly and deeply as I'd be asked to hold my breath for pictures. Being told- . "Breathe, breathe - old your breathtil the pictures are done.. hold.. Breathe for a while.. as that lumpy paddle moved under me moving my guts around. . That's the earliest deep memory from others.

That session cemented my deepest love of LARGE enemas. It and earlier.. research at "Dead Tree" Libraries. introduced associations of childbirth/prep for it.

Snipped for perhaps a longer blogpost.. I'd self taught Lamaze over some time and when I's begun slipping into it in various situations- the evoked memories often were interesting.

And.. literally this morning.. I'd only had time for a quickie but It went in so much more enjoyably by pant pant blow during the fill. With a switch to deep slow for about ten minutes of very relaxing holding. Emptying also usually is slow and deep breaths. Giggle- Ganesh Incense makes it a lot more pleasant.

Associated comment- Using the clamp to rest. I rarely did so for me. The few from others? Memory varies as such. I've at times experimented wit clamp rests as opposed to just a comfy bag height. Height setting and steady flow seems best for me. .

For a 2 or 3 qt enema, deep breathing is so much a part of the retention process that I consider it completely routine. It's part of how you retain a high volume enema for 15 minutes. What I consider at least as important, if not more: I keep an old, but freshly washed washcloth or dish towel within easy reach. I can use it as a bite rag and/or a squeeze rag, as needed.

LisaK is right. Deep breathing is a fundamental part of retaining a large volume enema. I generally enjoy a 3-4 quart enema and hold it about 10-15 minutes. Deep breaths allow the fullness to be tolerable while not hyperventilating.

Breathing moves the diaphragm which moves the whole lower body thus breathing techniques are important to relaxation and creates wave action of the water as it fills.

Yes, what Tom said. The deep breathing for me does produce a wave like action. In my experience, exhaling a deep breath while taking seems to pull the water into me and I find it to be very satisfying when I begin to approach maximum volume.

Lamaze breathing isn't only for childbirth!

During my first root canal, I did the deep breathing, sniff-puffs and the hee-hee's that I learned in Lamaze with first wife. The endodontist stopped and asked what I was doing--I told him and he thought it was an excellent idea. (I didn't tell him they worked on 2+ qt. enemas also)