Looking back if you where punished with an enema ,looking back do you find it erotic ?
Actually yes, in hindsight I found most punishment enemas quite erotic... the overall scene, the punishment part, any followup action... while its rather hard during play, I still like it when looking back.
I had a few when I was a kid -- wasn't as erotic as the others because I knew when my dad got home the enema was going to be trivial -- a few years ago I was dating a pro mistress - she had her dom life and my corporate life and the two really did not mix - she had a whole different fantasy thing with me -- so honey how was your day - was not a main topic.
She knew I like enemas and one day she got really pissed at me -- she came back out in a nurse outfit with my bag and said I was going to get an enema -- so I willingly complied - she spanked my ass so hard I almost took her out - then I realized that I crossed some kind of line with her and now I was not her boyfriend, I was a client -- she filled the bag, no lube with a big nozzle and jammed it up my ass - then held the bag as high as she could and released the clamp -- the water was extra hot and abrupt and I had a tough time holding it -- she started screaming don't you dare let one drop go -- while she was holding the bag, her nurse outfit hiked up and she had no panties and I could see her pussy was wet -- that's when it became a turn on -- we finished -- then she calmed down -- we were together for another year or so and it never happened again - even though I said I wanted to -- she did not want to mix things up. Anyway - would like to do that again!
I've talked about this before... I made a terrible mistake when I was a kid. A retarded man lived across the street from our house. We often visited him and he us. One day, I was over at his house and for some reason or another, I, using a 3 penny nail, scratched the following words into his tile floor. "Mom, will you please give me a big soapy enema. I really need it."
Anyway, I went home and found Mom sitting in her easy chair smoking one of her Salem cigarettes. I made small talk and then went to my room. A few minutes later, the phone rang. I heard Mom talking on it, then she came to my room and said she had to go next door for a few minutes. (I knew what that was about and I got this sinking feeling in my gut.)
A few minutes later, Mom returned. She slammed the front door shut and screamed "Mike!' A second or so later, she blasted into my room screaming "Mike, how could you?" I just looked up at her. She then grabbed a hold of my arm and pulled me up off of my bed yelling "So, you want a big, soapy enema, am I right? Well, you are going to get it and you will not forget this one son, so you won't!" With that said, Mom pulled me out of my room, through, the dining room, the small hallway outside her bathroom and finally into her bathroom where she opened the white cabinet that held towels and other things. She reached in, pulled out her Rexall Victoria Combination bottle and syringe. Then she pointed it at me and said "Mike, I am so mad at you! How could you be so stupid? You will not forget this enema, I promise." With that said she let go of my arm and began the preparation of my enema. She turned on the hot water in the sink. When it was running hot, she put the bag into the flow. I watched as the bag filled. When it was brim full she turned off the water, held the bag up for me to see. Next, she took the liquid Ivory soap that was on the sink's counter and squeezed five or six squirts of the liquid soap into the bottle. Then she attached the tubing to the bottle. When it was secure, Mom shook the bottle back and forth, back and forth. When she thought that she had mixed the water and soap mixture enough, Mom walked over to the wall and hung the bottle by its bottom tab. I, immediately, heard this blop, blop, blop sound as the water filled the hose,. Mom turned toward me and yelled, "get out of those shorts son. I am not playing!" I reluctantly did as I was told. Then, I kneeled down in front of the toilet assuming my normal knee chest position. Mom slapped my bare butt. Then, she pulled on my left butt cheek and slipped the enema pipe into my waiting rectum. I knew what was coming and she did not disappoint me. Mom stood above me. I looked up and saw that she had one hand on the hose and the other was attached to the bottle. She was gently squeezing it. I was in Heaven, yet I did not want Mom to know that. Finally, the bag was empty. I started to get up. But, Mom with the hand that she had on the hose pushed me back down. "Not yet Son, I ain't finished with your big, hot, soapy enema that you wanted so bad." Mom took the bottle down, unscrewed the hose, turned on the hot water again, and fixed me a second bag of water. Soon, she had it flowing into me again. If I hadn't been in Heaven before, I was now. Ounce by ounce the flow filled my gut. I was sad when Mom snapped the hose's shut-off clamp the second time. This time she removed the nozzle from my rectum and allowed me to sit down on the toilet to release the water that had been injected into me.. Later, Mom came in and asked was it worth it? I smiled up at her and said, "Mom, I love you."
The last time that I was punished with an enema was several years ago. I was given a spanking, followed by a vinegar & water enema. It seemed to give me a stinging feeling inside. I did find it to be erotic.
My favorite punishment enemas were the ones I got from my brothers, who copied what my dad had done but were a lot less severe and rather exciting. We were four boys who grew up getting punishment enemas including spankings and began to incorporate them into out teenage dominance and submission games with each other. It was a lot more fun that what my father dished out to us when we misbehaved😃
Even punishment enemas from my aunt were erotic difficult but erotic
A certain lady friend will give me a larger enema than I find comfortable then makes me retain it while she plays with my erection but never lets me cum and tells me the painful things that will happen to my erection if I leak enema.
I've only had punishment enemas in a play situation. I think to have them in real life might be appalling. That said the "punishment enemas" I had were totally da kine. I loved them. "This is for your own good and you're going to take it all." and "I've made it really soapy and it's very large and I don't want to hear you whine or snivel!"
My wife uses large enemas on me for two purposes 1) medical (constipation, mostly) 2) "bad attitude". The first "punishment" I got was a mix of the two reasons. I had come back home drunk very late, she was worried. The morning after I woke with a headache and stomach ache, feeling nauseous - hangover.
The gave me a glass of water, ordered me to go to the loo do #1 and #2, and then I was in for a surprise - she filled the enema bag. Instead of having me lay on the bed, I was to kneel on the bathroom floor with my butt in the air. She smacked my buttocks several times. Then I got the enema. It fixed my hangover to some extent (less stomach ache, for once) but it was humiliating.
Yes very much so no choice in solutions, volume,positions or hold time. And conversations about how I know you like it.
In sixty-five years of receiving enemas, none have been given in anger, forced, or as a punishment, yet I turned the majority of them erotic in my own mind. I am supremely jealous of those who write here about receiving large soapy enemas from lady friends. How I’d love to find such a woman, friend or stranger, who’d forcefully fill me repeatedly, insist on inspecting the results, and keep it up over several hours before finally ordering me to return the favor.
It's interesting. Is there any punishment enema for enema receiving lovers? It ’s paradoxical. Any enema could be reward. Perhaps the best punishment is to ban enema.
Related ( I assume): there is a really hot punishment enema scene in the "Coven" season of American Horror Story.
Season 3, Episode 8 - The Sacred Taking
Not that hot.
Only as I got older did they get kind of erotic. From around age 10 to age 14 I never looked forward to a punishment enema. The bag was placed on the shower curtain rod about 5 feet from where I was positioned over my mothers, Step-dad, Aunts, or Uncles lap with my naughty bare bottom already red from a spanking. Once the clip was opened, after the nozzle was placed into my well lubed rosebud hole, the water came very fast which created massive cramps. This was the worst punishment and only given if I had done something majorly wrong. Once the bag was empty and the clip closed, I had to hold the liquid in my cramping belly for at least five minutes. I was crying because of the pain. Once I was done evacuating, I had to bend over the sink and let the person who gave me the enema wipe my dirty bottom. So Embarrassing.
At age 15, the thought of the punishment enema strangely gave me a hard on. And so it began.
were not all the enemas you had to endure as a child always a form of punishment? At least that's how I felt. I can not remember showing my butt down voluntarily for an enema of my mother; but on the contrary.
Each enema was accompanied by much nagging and shouting. From time to time, I also got a few slaps on my butt. Not a single enema was a pleasure.
When I visited friends in the past, I sometimes saw red rubber pears in their baths. Some were much bigger than the ones we had at home. I remember once picking up a giant red rubber bulb. Inwardly I felt the desire that my boyfriend's mother would come to the bathroom and punish me with this enema bulb in my ass. At the thought it was cold on my back and was very surprised about such thoughts. But as long as I waited, she did not come in ...
Here, apparently, unconsciously laid the foundation for my preference for enemas.
Today, enemas are part of our erotic and sexuality. I love giving enemas for punishment to my wife, as well as getting some from her.
@Neptun said. . . . were not all the enemas you had to endure as a child always a form of punishment? . . . .
. . . . were not all the enemas you had to endure as a child always a form of punishment? . . . .
Many parents used them when they or their children were constipated
NO.Many parents used them when they or their children were constipated
Definitely not! Agree with Susie. Mom was an RN nurse. Only for constipation. And I enjoyed them.
Can you describe what goes on when you and your wife give each other punishment enemas? What kind of solutions, retentions, other activities, etc? Are all your enemas for real punishment or are we talking Dom/sub sexual scenes between you and your wife where you each enjoy the Dom or sub role?
I'm a switch and like getting my erotic enemas as a sub from a Domme GF. Real punishment enemas I've never had and would detest.
as a child, you felt that way ..., at least that's what I felt. Could one already recognize the good aspect behind the enemas received at this age? They were simply uncomfortable, and felt like a punishment.
Some people will probably see it differently. That's ok too.
Hias a child, you felt that way ..., at least that's what I felt. Could one already recognize the good aspect behind the enemas received at this age? They were simply uncomfortable, and felt like a punishment.Some people will probably see it differently. That's ok too.regardsNeptun
What you say here makes sense. My mom was an RN Nurse, very loving, and only used enemas on us very sparingly for constipation. I guess I was lucky in that she gave them expertly with no intention of causing discomfort and I do remember enjoying the very few I had. It's understandable that a lot of kids might view them as a punishment or at least uncomfortable or painful for various reasons. I'm glad your experience didn't keep you from enjoying trading them with your wife as part of sexuality today.
One time,as a kid I had disrespected my mom somehow and she said “ get upstairs,I’m going to give you an enema”,well I loved her enemas ,and she new it ! so I was sitting on a stool in the bathroom with a big hardon,she came in with a bulging bag,told me to get over her lap ,lubed the long curved douche nozzle and my butt and slid it in,I remarked that the nozzle was cold because usually she would run hot water over it until it was nice and warm.Then she opened the clamp and freezing cold water entered me! I was yelling and begging her to stop ,she made me take it all ! And there ice cubes in the bag! She let me expell after she asked me if I was ever going to disrespect her again? I quickly said no.She then warned me that all my enemas would be cold if I disobeyed her again,so I was a good boy after that ordeal!
Understandable. That would be extremely unpleasant for me. I once placed 2-3 ice cubes ("half moons") in my butt at a GFs request and it was so painful that I had to expel them in a minute or two.
Vicks,extra soap, molasses
For me the very idea that an enema is going to be a "punishment" makes it 100% more fun. A large volume,a more harsh or hard to hold or really hot or really cold solution,a longer retention time. It can be given really fast so it's super crampy or really slow so it seems to take forever. You can be tied down and restrained so you get in the headspace that you feel helpless.
All you can do is be a squirmie mess and whine and complain but it doesn't matter, your gagged and bound and taking it all whether you like it or not. There are so many ways to have fun with a punishment enema if your feeling creative and take enough time to come up with a good situation to do it.
I have a completely contrary opinion on this. For me an enema should never be given for punishment. There are other things that a parent can do, however, and I won't discuss them here. But if we give an enema for punishment that idea sticks in the child's head so that when we need to give them an enema for health reasons there will be resistance and when you think about it, that's a reasonable reaction. No, an enema needs to be given when appropriate, but misbehavior should not be one of those reasons.
I agree with E mom insofar as children go. I believe they should find their own way and we should not condition them and I think enemas for punishment do that . As an adult that kind of enema might give rise to many arousing scenes and fantasies. But what is a punishment enema. It to me could be as simple as a large hard to hold crampy enema. Shouldn’t be to cause pain but discomfort I can live with and understand why so many feel that it has its benefits both from arousal and form a penance point of view. But as for kids NO. . Let them discover on their own.
I have had a number of punishment enemas in the past. They were online with the domme watching or in an open cam situation to add to the punishment. Erotic? Maybe a bit. Humiliating? Definitely! I am a humiliation sub so being punished is a huge part of my experiences. Humiliation is a form of punishment and enemas have played a part in several of my punishments. I have also done a number of online enema sessions with friends or even casual contacts. They can definitely be very arousing sexually, so I guess a bit erotic depending on the situation. But for punishment enemas, I found them more embarrassing/humiliating than anything else.
No, I never had a real punishment enema, only sometimes challenging or difficult but consensual enemas given by my ex Domme to me as part of our mutually planned and enjoyed D/s sexual enema scenes. Any challenging or difficult enema she ever gave me during D/s sexual enema play was received as at worst an interesting part of her desire to enjoy her Domme role over me. For example, when she overdid the Castile soap or glycerin and gave me unexpectedly strong cramps. So I let her know with vocal moans and complaints how successful she was being in dominating me (which she loved hearing) but never needed to safeword out of it and still found it erotic. Childhood enemas, very few, were only for constipation from my expert RN mom, and I do recall not minding but probably enjoying those. So every enema I've ever had either solo or given to me has been erotic other than childhood when I didn't understand eroticism yet.
I have always wanted to try a punishment enema. Maybe a larger volume, some added ingredients that makes it more uncomfortable, and larger nozzle and maybe a large plug to be inserted to make sure i hold it for the required amount of time. And maybe a good ole spanking before or while being forced to hold it!
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